Posted: 2017-10-12 19:56
Most of the things here is true, about the girls. I actually thought of all this as bullshit until I actually traveled alot and realized that girls in Sweden actually is the most freaking sexy in the world. But the facts about the swedish dudes, not true. For example: We get more social when we drink(who doesn 8767 t ?), but we are absolutly not incapable of having a conversation. THe only thing here that 8767 s actually is completly true is the look of the swedish people. They are very good-looking, both men and women. And everyone loves to party
That sounds very good, Im not shy to ask but I dont want to appear like a hopeless case either. I dont want to make it look like Im trying to pick up the girl however, Im already have someone that I am interessting in. So if I asked a latin girl to teach me how to dance salsa, would she see it as a way to pick her up?, or just as something fun?. Is there a way to tell her in spanish in a nice way to say that I just want to be friends with her?. And I will memorize that spanish line you gave me. Currently I only know how to order beer in spanish =P.
As for the foreign thing, forget it if you 8767 re a middle-eastern/african man. Swedish girls like their americans/italians/french. The racism in Sweden has skyrocketed since 7555 and while we men would not mind to date foreigners i think the women are more conservative cus of the 8775 8776 -generalization that swedish women make of men of color. Simply put, they would not feel safe dating an arabic/african man cus they think he 8767 s a rapist. That 8767 s what i 8767 ve gathered from living in a small town, medium-sized town and now Uppsala.
I used to think that this coldness/reservedness was characteristic of 8775 Scandinavia 8776 in general, but I met a few Norwegian girls this summer who were super fun, outgoing, and warm towards their boyfriends. So maybe try Norway?
Has anyone else noticed this difference? (or it might just be these particular Norwegians I met, after all, they were in an exchange program in the US, so that by itself may speak of their personalities).
I wanted to point out a few observations in reading comments. First I saw a few people who had an overall unhappy negative tone talk about how Americans are fake always asking 8775 how are you doing? 8776 . Well if you had been in the USA very long you would realize that most Americans do not tend to hide how we feel at all. You are applying your own culture in assuming we are not actually happy or being our 8775 REAL SELF 8776 with you. Takes notes those who defend and glamorize your self proclaimed fake personas.
I agree with Celine, a hilarious read. I 8767 m a Swedish guy living in the ., married to an American girl. As someone who has also had Swedish girlfriends, I think you 8767 re missing a few points. Although I know this is not a sociological dissertation, in my experience, the Swedish girl you are describing and what she is supposed to prefer, seems based on a lower class, lower education stereotype, or alternatively, a part of the 8775 new conservative 8776 streak you can detect in Sweden.
Opinions differ and of course that will have people who will not like some. But what is the problem of finding the swedes more beautiful than american ones? I find romanian women beautiful, and by far more pleasant that swedish and american. Problem? Taste is particular, each has its own. And it certainly does not mean that I think all the american and swedish women are ugly, or autocrats and self-serving. The problem with people who take themselves too seriously is that they end up offended for any little thing.
Sadly, as a male living in Sweden, I find myself unable to disagree with anything in Yan 8767 s post (except possibly for the picking up women in Scandinavia bit while the militant feminism movement has spread all over Scandinavia, its hold isn 8767 t nearly as strong in the other countries as it is in Sweden, so the 8775 other 8776 Scandinavian women are more tolerable and tolerant by-and-large compared to Swedish women).
However, with that equality comes a cost. Everything that happens has a cost (positive and negative, called externalities). When women gain more power/income/rights there are benefits and drawbacks. We see as positive externalities: higher education, higher incomes, independence, and so forth. Negative externalities could be: less women at home with the children, more competitive in the workplace, the need for reverse gender discrimination (one person on every public board of directors must be a women), and in my opinion, a certain elemental loss of 8775 being a man. 8776
Hello ya 8767 ll!! i am from the USA and i have a great interest in Swedish women! the first ever Swedish woman i have ever talked to was over Twitter she sings for a metal band and since she was the first Swede i ever talked to i find they are very nice people and kool!! i need some help on something what do Swedish women think of Americans? and musicians? me being one playing bass ) haha! i have Swedish blood in my veins so i have traits of the Swedish i am 6 8797 8 8798 tall blue eyes and brown hair and pretty shy and dont talk much but when i do like Swedes it is short and to the point!! i am 69 btw! i have grown more fond of Swedish women as times goes on!! i like that Swedish women are strong i find it really kool!! and they will ask a guy out! or so i have heard? lol well peace out for now!!! \m/
I do notice that the Nordic background-Canadians tend to have a 8766 cool 8767 almost white blond hair color as children that darkens over time to non-blond ashy color while the Ukrainian Canadian background here often have golden blond hair that doesn 8767 t darken but turns brassy/more golden with age. Maybe it 8767 s different in the actual countries but that 8767 s been my observation living in Canada. Another Nordic might pick out my Nordic background but here in North America if you aren 8767 t blond don 8767 t try passing for a Viking at Halloween. No one will be convinced. Being blond is all you have to be to look 8775 Nordic 8776 . That 8767 s the stereotype of Swedes and other Nordics in Canada anyway. Don 8767 t know how true it is.
I love all that internet macho crap lol. 8775 bring yo punk ass to LA bro and i 8767 ll beat you to a pulp! 8776 8776 bring yo punk ass to Detroit and i 8767 ll beat you,shoot yo dog! 8776
8775 Umm ok..just let me book flights and pay a fortune so you can beat me ! You want to beat me up then you 8767 ll be getting all the fun,so you f 8776 8767 ing pay and do all the travelling to come to me! 8776
8775 Machismo 8776 love it! :)
Yeah, I agree, it is pretty uncomfortable. Maybe she just wanted to respect her boyfriend as some men could get jealous if they see their girl teaching another guy how to dance. But if you still want to learn, I 8767 ve found some good dancing classes on youtube, just type 8775 how to dance salsa 8776 . And the good thing is that if you are kind of shy of looking like a fool, this is a good way to learn. And also you can repeat it over and over until you get it!
I 8767 ve been hit on by all sorts of foreigners, and I usually try to avoid conversing with them at all because they have that leering look and seem to think I should jump into bed with them immediately due some sort of genetic imprint. Thank God I could walk up to and talk to my own man that I 8767 ve married and been with for the past 65 years. And for the record, he didn 8767 t try any lines with me the first time we spoke, but actually followed my conversation in Philosophy and assumed that I had a brain.
I 8767 m kinda confused, I 8767 m a swedish man and apperantly we have lost our balls to femenism and tight jeans. Losing our balls to femenism kinda doesn 8767 t go along with being emotionally distant and drinking too much does it? Also, we fight allot. And neither me or any of my friends have any pare of tight jeans, thats just gay. Plus swedish guys have the same geenes as swedish women, wich is kinda why swedish guys aren 8767 t that bad looking either.
I have enjoyed everyone 8767 s thoughts. I 8767 m a single American woman interested in finding a loving mate to start a family with. I 8767 ve been contemplating doing the online dating thing, and I 8767 ve been trying to identify the characteristics that most appeal to me in men. I 8767 m tall, athletic (in spite of my relative inactivity), blue-eyed, and physically a bit of a throw-back to my Swedish great-grandfather 8767 s family. I 8767 m really a Northern-European American mutt.
I found your blog through oh, I don 8767 t know, some google search or other sometimes I like to read about places I 8767 ve been or lived in my spare time and thought your post on what is acrid and detestable about Sweden was a riot a laugh riot, that is, and I 8767 m not being condescending in any serious way I genuinely found it rather entertaining, as satire goes. The comments were something else, but then, obviously that 8767 s not your fault.
But could I fit in? Are there Swedish girls who want a traditional family and want to attend church and pray together (or at least can be missionary dated, lol, j/k). Many Christian girls in the US who want this are waaay too conservative, often superstitious, and do not think critically. I feel like I don’t fit in either way. Are there Swedish girls who have the best of both worlds who might be into my type?
I tried to post a few profiles on the popular 8776 Montesplaten 8776 swedish dating site. That 8767 s been recommended as one of the more popular and serious singles sites in Sweden. The impression I got though is, if you are a foreigner. Their site monitors who screen potentioal users are unwilling to accept your profile submission. They send you a message that your bio presentation isn 8767 t serious and acceptable for their site. Particularly, if it 8767 s writtenin english, and if your photo 955X555 isn 8767 t
Of the guys I got to know fairly well, none drank to excess, or at all while I was with them. They enjoyed good conversation. Some were more intellectually curious than others, some more mature than others. But most weren 8767 t the shy, repressed types that this blog promotes as typical. Nor were they obsessed with their looks. All were average-looking, one was overweight. I can only conclude that all the 8775 gorgeous 8776 men this site discusses are in Stockholm. Same regarding the women I only met average-looking women, and the ones in the north, at least, tended to be pudgy, though I didn 8767 t meet many. I 8767 m only saying there 8767 s a lot of variety of types in Sweden, as in any country.