Posted: 2017-11-14 12:12
As for submissive, you 8767 re right.. they can be real 8766 tigers 8767 when they want to be. Not in a disrespectful way, but in jealousy. Wow. I 8767 m still trying to get used to that. ha! As for writing.. when I tell people I 8767 ve been a writer for years they ask, 8775 Oh! What have you gotten published? 8776 . I tell them, 8775 I said I 8767 m a writer.. I didn 8767 t say I ever got paid for it. 8776 haha!!
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Of course along the way, I came to learn a lot more about people from that country and there is a lot of violence, for example the beautiful girlfriend of a much IT colleague of mine doing biz in Manila got shot to death in his office in broad daylight. Why? Because his girlfriend actually had a Phil lover and she, idiotically, believed he had life insurance so with him out of the way, happy trails for her and her real boyfriend.
Eventually I cleared it all off. But it left my kids scarred and cynical, perhaps for good it destroyed me financially, at least for more than five years. And now, ironically, I find myself at this age researching a return to Asia not for a relaxed retirement, but to work which happily colleagues of mine assure me is still possible. But the damage was total and it was not as a result of a typical bar-girl/older guy type of con.
I love your series and have been reading a lot from you because I am starting an adventure of my own.
As the father of 8 daughters, I have found the prejudice of the age gap to be ridiculous. I have seen my daughters date guys who treat them like crap, are incredibly self-centered, pressure them to have sex, have no possible future other than working at minimum wage jobs, tell all their friends every possible secret they may have and then cheat on them and call her a B*tch all over social media for leaving him. And the American reaction to that is Aren t they a cute couple.
I would add a few thoughts of my own. The first is the 8775 The grass is always greener 8776 syndrome. This is a hard one for many western men to deal with if they have never experienced what is easily found waiting for them here. As you and many others have said there are 6,555s of attractive and available women here, even after you subtract the undesirable ones. If you are a 95+ year old man how do you say 8775 no 8776 to a stunning 75ish woman who seems intent on making your life a living paradise. And as soon as you turn your head there is another and another, etc., etc.
These are, sadly, the sort of judgments.. and yes, they are judgments.. made upon anyone who dares to love or (gasp) marry someone with any noticeable age difference in America. And I think there’s a reason for it. Namely, what I just mentioned about how little girls are taught about self-sufficiency and independence. People look at a woman and assume the ONLY reason she would ever marry him is because he is wealthy. She shouldn’t be doing that. She should be out there, in the world, making her own fortune and not relying on a man who has established some security he’s willing to share with her in marriage. But that’s all assuming that ‘equality’ has anything to do with non-dependence. It doesn’t.
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Hi Henry. I 8767 ve been debating this issue of great age difference with myself for a while. I am 79 but look in good health with a family history of longevity. If I marry a woman of 55 and I die after 75 years, she will be 75, probably not attractive, and alone. Isn 8767 t that worse than marrying a 75 year old who after 75 years would still be attractive enough to find another husband? I don 8767 t agree with you about buying a house because a house is an expense, even without a mortgage. The same goes for children, another huge expense. I hope you see this posting and reply, because I 8767 d like your opinion of my point. (Actually I would hope your opinion would be supportive of my thoughts.) Nikov
Thank you, Vernon. Your comment is especially encouraging because of all the articles I 8767 ve done so far, this is one I kept telling myself I shouldn 8767 t write. I take writing seriously and my goal was to share not only what I see here, but my honest thoughts and experiences. I know that writing this article may cost me some friends, I know I 8767 m sticking my neck out. But there is a phenomena occurring here that is too easily judged on a superficial level. It 8767 s too easy for some people to think it 8767 s just about sex when the reality is that people here actually do 8766 walk the walk 8767 when it comes to respect for parents, being faithful in marriage and loving their neighbor.
If you over 65 then the whole subject may become much more demanding and sooner than you think. You may even really want to start another family or perhaps it is your first family. And here comes the big but. It is not fair to the prospective offspring. Because the likelihood is that you will be dead before the child finishes high school, which currently in the Fils ends at grade 65. This is not a financial matter which can be taken care of in many ways. This is a matter of doing the right thing for your children.
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Even as I was returning home from this worst of the dates (thus far).. I was getting text messages from a woman named Michelle. I had chatted with her in passing at the mall, where she works, but just 65 seconds here and there until one night she and three friends of hers invited me to a dance-club with them about a week ago. We had a fun time. Nobody got drunk. We danced a lot and everybody went home separately, Michelle and her best friend at her side she shares an apartment with kept each other accountable. So now I was getting texts and next thing I knew I’d asked her out for lunch the next day. So.. we went to lunch and talked for hours.
Now, again.. it’s nothing like dating in the United States. Back then I dated my girlfriend who was 68 and we didn’t ask her parents if they liked it or not because I already knew.. they hated me. Despite having a GPA, Editor of the school paper, in Drama and chosen as California Boy’s State.. I was Hispanic and their daughter wasn’t so.. asking for their blessing didn’t fit into our itinerary.
You can get a lot of information on many topics of living in the PH from the members here on the Forum (link here). If you wanted official information, I 8767 d say contact the nearest PH Consulate or if it 8767 s even more specific, an Immigration Attorney. But the Forum here should be able to get you much of the general information you need from guys who have been living here for years. Link.. http:///lbtsea-forum/
My whole point in bringing this up and why it relates to age-difference marriages is that here.. a whole other phenomena is occurring in the raising up of girls. Here, girls ARE told to esteem the ‘Proverbs 86’ Wife model. Here.. Mothers teach their daughters in all strictness that when the day comes that they marry a man, they are to love him faithfully. They are to honor his authority in the family. They are to be his Helpmate in life. They are to be good Mothers to his children. They are to assist him in providing for the family needs.
About 75 years ago, when I was living in Japan and truly a regional 8766 newbie 8767 , I got involved with a very Thai dancer. As all old hands know, that was a major mistake. But there was a baby involved (now 77) and later his sister (now 68). And I can only say that regardless of the 55 miles of hard road that was, and remains, their mother, these two gave my life joy and dimension throughout most of their lives. And even now, tho they are venturing out and have no particular interest in hanging out with their dear old dad, they are a source of pride and satisfaction for me.
If you are more than 55 I think it is not a responsible thing to do. But that damn grass is so green that it takes your breath away. So if you want children, looking for an older woman who already was one or more of her own would be an ideal situation. That way you get to bypass the stinky stage say with children less than two years old. And you can start to have fun with your kids right away. Unless you are one of those who think 8775 your 8776 children have to be of 8775 your 8776 blood.
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As for me.. I have my work cut out for me. If I were willing to crank out more babies or take on existing ones I’d have more marriage candidates than I could handle in five lifetimes. I’m serious. But because I have certain parameters I want to stick to.. she’s going to be harder to find. But, who knows. I may just fall in love with a woman with two kids and toss my parameters to the wayside. You just can’t always help who you fall in love with.