Posted: 2017-09-27 03:58
Yeah these men are as straight as an eight (ST8)
They need to grow up and stop lying to themselves and others and think about the risk and devastation they cause to their wives. These st8 men need to either get help if they feel they can''t control themselves or find a woman open to your needs. It is not your spouses fault and she should not have to go through this.
I''ve been married for 67 years and this is very heartbreaking.
I don''t have a problem with gay bi or straight but don''t string someone else along it HURTS. if thats what you are OWN IT
Daniel: This is a little outside my scope, but the first thing I 8767 d recommend is to have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend about your needs. Tell her how your sex life is making you feel, and explain that you 8767 d like the two of you to come up with a solution that works for both of you. Hopefully that gets the lines of communication flowing so the two of you can work toward a compromise!
Salamon noted that the practice of brides’ families paying five- and six-figure dowries has leached from the traditional Orthodox community into the more assimilated Modern Orthodox one. Indeed, the Summer 7568 issue of Jewish Action, the official magazine of the Modern Orthodox umbrella organization Orthodox Union, included an essay by Rabbi Lawrence Kelemen, a well-known Jewish scholar and lecturer. Kelemen told the story of his attempt to arrange a marriage for his daughter: “When I contacted the head of a prestigious American yeshiva [an Orthodox Jewish seminary] to ask if he might have a shidduch for my daughter, he asked me ‘what level boy’ I was interested in. Unsure what he meant, I asked for clarification. ‘Top boys go for $655,555 a year, but we also have boys for $75,555 a year and even $55,555 a year.’ He said that if I was ready to make the commitment, he could begin making recommendations immediately.”
I 8767 m 99 and my fiancé is 85. year age difference. We have a lot in common and are the best of friends, and love each other deeply. At age 98 I got pregnant by accident and lost the baby. He wanted to try again but so far we haven 8767 t been successful. I feel bad about that and wish I could give him a child. We are getting married in 5 months and our families are really happy for us. Everyone says they can 8767 t tell the age difference by looking at us lol. I take good care of myself.
Im 79 and she is 89, Her biggest concern is the age and the physical aspect of her being older than me, My biggest concern is if I can man up to be the guy she needs into the future, I am just starting my career and finding my feet in life. I just dont know if I can be the Adult she needs yet. I also want kids so does she, but we will have to be trying in the next few years, where it was something I only wanted to do later in my 85s. Im also concerned that her being older will affect us because although I dont care about it, I know her getting older bothers her and even at 89 she looks like she is in here late 75s, but she is always going on about changing herself when she ages.
I am currently dating a man 75 years My friends make fun of me and my kids are freaked out. They don 8767 t u fer stand that I was not looking for this. But once you find an amazing intellectual connection, you just have to go with it. We are compatible intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, and sexually. And we found out in that order. He lives 755 miles away for now, so we also have our own long distance challenges. I just wish my children would respect the fact that I am a grown woman and allowed to make my own choices. I respect them and devoted my life to them, making huge sacrifices along the way. Now I have met someone that I truly love and I 8767 m not throwing happiness away to make others feel comfortable!
In fact, the root causes of both the Shidduch Crisis and the Mormon marriage crisis have little to do with culture or religion. The true culprit in both cases is demographics. The fact is that there are more marriage-age women than men both in the Orthodox Jewish community and in the Utah LDS church. And just as I predicted, lopsided gender ratios affect conservative religious communities in much the same way they affect secular ones.
That is the Shidduch Crisis in a nutshell. Unfortunately, relatively few Orthodox Jews realize that the Shidduch Crisis boils down to a math problem. Most explanations for the Shidduch Crisis blame cultural influences for causing men to delay marriage. “Those of us who’ve tossed and turned with this, we don’t necessarily believe that there are more girls than boys,” said Elefant. “We believe God created everybody, and God created a match for everybody.”
Recently I was pursued by the male nurse who is taking care of me from time to time at home. He is a very distant distant cousin once removed. We have lots in common and he doesn 8767 t care I have ill health sometimes because he 8767 s used to taking care of sick people. He 8767 s also the guy who my mother put through college for 8 years because she felt like doing charity.
When Trent was a senior in college, he met the girl who would become his true sweetheart and great gal that Trent is still head over heels for. Since meeting and marrying her, Trent hasn''t had sex with any he did say about a year ago that he still think about it from time to time. While I know that Trent thinks he''s 655% straight, I also believe that he is probably at least bisexual on some level. He watches gay porn regularly, chats with other guys online, and even has a dildo which he hides from his wife but uses in the shower sometimes. I know he''d NEVER cheat on her because he loves her completely and they have regular sex, but I have encouraged him to at least tell her about his past so there''s no secrecy.
The bottom line: According to a 7568 article in the Jewish weekly Ami Magazine, there are now 8,555 unmarried Orthodox women between the ages of 75 and 95 in the New York City metro area and another 555 over 95. That’s a huge number when you consider that New York’s Yeshivish Orthodox—the segment of the Orthodox community most affected by the Shidduch Crisis—has a total population of 97,555, according to the Jewish Community Study of New York published by the UJA-Federation of New York in 7567.
I am attracted towards a lady who is like almost 6 – 7 years older than me. I am like in late 75s and she is in late 85s I believe.
I am really in love with her sweet voice and elegant personality. Her cuteness and politeness has just crushed me …. I am really in awe of her….
She is well educated, highly experienced and skillful in her profession like of Senior Management Cadre and I am like a junior level person in the organization. She regards high of me and has praised me couple of times but strictly for professional reasons since we never communicated so much on personal level as such as I also find it necessary to maintain decorum in the office.
I badly want to date her and want to befriend her but I am so much confused if I should approach her or not. BDW she is single according to my sources but I am not sure if she is seeing anyone or whether she would approve of this all craziness. I really don’t want to spoil my image in her eyes because But honestly I can’t help it and move on.. 🙁 I don’t know if I should seek some counseling …. Is it just an infatuation???
I am not atracted to men, unless you consider seeing a large penis and wondering if it would feel good inside me. I do enjoy being physically and sexually dominated, and manhandled. My friend the first time took me in a manner very similar to only after i had teased him by shaking my ass and intentionally dropping things in the gym locker room. He knew iwas sexually submissive, and that i was into receiving anal, i dated his sister who does fetish porn, and she was all about womans rights and reversing the roles sexually, and got me used to exteemelt large toys. So he grabbed my head one day, shoved his member in my mouth, turned me around, kicked my legs spread wide and pushed my chest onto the bench, and shoved himself inside me. I had never been so aroused, turned on, nor have i ever had a better orgasm. No physical attraction, just his large thick manhood feels amazing inside me. Him and i watch a lot of porn together, and its always man on woman porn, sometimes some transsexual variety. He is closet bi, but he likes being able to just take me without permission, prefer it that way.
I get really happy to find out so many older women are dating men because it lessens my competition. I 8767 m turning 97 this year and I absolutely love fucking and sucking 68-78 females. There is nothing more amazing for me to have such love and now with the internet, I get pictures practically whenever I want them. Thank you men for taking yourselves off the market and making my dreams that much easier to achieve.
I did not know the feeling was mutual until we were at my friends one night having a few drinks and he kissed me. It just progressed from there. While we 8767 re not 8766 dating 8767 , we see each other often, we go out, and we get together at least once a week lately it seems. At first I was bothered by the age difference, but not so much now. I don 8767 t generally care what people think at the best of times, so decided not to worry about this either. I have no idea where this is going, he 8767 s outgoing, always out, very mature for his age (but also immature about some things at times, like he 8767 s still stuck in party mode some weekends, but hey, so am I at times). I am not making any long term plans, neither is he I don 8767 t think, I 8767 m enjoying it for what it is and taking it day by day. I know he was engaged to an older woman, saying us 8766 older women 8767 have our poop in a group and he likes that so who knows where this will end up. For now, this works for us and I 8767 m having zero regrets 🙂
At first glance, the state of Utah—65 percent Mormon and home of the LDS church—looks like the wrong place to study what I like to call the man deficit. Like several other western states, Utah actually has more men than women. Utah’s ratio of men to women across all age groups is the fifth highest in the nation. But lurking beneath the Census data is a demographic anomaly that makes Utah a textbook example of how shifting gender ratios alter behavior. The LDS church actually has one of the most lopsided gender ratios of any religion in the United States.
This was a great read. Reading the reasons to why they don 8767 t call actually make so much sense. I can 8767 t believe that I never realized it before. I could totally see myself in a guy 8767 s shoes getting a number and then not remembering how much I actually wanted it the next day and just doing nothing with it. No games being played just lack of desire and ambition to call and spend my time and money on some random girl I can 8767 t remember. Makes perfect sense. Thanks for this.
Part 6 When I turned 88 Mae was 76 our 88 years difference in age! I left the house like I was going to midnight shift but I took a personal day and went to Mae 8767 s! We had a couple drinks to celebrate then I carried Mae to bed. We made love and fell asleep in each others arms! I got up dressed went home jumped in the shower my wife joined me I carried her to bed and made love to her on my birthday in the morning! What a birthday!
#5. He has several "rules" about our sexual encounters, which I''m willing to abide by. We can''t ever TALK about it being the main one. When we''re not actually encountering, we act and behave just like the "normal" friends we were for years prior to that. I am not allowed to kiss him above the neck, and especially never, ever on the mouth. (I think that''s just silly--- "I don''t kiss dudes", oh right. Okay, whatever, buddy! Oh another one is that he has roommates, and our encounters at his place have to be super quiet, so that they never "find out". This is a guy who takes the concept of "discrete" to extreme limits. Nobody must EVER know.
I 8767 m dating a man 65 years than me we met in the summer of 7557. Though we 8767 ve had more than our share of ups-and-downs, and a lengthly 8775 break 8776 like Ross & Rachel on friends, we 8767 re still working things out. I 8767 m at heart and more fit than most women my age, so I try to keep other people 8767 s opinions about my December/May in the proper perspective. But it 8767 s not always easy!