Posted: 2017-10-26 05:16
I actually was on a date with this lady, but she was kinda getting too close to me. I thought she liked me.
The next day she asked me to meet her and have a drink with her but I couldn 8767 t because I was caught up in work.
Since, that day, she has been far too unresponsive and never starts a conversation unlike earlier.
I asked her what was troubling her (was obvious that something was) and she replied that she felt that I was offended by her the night we were out. I replied that I wasn 8767 t and that it was a great night but again since that conversation no response.
What do you suggest I do now?
So far, it’s been a day and I haven 8767 t heard back. Now, there were a few times when we were texting when I wouldn 8767 t hear from her for a couple days (until a week passed, which I knew was too long). Right now, she is gearing up for finals and the holidays are coming up, so I know she will be busy. I 8767 m hoping I can at least open up a dialogue with her again. I know she needs time, but it’s hard for me to gauge if she 8767 ll eventually get back to me, if I was just some guy she liked in between her boyfriend, or if my responses showed too much interest and now I 8767 m just another guy who 8767 s pining for her. So I don 8767 t know what to think. Did I just get lumped in the 8775 all guys are dogs 8776 category by default? Is it foolish for me to think there was anything there to begin with and that maybe I 8767 ll hear from her eventually?
So 8-9 days later I decided to just ask her outright what the deal was and that was when she said that there was someone else in her life and she was undecided as to what she should do, stay with him or move on and continue hooking up with me. I said ok no biggy just let me know if you ever want to hang and if I 8767 m still available I 8767 d definitely be game to get together. There was no response but the next day she text me in the late afternoon and asked if I wanted to 8775 cuddle 8776 ? I thought about it for a moment and figured what the hell so I said yes. She came over that night and thats exactly what we did just cuddle. I guess I didn 8767 t mind that much because she is cool and I did manage to get more out of her as to her situation. She said that she had a bf and the reason they became estranged was because he worked alot and was never available. So I asked if she was still with him and she said no but that she broke up with him after she hooked up with me. Shes kind of a tough nut to crack and isn 8767 t very vocal about how she feels so getting that much out of her was an accomplishment.
I know you mean well, Tony, but I don 8767 t think telling guys to text a girl every three days or so is a wise choice. But that is just my opinion. If a guy were to text me every few days and I don 8767 t respond whatsoever, I would be annoyed and so pissed! If i 8767 m not interested then that means I 8767 M NOT INTERESTED NOW GO AWAY! I 8767 m kind of going through that issue now. I met a guy who had great personality and he was good looking, but after only three days of knowing him, I realized he was one of those guys who just can 8767 t take a hint and buzz off. It 8767 s been about three months since I last talked to him and he STILL texts me. I never reply. Omg, he is so irritating! Like just STFU already damn. Guys, please, do not continue to be a major pest if a girl never responds. Do not text her if she is clearly not going to reply. It 8767 s never going to happen, so move on. Stop being creepy and desperate.
Thai girls aren 8767 t used to the class and elegance that most western men radiate with. This type of aura that a western man has is extremely attractive to most Thai girls and is a huge plus for them. Now don’t get me wrong I don’t want to generalise about Thai men but as a rule, they are not very classy and don’t treat women too well. They tend to be old fashioned and like their woman to stay at home and take care of the kids and cook and clean. Now while they don’t mind that, it’s nice to be respected for it and that’s where we win out over men in Thailand. So give the girls a bit of credit and treat them well and you will have a partner for life that will look after you for your entire life. Also, a lot of them tend to be quick with a slap and often stray with other women. So why wouldn’t they find us appealing?
But despite their intelligence, they have a love for the simple things in life. Many of the girls I 8767 ve met (except a couple of spoiled rich ones) have a taste for the simpler things in life. They don 8767 t fancy themselves with gourmet food and tend to enjoy homemade food instead. Many of the hobbies you 8767 ll find them enjoying are as simple as card games and watching television beside their loved ones or browsing the online dating apps for the man of their dreams. You 8767 ll be surprised at how simple she can be, but don 8767 t let that deceive you though! They also have a taste for the exotic, especially in bed!
My husband is from Palestine, I 8767 m American. We have been married for 6 6/7 years now. He contantly has temper tantrums, loves woman friends and swears to Allah he 8767 s not cheating on me. We might have sex once a month, he hides his phone from me and yes, he has several. I 8767 ve caught him in several lies and when questioned he calls me names and goes into rages. Still denying his wrong doings. Recently I became aware of his gambling habit which is haram. I 8767 ve begged him to stop but he just will not or can not. His family is beautiful, they love me and I love them as well. I 8767 m 65 years older than him and feel really insecure at times. I was told he had several girlfriends that visit him in the work place. I 8767 m not so sure if all this is normal for most Arab men. I love him dearly but am scared he does not love me the same. Any advice?
Wow man. You 8767 re really needy. Can 8767 t you go on Ok Cupid, or go to the mall and approach women until you find a date. I don 8767 t want to sound like a jerk, but you have oneitis for a woman you haven 8767 t even met. It reeks of desperation and is embarassing. Your ancestors used to hunt animals with spears and slay their enemies with fury. And you cry on the Internet about a woman you 8767 ve never met.
For the purpose of this section, we will focus on 9 geographical regions of Thailand North, East, Central and Southern Thailand. This is because the women native to these regions tend to have distinct physical traits. It might be difficult to tell the subtle differences between the women from these regions at first glance. But trust me, by the end of this section you will also be able to tell the difference between them.
theres this girl im texting and we get along well have stuff in common and we are supposed to be hanging out on Friday 7 days from now!! last week she texted me first everyday and this week I had texted her a couple of times and right in the middle of the conversations she just stopped texting me in some of them. she tell me she wants to hang out and is looking fwd to it but if I cant text her long enough to have a conversation how am I supposed to finalize the plans !?!?! I really need your help !!! please respond to this question soon!!
Now, remember when I said “uneducated” well do not mistake this for stupidity because one thing a Thai girl does not suffer from is stupidity. They are cunning, they are smart and most of all they are survivors. They will do what it takes to get what they want and sometimes like the long con in your favourite heist movie this can be played out for months or even years. They have all day every day to plan the next move and more often than not have more than one prospect on the line.
Well I suppose she isn 8767 t interested. I called her, she didn 8767 t even know who called, but she answered and it took her a second to remember me. I asked her if she wanted to grab some food this weekend. She paused, said she had work late on Friday, then said she would love to but (with some awkward fumbling pauses) asked me if she could text me with a time that worked for me. Not expecting to hear back from her, I said of course. A few minutes after I hung up, I thought of a good line I could use for next time. After she asked me if it is okay if she texts me, I wish I would have said 8775 well carrier pidgin is better, but I guess you can text me. 8776 At least she would have been laughing a little instead of just having a run of the mill, logistics conversation.
That sucks dude. It probably has something to do with the dates. That 8767 s where you should focus. Find out how you are screwing up the date. Or the way you are acting. Maybe you aren 8767 t escalating in an intelligent way. Maybe you come off as insecure or needy? I hope you aren 8767 t buying her dinner or anything. I hope you aren 8767 t waiting to kiss her on the doorstop. I hope you have kissed her.
I started developing a pretty big crush on this girl from school. It was sort of impossible to ever talk in that class but we 8767 d always look at each other and smile. I asked her out a couple months ago. She said yes and we went for coffee. At some point she admitted to me that she 8767 s really bad with her phone (usually texts the day after). We 8767 re also both slightly introverted if that helps at all. Anyway coffee turned out really nice and she gave me a big hug at the end and we made plans to meet up again after we both got back from holiday.
Stop texting her and move on with your life. Lots of women out there mate. Lots. Get out of the house and learn how to get them. Why are you dating your ex wife 8767 s friends? That 8767 s fucked. If she 8767 s not replying it 8767 s because she either lost her phone or is not able or wanting to include you in her life. Deal with it bro. It sucks, but that 8767 s life. Wait for her to contact you.
I 8767 m 69, and back home for a few weeks from college. I was getting a bite to eat w/ my parents and their friends, and this hot-ass girl came up to our table (she knew my parents 8767 friends). Long story short, I was brought up in a conversation, and my parents 8767 friends had mentioned to the girl that I though she was pretty. Her number: mine. Since then, we 8767 ve been texting the past few days. I respond, but not often. When appropriate, I make her laugh, and when not, I carry a serious conversation. I sent her a message last night no reply. I want to hang out w/ her before I go back to school (Yes, she 8767 s a fucking dime), but not entirely sure how I should ask. Advice?
Susan, you sound very bitter and hurt. I 8767 m not really sure what the story is or why you 8767 re so against Arab men, but rest assured not all are the same. Just as all American men, Chinese men, etc. are not the same. People are people. Sure, there are differences in cultures which can play a huge role in how people behave. But a cultural belief doesn 8767 t make a person depraved or socially inept. On that same note, some people just aren 8767 t comfortable with any cultural difference and should avoid being involved with someone from another culture.
I don 8767 t feel there 8767 s any cheating going on and he 8767 s posting his brother and friends a lot. Again, he told me it was time for me to have a key to his place. I realize after reading above that doesn 8767 t mean a damn thing. I was to the point whete I wanted to tell him I loved him bexfore he left and decided not to until he arrived back. However, is this typical behavior? It sure seems like it. Is this all part of the 8775 silent treatment 8776 ? I mean it 8767 s as if he 8767 s two different people when he leaves. He 8767 d NEVER do this to me when he 8767 s here. It angers me on such a deep level. Please help!
He wants me to come to his country and see his world. I want to. When he was back in the states he would always touch on marriage and the idea of having children. But its an awkward subject for us considering our major differences. He would always point out that for Arabic parents, his were very accepting compared to others. I 8767 ve never met his parents because when they came to the States I was traveling in Europe. But I have conversed with them on occasion when they would speak over the phone.
Google any search term relating to Thailand women and you can be sure you will get a hundred sites leading you to online dating sites, lad’s holiday websites or sex worker websites. Complete with scantily clad and sexy Thai girls, you 8767 ll be promised you can you can have sex with Thai girls by simply paying a bar fine and then some. And to be fair, they wouldn 8767 t be wrong in saying so.