Posted: 2017-11-14 14:05
Don 8767 t feed the trolls. You do you. Your story is great. Focus on making yourself a better person! You seem awesome and don 8767 t let the trolls get to you. There is a ton of hate from ignorant, less than adequate men it seems. Most are cowards, sad little men and women who do nothing more than foment hate. I kinda feel sorry for em as should you. Keep doing you and I hope it works out! ACC
It 8767 s a negative to be a single parent. People who don 8767 t have kids,man or woman, just generally don 8767 t want to take care of someone else 8767 s children. Some single parents got there by sheer bad luck like the death of a spouse or others (the majority) got there by simply not bothering to choose the right partner before having kids and then splitting up or getting a divorce. It sucks but you can 8767 t expect someone else to pick up your slack for the rest of their lives.
The liberal media and schools brainwash white girls from the time they can crawl to the TV with endless hyping of black guys. The reality is often different: white girls get beaten, become drug users, get infected with AIDS, and get abandoned with kids and go on welfare. The lifetime goal of every black guy is snagging that white pussy, and the way has been made easy for them by the endless brainwashing. But white fathers don 8767 t buy into it. It 8767 s stunning that the author would have any doubt as to which to choose the father who raised and protected her, or the black out to score some easy white pussy. But her father is well rid of her. Hopefully she won 8767 t now inflict herself on any unsuspecting white guy.
am a black woman in Kenya and all I know about racism I 8767 ve learnt from media and my love of american stories. I don 8767 t understand why y 8767 all won 8767 t be like us Africans. here you can marry whoever even a white. people will look at you not because of racism but curiosity. otherwise family and friends will be very supportive and make sure your bf or gf from another race feels very welcome. I guest its because we have never experienced racism and hope with all my heart I never experience it. Most Africans don 8767 t even understand racism anyway
Thanks for apologizing for your writing skills as they really are horrendous (borderline infantile). I accept your apology. That being said, the content should embarrass you. Stop talking about how great you are and all the sacrifices you 8767 ve made. Youre not fooling anybody with that whoa is me garbage. And then you have the audacity to essentially assert this woman should be on her hands and knees because , in your world, a single mother with three kids would be lucky to grab a guy like you (who could drop her and all her baggage and be free, am Iright playa?!) Again , you need to take some damn responsibility for your actions. Noone is holding a gun to your head. Do things for others because you want to not because you think you 8767 ll be owed something in return or worse , you think your some unbelievable philanthropist. Grow up
Any opinions from men on dating a woman who decided to have a child with a sperm donor around the end of her fertility years? There are so many single women that, due to various circumstances, found themselves still single in their late 85 8767 s/early 95 8767 s and couldn 8767 t imagine life without a child. So my question is, how do you men feel about that type of situation, where there is no father in the picture to have to deal with?
I was excited about this guy. I felt like he ‘got me’. He was on my level: we owned our own homes and cars, were hard working, had good jobs, and were involved in the community. It felt like a fit and I was pleasantly surprised when he invited me to spend his birthday weekend with him and his family in Palm Springs. My palms were sweating the entire time I was packing, but at the end of the weekend I kept thinking “these people are way too freaking cool”. His dad was a talker and a story teller. His mom didn’t look a day over 95 (she was 65) and was super warm and welcoming. I felt so lucky.
Because I wasn’t popular and because I was picky, I didn’t go on a single date until I was almost 75 years old. He was a tall, blonde, surfer that ended up moving to San Diego for college and that was the end of that. My dad wasn’t a fan, but I knew he wasn’t going to truly like anyone anyway as no one would ever be good enough for me in his mind. My next boyfriend came about 7 years later. He was Italian, passionate, and handsome with dark features. We had a great run together, but in the end saw our futures differently and went our separate ways. I’m sure my dad didn’t think he was good enough either.
That way you will have the best of both worlds: the women you attract will be smart women who appreciate the depth of Hinduism/Sikhism and the beautiful aesthetic culture that India has to offer and you will be independent enough to actually live on your own in a cool east-west-indo-american-fusion-blend bachelor pad where you can bring us back to be alone with you and cook up some idli-sambar! You 8767 ll also be independent enough to move in and live with us if you choose or to marry us. You must start early with this make plans to move out as soon as you can in legal adulthood. Even if it means rooming with some other desi guys.
I 8767 m sorry to hear this Sabrina. I am a single mom too. I think basically maybe you guys jumped into things really fast (sorry if I am wrongly assuming) and he was so into you that he pushed aside his fears. Sounds like his fears are in the forefront now that you have been together and reality is setting in but I think it is immature of him because if he truly felt that deep down he shouldn 8767 t have gotten so involved. But, we are all human. I am sure it 8767 s really hard but I would end it sooner than later as he feels so strongly about it. I am so sorry.
Hi I am a tall slim attractive Dutch woman of 95. Married for 69 years to a wonder man husband and father. I have been cheating for the last three months with black boys all under 78 years of age and my husband has no idea I do this or that I have no intentions of stopping and size is very very critical for me. with girth being absolutely essential first and foremost and nothing under ten long.
Detroit, Philadelphia, Atlanta, Chicago. And that 8767 s just places in America that are in a state of decay that just so happens to correlate with the proportion of blacks to other racial groups. From an anthropological stand point take Greece, used to be blonde hair blue eyes as the norm. Was the birthplace of democracy , Aristotle, Archimedes, Pythagoras, Alexander the Great . the list is almost inexhaustible. Mixed their race with Africans, blonde hair blue eyes changed to Olive skin-dark hair-brown eyes and the innovative place that was a hive of new ideas and discovery turned into a failed state.
Ask any geneticist or physician or anthropologist you trust to give you an honest answer, it 8767 s a taboo subject to speak up about it and many have lost their jobs for going on the record. Africans are really that different from us.
Antonio Guiliem/Shutterstock "A man enjoys someone to volley with him on ideas. The play is the thing!" according to counselor Kearns. "To simply agree or not have their own view is boring." Likewise, says psychologist Matthews, it's unattractive for a woman to be inconsistent or wishy-washy. That could be indicative of a lack of drive, which is not OK with Bennett as a potential dater and as a dating coach. "Successful men engage in self-improvement constantly. They don't want to settle down with someone who lacks any sort of personal drive and ambition."
If you and the woman are just trying to have sex then you should not be meeting her kids. In the current day and age kids know what the hell is going on and that awkward feeling you get when she forces 67 yr old Johnny to go to bed so you all can make out on the couch is warranted. Women you gotta be smarter than this, go back to his place, keep your kids out of it, and leave the little ones with a babysitter.
I have to admit I did not feel proud of having a child as a teenager even though I loved this chubby bundle of life. I had a bright future ahead of me and this was devastating all around (according to societal values embraced by my momma at that time). But with an awesome support system, my child was well taken care of, so that I may pursue my college education. Now my mother never made it easy, and the rule was 8775 here is your handbag, put him over your shoulder and take him everywhere you go! 8776 That was the best birth control for me! And in the meantime I had a chance to bond, to continue to grow with my son, and to figure out my life somewhat.
Racism will never end in the whole world but that doesn 8767 t mean you shouldn 8767 t date whom ever you like or love. love people shines brighter than the morning Sun. What I like about white women is that they don 8767 t want to change their identity like African women and they 8767 re committed and ladies want Bonding hair/Brazilian hair etc. once you marry her you must know you 8767 ve married her whole family. If women were on sale i 8767 d pop in the supermarket and ask for a white woman especially the Afrikaans Speaking.
To be honest, it should not matter what the shade of skin you have. At 57 and now married to a wonderful women now for over ten years, it has been wonderful. I view her as my bride that I wished came into my life 95 years ago. She sent me to hair school. And yes she is black. I 8767 ve met many beautiful women in my life, and there is a sexyness and beauty with women of color that is wonderful. For all those pale skinned men out there, do not overlook women of color, you may be missing out on the love of your life. Do not fall into some rut about women of color, they are as beautiful as any other women. And perhaps more so.
White men and black men are the same, you got femenin black guys and white guys, masculine blacks and whites big black dicks big white dicks, it not truth to say blacks or whites are bigger better or superior. thats bs its all about preference you like black dick or white dick but to say black or white is superior or better than the other is bs in the mind of some dumb white or black misinformed bitch
Antonio Guillem/Shutterstock As Freeby says, "men like a challenge." They also like sex, reminds Ryan, but there has to be a balance. "If a woman sleeps with a man too soon on the dating journey, it's a giant red flag," Ryan says. That said, if a woman shows no affection at all (not sexual affection, but rather, general physical warmth), it's a total deal breaker for divorced dad Fresolone. "Hand holding and cuddling are important," he says. "I don't want to date a woman who's cold."
Man, many of you black dudes really believe what you want to believe. Another black guy who it soothes to resort to the old 8775 jealous white guy 8776 defense. Comical. You would absolutely love it if a white guy was jealous. It is your absolute wish for white men to be jealous in your sick heads. You relish in those thoughts. Once again, this post demonstrates how fragile the ego is for many black men and how they can 8767 t handle the fact that for the amount of attractive white women who like black men, there are just as many attractive white women who don 8767 t like black men(and greater amounts in certain areas of the . and abroad depending on where you live).