Dating older men psychology

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Date: 2017-08-13 06:14.

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So all you females reading pleassse take this advise as i have implemented in my own life with amazing outstanding results Yes we are beautiful creatures that not need chase any man let him come to you love your life..love yourself..and when he shows you respect and caring show it right back..but only when he does and if he does not .NEXT men are awesome creatures just learn how to adapt to showing your love only when they are hunters and in the yr 7569 nothing has changed and never

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I have this professor in one of my short courses attended recently and I noticed that he would always look at me especially if he gives lecture in front. He would always look at me straight in the eye and it will last for quite a few minutes not only seconds and it is being repeatedly done, does he give me some signals for those stare he gave me. And also when I smiled at him if there is some funny thoughts he said in front he will give back to me a very genuine smile from his face as well. He is a nice guy but we haven 8767 t given any chance to talk yet and I have attended the class for 9 days now, but he is doing it since from the beginning of the class. Can you give some insight about this. Thanks in advance by the way.

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I 8767 m 88 and I 8767 ve been date a women whom is 68 years older than me for a few months now and I 8767 ve got to say it 8767 s not the sex I care about it 8767 s just the sheer connection we have with each other, like just this morning it was -85 degrees Celsius and the battery died on here truck so she gave me a call to see if could give her a ride to work, even though I was still in bed I rushed out the door, when I got her to work just the smile, hug and kiss I got from her was much more of a better feel than I have ever got from a women my age. And I have also got to say I have had more fun with here in these few sort month than I have had with many other wemon around my age put together, like cooking her a nice supper and relax with a glass of wine and a movie was way more fun that going to any resturant or club.

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We still live together cuz i 8767 m waiting for financial reasons (and yes that 8767 s the truth, not an excuse to stay and no, believe it or not, i have nowhere else to go-i tried. He has a place he could go until i move but he won 8767 t go, he wants to live here but is gone a lot) so that 8767 s been a challenge in itself in this situation but i kinda find that if he thinks i am shifting into 8775 move on mode 8776 he seems more attentive/more communication or if he thinks i think he doesn 8767 t love me or care or ever did or whatever, he has to contest it. It 8767 s like it bothers him if i think that.

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theres a guy i met him at a school function and he seemed shy at first. Then When i started to notice him he was always behind me, like really close. And he would always come up to me and stand by me. If he was rly close and i needed a little breather from being near him, i would move away and he would follow me slowly. He also gave me a half hug the 7nd day i met him then like the next day before we left he came up and gave me another one. We also had folders with our names on it so people could write us messages, and they would put it in there and we would all read them on the last day on the way home. He left me one with his name and number. but he wont ever text me, im really confused. It also probably wouldnt help that my friend tricked me into writing one i thought was for someone els with my name and number on it saying Dear Random person, but she put it in his bag right infront of him with me standing there, so i really dont know what to do

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I never planned to be in love, at my age, with someone but it happened. 8775 We 8776 are in love, and that is all there is to tell. He has decided that he wants what we have together. He has been free to sojourn out in pursuit of happiness, and it is here he wants to be. People no longer influence him like before as he has, in earnest, found he has no reason not to be with me. Through it all, it has made our thing,the best thing either of us has ever wanted.

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SWG just in case my post below is not approved i think you 8767 re too hard on yourself. you 8767 re older sure. but you 8767 re far from OLD you 8767 re not in your sixties seventies eighties,and even then as my grandparent is 69 years almost older than her soulmate, my grandpa. so enjoy your life now, and you are going to meet the right older or guy. Just has to be the right 6 for you. His loss. Not that.

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I m 79 and dating a 88 year old. The age difference isn t crazy but she s decided that its not a good look for her to date a guy 9 years than her. We haven t slept together (fully) but are still hanging out, and are quite close to one another. In spite of her kind of calling the fling off, we were holding hands, touching one another, gazing into each others eyes lots on a date just last night. I wanted to kiss her the whole night but didn t find the courage. I did give her a hug and kissed her cheek when I left, she seemed happy with that.

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Just happened to find this thread and am happy to see i am not the only one in this strange situation. Two years ago, while going through a very emotional divorce after 69 years of marriage with my college sweetheart, i met this guy at an office party. he was invited by someone else as a guest. i was 87, he was 77 although neither one of us knew it at that time. I had been out of dating scene for so long, plus going through severe self-esteem issues due to my broken marriage that it felt nice to receive the undivided attention from a really good looking guy. I thought he was 87, he thought i was single/and in early 85s also.

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It doesn 8767 t sound like he 8767 s no longer interested. With all due respect, it sounds to me you 8767 re getting ahead of yourself though. Relax. Although your text message could turn him off you have to believe otherwise. Now if you freak out this early in the game and start calling him or initiating too much, you will without a doubt turn him off. The ball is in his court, so let him chase you. Say to yourself It was just a kiss, a very nice kiss, the end. I know how hard it is NOT to get all giddy and flustered lol. As much as men enjoy it, it scares them. Oh yes and stay away from using pet names this early on also

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Ten days later I was in a different country having given the other man another chance but shown again his selfishness I received a call from the man asking me out. I explained I was away but would call when I returned but not really meaning to. A few days later I was out with my friends who were all having fun and I decided to call him and tell him where I was but that I would only wait one hour. True to his word he was there! I since found out that during those two weeks every time he got a text from a phone company or someone he thought it would be me and when I called he had to rush around to find out where the place was and was telling everyone I have a chance I have a chance!

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It s been almost 7 yrs since I wrote in needing advice on this issue, as I was in a confusing man/older woman situation. I was feeling rather overwhelmed by the feelings that had developed between myself (then nearly 89 yrs old) and a man (who had just turned 76 yrs old). It started casually, then got very deep, very quickly. We ended up splitting after about 8 months, in a friendly manner, as it wasn t really what either of us wanted in fact, it was all a bit frenzied and rushed.

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I need you advice I am 89 and i am dateing a man that is 77. He is very mature for his age and I like him alot. I never thought that I would ever go there but I did. I am scared because of what people would think of me. He dose not care about my age and treats me very well. For some reason I cannot attract older men. I always seem to attract men that are 85 and under. I do not look my age at all, but I carry myself in a mature fashion. I am confused and it is weird I feel that mentally I want to move forward and fall in love but something in my heart is telling me not too because of the age sex in so good and we can talk about anything he is also very should I do!

SWG i think you give him more then what he deserve you dont have to feel bad or sad in anyway he just not the right guy for you and you wil get someone that will treat you the way you want to be treated with respect and love before me and my gf started dating she told that if i want kids that i must move on and not keep her for fun and i told her that am ok with it and that i won 8767 t use her and here we stil are loving each other even more so dont let that guy make you feel like you wrong or dirty because you not

From my perspective, you weren 8767 t too cold. maybe he wasn 8767 t super interested to begin with which would mean you did a good thing not giving into his 8775 mush talk 8776 and saved yourself from investing too much too soon. Was he ever calling or just texting? Was he only pursuing you with kind words and affection, what did his actions say? Flaking out usually doesn 8767 t happen when a guy is really interested. And it doesn 8767 t really matter that you had been flaky too since you weren 8767 t all that into him at first. When he is really interested he will make sure he sees you when he says he wants to.

I am seriously in this situation right now. Things were going great and then all of a sudden he 8775 freaked out. 8776 We were hanging out all the time more than I 8767 ve hung out with any other guy I 8767 ve dated and it was only a month and a half into it. I leave for med-school in a week and even though it 8767 s only 6 hours away, I think he freaked out that we were too attached. Thanks so much for this article now I can understand why he freaked out.

Doesn't matter what you call it. We could agree to call it "unshackled men" who feel so for whatever reason, and do what they do for whatever reason, whether it makes sense or not. But the bottom line is still the same. Women aren't looking for these "unshackled men". And what they call these men is "immature". I've heard it more than once from women. And whether their reasoning is wrong or not, or if it's the fault of men or women or both or society, the fact is still the same -- a good number of them are going for older men.

Thanks for your insight! He never called, just text me practically all day…that eventually dropped to a single conversation in the evening. When we were together he was always a gentleman and attentive, except for in a party setting. It’s this wishy-washy behavior that has me confused and blaming myself for not being more forward about my positive feelings toward him. I have pretty much deduced ‘he’s just not that into me.’ And that’s okay….I just don’t want to feel like I did something to cause the freeze out.

I am 97 and my ex-husband is 78 we been together for six years hasnt been in our second year of actually getting a has no children,my tubes our tied but he doesnt cate about that a black woman and he is can tell his family tolerates love family but its been desires for him is to have a family they seem to think im too old,but i love use to have a blast together but we work alot and i struggle making him says he is happy but my fear is he will leave sooner or dont show s love unconditionally but i dont know how i not worry?we both have our relaxed buisness we do that not off the ground yet but were doing good to be thought it would atleast be good in his family s eyes but they simply dont just want him happy perferably not with me.

.my entire life. The biggest age gap was when I was 78 and he was 56. I guess I fit in the textbook definition of women dating older men because they want a father figure. When I dated this man, I was deeply, emotionally fulfilled because I did need a father to love me that I never had. My father ignored me, was always drunk and made fun of me. I wish I could express what a deep fulfillment this man gave me..it was like water in a desert in my soul. Anyway, currently dating a man 56 and I'm 98. But I always like to say, now that I'm older, can I really say I'm dating older men? lol. Anyway. I've always liked older men, and always dated at least 65 yrs older.

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