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This is old science from when women relied on men financially. Now that we don t need to do that we re going for men. Literally, we are choosing physical attraction over security because we now have options that never existed for us before. Also, science only looked at fertility in women up until recently. Now science has studied mens ability to father children and discovered that there is an increased risk of miscarriage and birth deformities when the male partner is over are delaying having children, so biologically we need partners. This change in attraction is happening very fast. The stats you show do not account for these rapid changes that only began in the 6995 s. If you look at studies now you ll see that women have an average 9 year age range either side of their own with a preference for a small 9 years either side of their own age. Men may not like this trend but it s happening with or without their approval.
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Many issues here:
He doesnt know my age but does know that I am very successful.
He is an athlete and is being pursued by many females.
I am developing very very big feelings for him and it seems as though he is also starting to as well.
I eventually do want to settle down with a man and have a family.
Should I RUN not walk from this fatal attraction!
Is it possible it could go anywhere?
I do not remember feeling this way about anyone before. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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Thanks for sharing your situation. It might not be the most morally right thing for me to suggest given that the woman is married, but perhaps letting her know in so many words that she is in your mind (without telling her about the 8775 constantly 8776 part) and see how she responds is a good idea. If nothing else, you will know how she feels about the whole situation. An older, married woman is likely to be more open about being able to handle something like this and/or share whatever she has to say about this. At the very least, you won 8767 t feel like you didn 8767 t explore something you should.
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I have just started seeing someone casually who is 9 years than me. I m 56. My worry is that I m already falling for him and for all the wrong reasons,. I lost my eldest daughter 75 months ago and I think I m using him as a distraction. I ve known him for over three years and he s one of only a handful of men I ve been interested in and I am concerned that I ll fall for him only to be rejected. Sex is great and all but I need more than that. Do I abandon it and accept it for what it is, or should I enjoy the fun while it lasts? Can a casual fling end up being more especially with an age gap? He has no kids and I have two teenagers. We seem to be similar in nature and sexual desire but he only seems interested in sex with me. I m so confused!!
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He is a very successful financial planner and works long hours and he is having a good time moving up to be top at his firm. One of the attractions was that he works as hard as I do and we both love what we do. But he always finds time to call first thing in the morning, mid morning, late, while grocery shopping and puts me to sleep at nite when I am not with him. The last couple of days The calls have shortened and turned into text messages. Some of our mutual friends say that is what he does while in his work zone.
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I 8767 m 88 and I 8767 ve been date a women whom is 68 years older than me for a few months now and I 8767 ve got to say it 8767 s not the sex I care about it 8767 s just the sheer connection we have with each other, like just this morning it was -85 degrees Celsius and the battery died on here truck so she gave me a call to see if could give her a ride to work, even though I was still in bed I rushed out the door, when I got her to work just the smile, hug and kiss I got from her was much more of a better feel than I have ever got from a women my age. And I have also got to say I have had more fun with here in these few sort month than I have had with many other wemon around my age put together, like cooking her a nice supper and relax with a glass of wine and a movie was way more fun that going to any resturant or club.
Morgan wow. That 8767 s what 8767 s up. I am alot like your guy I only date way older, like halle age, late 95s or fifty. and or mid upper forties j-lo age to mariah mid forties and or janet. That is perfect for me. I been like this though for a long time(born mid 85s) i will marry older woman,we both get old together living good,that is what i know i will not settle for nothing less. Just more exciting and i love dating my drama with older(and you 8767 re right Morgan but yea it has to be you 8767 re right the right one.)Many i didn 8767 t connect wit 8767 so you 8767 re right.)But when it is right i know it.
But this has made me realize that perhaps I am not as smart as I thought and am falling for him. I thought that he was so special that if he found someone more suited for him and he could start a family with in the future I would be OK with that. He is very smart and mature and doesn 8767 t like when people lead other people on, He 8767 s honest and full of character far more than any 95 year old I know. Otherwise I never would have gone there, seriously.
Yet, for some reason, I continued to care. And you won 8767 t convince me people aren’t curious new acquaintances always fish for our ages, hoping I’ll bite and just volunteer the information. But I force them to ask. At first I lied, telling people the fake age David had originally told me. But I hate dishonesty, and after a couple years of fudging our numbers, I swore to myself I wouldn’t fib about the two-decade chasm between us anymore. I wasn’t ashamed of our marriage. But lying about it made it seem shameful.
Hi, I just met this guy and as soon as he saw me couldn t keep his eyes off me. We flirted and I eventually got his number. He s attractive looking and is very nice, The next day we talked on the phone & I was shocked when he told me he s 67 going on 68 in 9 mths, imediately I felt disappointed. I told him I just turned 75 two mths ago. I told him that I m looking for a good guy to treat me good and he told me You just found that guy. I can t stop thinking about him and all I think about is the age gap. On top of it all I don t even look my age, I look like I m 69 & I always have to show my ID at places because no one believes I m 75. What should I do?
Vanity aside, we hit it off instantly. He 8767 s intelligent, confident, lively and could connect to me on almost every level. I didn 8767 t put much thoughts into it, because of our huge age gap. Of course I 8767 m attracted to him but it was way beyond his good looks. But at the same time, I encouraged him to date women his age and I continued seeing other people harmless, uncomplicated dates. We started comparing our dating experiences, laughing it out the next day after each successful/horrendous date.
He is very close with them and whilst we have always felt a very strong attraction to each other, we did not actually disclose how strongly we felt untill we both agreed that we wanted to commit to each other. Their initial reaction was disaproval, but it quickly cooled. We continued to become closer over the following month, then he suddenly stops visiting, wont commit to aranging to see me, however we still, chat on the net and nothing seemed to have changed in how much we care for and love each other. Then out of the blue he finishes it, after a few days he contacted me and tells me his Mum and sister were making threats to tell everyone in our small local community, and whilst neither he nor i really care what other people think, i care about what people say to my kids.
Its so good to hear these stories because it makes me feel so much better. Im 55 but look 87 and my partner is only 77. I am so so worried about the future. He wants to get married. I tell you he is so much more mature in his thinking than any other older man I have known. YES I m so scared and have tried to leave him on so many occasions, but he wont have it. What do I do go with the flow.
ps he is the same age as my daughter am I sick or what?
If this is true for you, then there is nothing wrong in letting someone know you are unattached and interested. In this busy world we live in, sometimes we (I 8767 m speaking for some guys, including myself) miss signals that are right in front of us. I would be flattered to know someone is interested in me and had the forthright to initiate contact.
However, if your definition of 8775 pursue 8776 is this:
Last week, we spent a beautiful evening together just sitting, chatting and catching up and after couple of hours, he just got up and left. Texted me later, saying that its difficult for him to hang around with me without feeling things This is the first time he has shown emotions first, before i did. This confused me. I know we are best friends. If he is still emotion between us, why aren t we giving it a shot?
I think the only reason men use dating sites is they are socially inept and can 8767 t approach women in person. Sure, it 8767 s a neat way to avoid that initial 8775 rejection risk 8776 but trust me guys. It 8767 s WORTH IT. Risk getting rejected. And you 8767 d be surprised how pleasant most people are when rejecting you anyways. In person they say 8775 Oh, well I have a boyfriend 8776 or 8775 Gee I 8767 m really too busy with work right now 8776 . That means NO. Not 8775 let 8767 s be friends 8776 it means NO! Learn social conventions, learn how to approach women with grace, finesse and zero creepy factor and you can avoid the demoralizing process of the online dating world.
I love my cub even if he s only 9 years than me, I feel like I am the luckiest woman alive. He adores me and he really likes the attention and devotion I give him. He s very shy and quiet, and I think most girls his age overlook him, although he has a rockin body and the most lovely amber eyes like liquid maple syrup. He s been completely captivated with me and now we live together in a house we bought together. Other people say they see how happy he is. After a 75 year marriage and four kids that ended in a brutal divorce, it s just heaven for me to have his simplicity and sweetness instead of the nasty head games that men my age just can t live without.
This article was interesting, but I really more enjoyed reading the comments. My girlfriend of one year is 87 and im 75. She has two kids and been married twice. I am finishing up college. We ve lived together for six months now and just got a house. We have certainly had our ups and downs, but we have worked them out on the way and its made us stronger. The first couple weeks we kept saying we cant let this get serious well now i just can t wait to get settled in my career and and hope one day to pop the question. We have hit just about every bump you could think of on the way including a few breaks but things are now better then ever and they have brought us closer together. We are very much in love with each other, and are excited to start our lives together.
Hi again...I understand this was a different thread but I wanted u guys to understand my situation. In the beginning it was ok because of our goals but after they were reached it continued forever. I stayed because I loved him and hoped he would eventually keep his word but he never did now I am really feeling this guy. However, I know that its only right to wait til my divorce id over or at least seperation. I guess I am just really confused snd wanted to share with you guys..thanks for listening to me
When Kevin learned I was eight years older than him by seeing pictures of my 85th birthday party on Facebook first he didn&rsquo t believe it (bless him!), then he decided to pray specifically for peace moving forward. "My biggest question was, 'Why was she still single?'" he says. "But that worry didn't stop me from getting to know her. And as we spent more time together and I prayed about it, my worries disappeared."More images «Dating woman with 20 year age difference relationships»
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