Posted: 2017-09-12 05:49
This is the most intelligent and sensitive piece I 8767 ve read for ages. It 8767 s absolutely spot-on, and I wish I 8767 d been aware of all these issues when I was much, much The thing is, men will never tell a woman why he has a problem with her he 8767 ll just leave, or withdraw his affections. Very confusing for a woman, who doesn 8767 t even know that expressing doubt about his abilities or not backing him up in public, for example, is hugely important. And damning.
This is really awesome to know!!! Thank you Eric really helps a lot! Would like to ask about sex what happends if he doesn 8767 t want it? We live together for more than 9 months and after the 6st month he wanted sex like twice a month What happened to him? He says he loves me extremely much, he doesn 8767 t want other women anymore just me,cause I 8767 m the best women he could ever met, tells me he loves me 65 times a day,he 8767 s affectionate but no sex 🙁 I try not to ask him anymore because when i try to talk ab it it annoys him and tells me that I only see the glass half empty , I don 8767 t see other things he does for me . but c 8767 mon, for me this is important, and it was for him too at the beginning. I really don 8767 t understand this 8766 you 8767 re the love of my life 8767 but no sex theory! What could I do? I am really thinking about leaving or try to continue and make it better if it is possible .. Thank you Eric!
Hey as a 57 year old almost 58 who works out 6 days a week, which includes weight lifting and cardio I think the issue with your husband is not his age it 8767 s his health and his libido etc. I am just as capable and willing in the bedroom as any 75 year old guy. I may look about 97-99 but my physique is better then a lot of 75 something 8767 s.
im just saying your marital problems are a lot deeper then a number. Also are you sure he 8767 s not having an affair ?
I try to keep up, lots and lots of comments via the site here, the youtube channel and the facebook page. I learn from people 8767 s comments the experiences they 8767 ve had here as well that it 8767 s best to take things slow here. I really like this woman, but I 8767 m just not ready to settle-down and she needs some time as well to sort out her feelings. At 87 she 8767 s not in a big hurry like the girls. I like that. We 8767 re spending time just doing simple stuff, hanging out letting things fall in place.
Have known this guy all my childhood yrs have liked him since my growing yrs too but we never spoke finally we lost contact n on my way to d bank we saw again n ecchanged contacts that day he called n we chatted n he told me he 8767 s alwys like me from bk years n date but he said he has a g/f and I like him too. D day I saw him at d bank after years was so happy. We have hooked up so many times now he doesn 8767 t chat me up like then n when I tend to complain he apologises. He said he feels smthg strong n loves me but he doesn 8767 t wanna get too involved cause of his g/f. and I know him, his family now am sad cause I really want him wht shld I do
The problem with men is, It takes 65% of them 55-years to grow up, wake up, and feel comfortable in their skin. The other 85% never find themselves. The first thing we men need to understand is that women are no aliens. They are females of the human species with the same emotions, desires and needs you have. Read something intesting to talk about and then meet some women and be interest in THEM, not their bodies. Show your sincere interest in the entire package and one day she 8767 ll say, 8775 I 8767 m falling in love with you! 8776 Dr. Steve Newdell
I am here by way of Think Pretty Smart. What you propose to do is no different that women getting implants, wearing revealing clothing, high heels, covering their grey hair, etc to attract men. I know personally that I do things to attract men like flatiorning my hair. Black men love it. Wite men, not so much, they can appreciate the curls. Since I want to attract black men, I straighten my hair once a month.
Good luck to you.
I would certainly agree with every bit of information you have shared. I found that my self esteem has to come before my boyfriend. Even if I am dying to spend time with him, I have to make me #6. If I feel ugly, I hear no compliments from him! Therefore, I definitely go the extra mile to look good in my mirror. I don 8767 t know if he sees it too, or he has that sixth sense or whatever..but I definitely like it when he refers to me as 8775 beautiful 8776 . When I feel good, life is pink and I smile more often. But when my everyday life is not great..well, you can imagine.
Hi! I appreciate your note and completely respect where you 8767 re coming from. We don 8767 t mean to use that term in a derogatory way we reference it because it 8767 s a buzz word widely used in pop culture. What 8767 s more, many of my clients consider themselves proud cougars! They wear the title with honor, and don 8767 t consider it derogatory at all. While I know that 8767 s not everyone 8767 s point of view, it does work for some people. Keep reading and commenting!
This guy is so funny he’s irresistible. Right from the get-go his profile starts off with a catchy line that is knee jerking funny and it doesn’t come off as too cliché or to “out there”. His profile is so humorous I don’t really care what he looks like—I want to get to know him, find out where he gets his outrageous sense of humor. He represents the kind of guy that will keep me in stitches and feeling good.
So when it comes to this issue of physicality, passion and yes, lust one might ask, 8775 How much appreciation, gratitude, love of life, drenched in Beauty vibe am I truly offering? 8776 Because when we have it going on, generally speaking more than just a few people notice. A genuinely unguarded, authentic, confident and blazingly connected smile from the heart will truly stop just about *anyone* (make or female) in their tracks. They key here is genuine Presence.
Liz am in the same situation except he is 68 and am 85, i do have the same cncerns as most women the age gap thing, in the begninng i started it casual i wasn 8767 t looking for anything serious just to experiment and to think i am desired by such a person peak my interest, we became intimtate within weeks and found out am his first now its going on six months now nd we are very attached but he has became very jealousful of me nd naggs all t time and argue however we are very much inlove
Also, I think that the term 8775 older guy 8776 is ambiguous, I 8767 ll be 85 in October and I don 8767 t see myself as an older guy and there is a clear difference between me and a 65 year old guy with shitty genetics. I don 8767 t like the two categories: men under 85 and older men from 85 to 85, every decade must be studied separately, by the way, what decade in you opinion is 8775 the golden decade for success with women 8776 considering you take care of all important factors the same? (health, money, game, etc). My bet is the 85 8767 s.
I 8767 m 79 and have been thinking the same thing. I 8767 m hyper-aware of creases forming under my eyes when I smile, dark circles, neck wrinkles, my face looking 8775 different 8776 than it did a few years ago. I keep comparing selfies of myself at 77 to selfies of me now and crying at the difference. Maybe this is my 8775 quarter-life crisis, 8776 but I can 8767 t help being jealous of all the glowing, healthy people I see around who happen to be than me.
They pretty quickly change their mind though when they finally figure out the game and good for them that swedish men are understanding and forgiving about past and smarter with money considering wellfare isnt a new thing in sweden. Its like yeah we might drive a volvo and i guess for the outside eye that doesnt look very flashy but then again the volvo dude probably have a big fat house , stabil economy and ready for family , you think the bmw guy has that? nahh they have 7 familys living in 7 bedroom apartements so they can afford keep up apperance when out flashing. So ill take my chanses with my volvo. Atleast i know i dont have a golddigger on my hands, wich may be another reson to why swedish men holds back on the cash for the woman just to see who holds out and dont just want the flash. This is what i think. And trust me im a bartender in this country ! have to agree on some of the cons though swedish men really go out to get smashed when they go out and sometimes its not pretty. Since we raised the price of redbull in our bar where i work and lowered the alcohole price all of a sudden there are just swedes in the bar again funny eiigh !
At the same time I don`t think it`s a 8775 new prefrence 8776 that swedish women has built up to foreign men, it`s always been there with the same love as they have for swedish men. It`s just that now when we live in a more liberal soceity that they can show it without beeing socially outcasts. Something women from other parts of the world should strive for. Then again it`s, as you say, only partly true and far from many swedish women prefer foreign men.
Think I might have mentioned balls anyway why are so many men so wet? Has feminism emasculated them? Why in particular should the gorg Swedish males be lacking in the balls dept? Though had to say a v drunk (and not gorg at all) Swede did start talking to me in a bar in Stockholm. Unfortunately it was about Man U so I quickly tuned out! I like a bit of cockiness at least it shows some get up and go. I like a challenge and all but
5. While I 8767 m on the subject, I 8767 m going to add another crucial lesson learned both from real life and from the movie men want to feel that they have the pure love of a woman who wants them for who they are and not for what they have. No matter how much Rhett wanted Scarlett, he made sure he had her when she didn 8767 t need his money. Only then did he willingly shower her with a lavish lifestyle. Having money of her own, he could prove she wasn 8767 t sticking to him just because of financial need.
Back to the present, I am questioning this girl and she is getting defensive and crying. I tell her that I just want to know everything I could from her and do not mind my logical way of asking the questions. I finally ask the last question if she knew she had this STI before we had sex, she says she didn 8767 t so I leave it and pull her close and we hug and kiss. She says she wants to go home and I want her to stay. She stays and since she was on her period there is no sex. She hardly kisses me, stating she has a headache. I let her be and we just cuddle and sleep. Morning came, I am super horny and she is stroking my manhood. I ask for a bj and she refuses. I ask what she is afraid of? and she gets up to leave. I get dressed and walk her to her car and she drives off. She texts me later that day that she needs some space to think that we will talk soon. We were supposed to have a date that day in her city. I didn 8767 t respond. I was pissed but didn 8767 t want to say anything I would regret!
I felt compelled to reply to you. It makes me really, really angry that you have had these assholes say such egregious, injurious, and downright mean things to you. Seriously, I want to fight. But I can totally relate, and it all makes me very sad. I wish I had any answers other than the conclusions I came to in the piece, but I don 8767 t. So I say, keep on keeping on, Sis. And get all-the-way-CRUNK when you have to.