Posted: 2017-09-12 01:36
Pretty much everything on that list is exaggerated. If there is any swedish male that has all those flaws, it wont be because he is swedish, it would be because he is mentally disturbed lol. Some guy here and there could have 6 or 7 of them, but every guy I know and talk to at work/parties/whatever would pretty much laugh their asses off if they heard about any guy, swedish or otherwise who would act like that list describes.
The things i would call out on swedish guys are probably that we 8767 re obsessed with looks. Since we 8767 re a shallow people (girls/boys) we pay much attention to how we look. For example i 8767 ve seen american dudes that dont care AT ALL about their apperances, don 8767 t fix their hair, no proper clothes etc, and still end up with good looking women. I always say, if those american women would come to sweden, they would be shocked with how fit/good looking/sensitive but manly a swedish guy is. Not shy, drunk and boring. But hey, focus on the negatives.
I just have to say that the things that 8767 s written on the top off the site may be true, but not for everyone!.. I have brown hair, i don 8767 t hate Swedish men and I know many men that isn 8767 t snåla (greedy).
And that part about feminism, you make it sound like you don 8767 t like it.. I would not wanna be together with a man that think men are more worth than women. At least that 8767 s what i think..
At the same time I don`t think it`s a 8775 new prefrence 8776 that swedish women has built up to foreign men, it`s always been there with the same love as they have for swedish men. It`s just that now when we live in a more liberal soceity that they can show it without beeing socially outcasts. Something women from other parts of the world should strive for. Then again it`s, as you say, only partly true and far from many swedish women prefer foreign men.
What if all the no-no that you have mentioned above is done by the guy instead? Like being very demanding, asking why am I moody and this and that, where have I been, why didn 8767 t I reply INSTANTLY anymore like I used to, making me feel pressured that he can 8767 t live without me in his life etc. How do I deal with it? I did tell him a few times that it 8767 s sometimes kind of annoying, but he says he gets it and goes back to doing it. And I feel I 8767 ll will burst if I have to repeat it again.
I loved the city and well, let 8767 s be honest fell IN love about once every three minutes. We went to one of the clubs and I was so overwhelmed by the number of gorgeous women that I had no idea what to say to any of them. Okay, yes, it 8767 s just as true that at the time I almost never knew what to say to meet women, even though I was/am(?) a pretty decent looking guy, tall, with a decent sense of humor once I got talking.
Come on! Dating is not a sport, if you think it is thats probably where you are going wrong. Find someone nice who likes you, thats all. If someone is not interested in you then its not because Swedes are hard work its because they are not interested in you. Move on to someone who is or make yourself more interesting. Swedes look at each other, you, they linger with stares. It couldn 8767 t be easier than to approach a Swede.
The people around me seemed to have some personal grudge against me simply because they could get away with it. My closest friends were my siblings and their friends who I think genuinely liked me only because I was introduced to them by my older siblings. But I always felt like the third wheel. My day consisted of going to school having the other kids make fun of me to the point where I considered suicide. I was coming home smiling on the outside but dying a little on the inside saying my day was good, and if I was lucky hanging out with my sisters 8767 and brothers 8767 friends to make me feel better and worse at the same time.
My boyfriend and I had been together for almost 7 years. He always uses to text me daily, call me at night, bring me out to date, being so nice to me. I know eventually all these will start to decrease eventually but recently, I 8767 m the one who start texting, calling, ask him out(which he complaints that his tired from work, but his eager when other people or his friends asked him out instead.) And when he make a mistake, he never apologised but put the blame on me in everything. I asked if he still love me, he say he always do but he doesnt seem like it is. He has been working as a bellman in a hotel, I understand his busy job but even so he always managed to text me during break. Now he always have excuses saying phone cant be used during work or even after work he would not even text me. Seeing me is like a burden now to him. He always said his working hard to marry me and I 8767 m not sure if that is an exuse for him to work and keep a distance from me.
I don 8767 t go up and talk to woman I think is the most beautiful, which I admit is cowardly. I 8767 m great around guys but horrible around girls. Honestly the ones I knew who are great with girls either don 8767 t revere them as much as I do (most likely my mistake) thus aren 8767 t afraid or are gay/metrosexual and aren 8767 t really interested in that way. It 8767 s funny because once I do I have a conversation I have a great time.
Wow what a response to your post. Spans the years and scrolls forever! Well done. May I add to it? Mine is a question. Years back and by years, I mean early 8767 95s, a friend and I had a chance to travel to Stockholm. I was much (late 75s), single (about a month after a painful breakup), and impressionable (I was knocked out by the preponderance of beauty roaming the Stockholm scene.)
I love all that internet macho crap lol. 8775 bring yo punk ass to LA bro and i 8767 ll beat you to a pulp! 8776 8776 bring yo punk ass to Detroit and i 8767 ll beat you,shoot yo dog! 8776
8775 Umm ok..just let me book flights and pay a fortune so you can beat me ! You want to beat me up then you 8767 ll be getting all the fun,so you f 8776 8767 ing pay and do all the travelling to come to me! 8776
8775 Machismo 8776 love it! :)
Hey YoÂ¡Â¡ First of all I''m not promoting But it happen every day just is not on the open, is kinda safe sex for the daughter cause daddy is teaching her, i think the only rule to do it is using condom. I''m doing it with Mine, she is about turn 67, and when We do it I treat her with care and all i want is that she get her best orgasm ever and learn How beautiful is, of course We''re keeping it in secret, But when the time comes for her to wouldn''t stop her, she got the right to make her life cause she deserves it,But even if she has to go I''ll love her forever, and think.. i understand that. What difference is about the gay shit ? About a woman get stuck by a horse?? Or like in the Ancient pompey man fucking a goat or a pig ?? You might think is disgusting and you might be right. But doing it with a girl even if that girl is your daughter ?? What is the difference ?? All of those "Situations" are the same they are forbiddenÂ¡Â¡ But it happens Â¡Â¡ Everybody has a fantasy, very deep inside us We have forbidden desires and it doesn''t mean is gross. Think about one forbidden desire or fantasy of yourself. Simple as that. Good luck Â¡Â¡
I don 8767 t know if you 8767 ve ever studied any rigid science, but one of its tenets is that you cannot generalize from a sample size as small as 8775 a few Swedish girlfriends 8776 . Indeed, you might want to ask yourself whether it is ever appropriate to generalize across human beings. Philosophical and ethical conundrums aside, the only way you could truly say that all Swedish women like (X) based on the information gleaned from your 8775 few Swedish girlfriends 8776 would be if that group somehow encompassed the entire female population of Sweden and I don 8767 t think it does, unless you and I have somehow become bosom-buddies without my knowledge or consent.
Sabrina I just want to take time to tell you and Eric how AWESOME your advice is, and how grateful I am for it, as millions all over the world also are I 8767 m sure! I am in my 95 8767 s and could have used this advice 75 years ago, maybe I would have spared myself alot of heartache. I have a 66 yr old son, and much of this advice about men I can apply to him also in a way I am truly feeling much happier and hopeful in life now that I am learning how men YOU BOTH!! I will def be buying your books!
If you want a nice guy who respects, loves and appreciates you and isn 8767 t shallow, date a fat, ugly guy for real. Not just because he 8767 s safe. Besides, attractive people rarely need this advice as they have little problem getting whatever girl they want, so they wouldn 8767 t be on this page, meaning if they are on this page, they 8767 re probably fat, ugly and desperate like me so they wouldn 8767 t be shallow so there 8767 s no need to say that as that 8767 s not your current audience. To tell you the truth, I don 8767 t even know if what I just said makes sense as I 8767 m on pain meds, but I just saw this article and was offended by that little line, so I had to say something.
How weird I 8767 m half a swedish-half American girl and i don 8767 t really think like that at all. Swedish girls crave alot in looks, when they aren 8767 t always pretty themselves. I 8767 m 5 foot 8 inches, weigh 678 lbs, and im a model- but i don 8767 t ask for much? It 8767 s quite hard to find girls that actually have a nice personality. Most of them always think that they are heartthrobs when they 8767 re actually not pretty at all. It IS true though that most Swedish girls are tall. I find myself tall, but im 9th tallest in class.
Aw well, i respect how generalized this is, but dont get your hopes too high now, guys.
True in large cities people are in a hurry and maybe not friendly but rest assured most Americans when unhappy don 8767 t walk around smiling and concerning themselves with your welfare. If I ask you 8775 How are you doing? 8776 it is because I am letting you know I care about you as a human being. If you answer terrible and I have any spare time even as a stranger I 8767 d gladly do anything I could. This is real happiness and warmth that comes from small town America. This is what not being afraid and helping neighbors and being there for each other is about. Watch some scientific documentaries on happiness and see what really makes people happy. Then maybe you 8767 ll understand just because you are bitter or miserable doesn 8767 t mean I 8767 m faking it.
And starting the day all over again, I was all the while trying to occasionaly talk to any girl who had the misfortune to get stuck with me on the bus or in class. And then high school came and with it I got several actual friends who were even worse than me as far as social ability goes. My grades went up, I went to several parties and almost had several opportunities to get sexual on some level with a girl but I couldn 8767 t have them because they were either insane and were only interested in me because I was nice to them and they thought I would be willing to sacrifice what very little dignity I had left for some moderately attractive nookie or I couldn 8767 t be with them because they were what 8767 s left of my sisters 8767 friends after my brother would sleep with them. And then, they would stop talking to my sister because they were mad that my brother stopped talking to them after he got what he wanted out of them.
Dated swedish women in the US. They have some type of inferiority complex: 8766 my culture is this and this 8767 is their comments most of the time. They don 8767 t seem to know what they like beyond what their village likes. To the moronic commentator above, I love women in the US because many are strong and there is diversity of thought. I hope we don 8767 t go back to cavemen days. I understand the guys frustration, because independent women many times go for surprisingly superficial guys. But some do mend their ways. Others end up in the regret lane later in life But that is not all women by any stretch.