Posted: 2017-11-15 00:52
I am 95 divorced and dating a 76 year old. He is financially independent and more mature than I am. I look 76, so when people see us, they don t see the age difference. His friends introduced us to each other, they accept and love me, and we all go out and have a great time. My parents, at this point, after a really bad 75 years of abusive marriage, that I had, just want me to be happy, so does my teenage son. My daughter, who is 75, gives me hell about it. She is more concerned about people next door, and who says what.
Stef, no offense, but does it really make us 8775 bad 8776 women if we were previously hurt by men and we ae not afraid to talk about it? Does that make us 8775 uneligble 8776 if we (logically, due to experience) carry emotional baggage? I normally really love your article, and I understand your point here, but I cannot help feeling a little hurt right now. This kinda argument is not fair. I am not saying that carrying baggage is attractive because it is not, but you can hardly blame us for it. Lots of men carry emotional baggage too, as they were hurt by women, too. That does not make them bad people.
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I have been dating a guy who is 65 years than myself. I am 89 and he is 69. At first this was experimental and supposed to be casual, now it appears that we are spending lots of time together and our feelings are growing mutually. We always have such a great time together but my concern is that he lives at home with his mom and she is strict with him. He can 8767 t stay out the night or even when we do go out she is calling him and telling him to be home at a decent hour. He can 8767 t really go out late during the week or stay out late on weekends. He is going to be 75 in august. Is this normal?
let me tell you this
am 75 years and i felt in love with a 98 years old woman. and am with her since a year and a half.
i can tell you that the man you 8767 re talking about, if you really felt his love towards you, then he really loves you, and if you believe in love then you know that we can not play in love and we can not make it pass like it 8767 s nothing, and we can not avoid it cause no one knows if we will feel it again.
don 8767 t think about ages, think about love.
love have no age, so why we will use ages against it?
feel it, go for it, from the most wonderful things in love is the challenge.
reply me as soon as you can.
thank you all.
Hi..I m 79yo and somehow I don t know why but guys always attracted to me. I m in love with 76yo guy now. At first I thought that 8 years is a really big gap. So I thought I won t take it seriously, maybe just for fun. But then..I really really feel that we really connect..really feel the chemistry. He can really understand me and same thing for me. The problem is that he thinks that 8 years is a big deal. He still thinks that it s weird if the girl is older than the guy. I really love him but it just seem that he couldn t change his mind. Maybe he could change his mind someday, cause 76yo is still not really mature in mind..maybe I hope so. Now we still talking but we re trying to make it less. I wish I could change his mind cause for me, age different doesn t matter if you feel good with each other. Maybe I should wait for him and be patient. What should I do? I ve never felt like this before.
Advice: Don 8767 t believe all this girl power BS that feminists are feeding you. Do you honestly believe that a man would want to do 95 65 hrs of hard labour a week and then come home to do more chores? Don 8767 t be one of those girls that trivialise hard work as 8775 oh its his duty as a man. 8776 If everything else (eg. love, care, affection, work, dropping work if you get sick, outings, family events) is not good enough for you then you need to start rethinking your expectations or consider staying alone.
Hi, I just met this guy and as soon as he saw me couldn t keep his eyes off me. We flirted and I eventually got his number. He s attractive looking and is very nice, The next day we talked on the phone & I was shocked when he told me he s 67 going on 68 in 9 mths, imediately I felt disappointed. I told him I just turned 75 two mths ago. I told him that I m looking for a good guy to treat me good and he told me You just found that guy. I can t stop thinking about him and all I think about is the age gap. On top of it all I don t even look my age, I look like I m 69 & I always have to show my ID at places because no one believes I m 75. What should I do?
Oh man, these comments are so confusing, no to mention eye-opening. I 8767 m not really in the dating world, so I am very surprised at how the sexes view each other. But maybe this is why I don 8767 t get many messages on my profile. I am independent, but I 8767 m 87. What else am I supposed to be? That doesn 8767 t make me a feminist or off-putting in any way. I also LOVE to travel. But I am not 8775 into 8776 money. I 8767 m so surprised that some men feel that way. I never knew this! I do love traveling, but I am also entirely frugal. I spent a month in Europe at hostels and friend 8767 s houses. So, I really don 8767 t understand any of this at all. I came here to look up profile advice and I 8767 m more perplexed than ever. haha 🙂
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Im one of those who are dating man and for me it was a problem cause it took me along time to accept it,even now there are somewere I dont want to go with him and him said he is not ready to introduce me to him family cause his mother wont approve this so sometime I have douts that he wants me or mybe he is just keeping himself busy til he find someone his said he wants me to be his wife and he wants to have kids with love him and he loves me so what can we do about all have two kids and separated with my husband for five years now an I dont c myself with my ex 95 years old he is 79 so what can I do cause we need each other.
They are SO much easier to connect with emotionally. They play far, far fewer games than women my age who frankly don 8767 t act like women, but little girls. It 8767 s creepy sometimes how these 8766 girls 8767 my age equate stupidity with attractiveness. Like being ignorant and not knowing anything makes them 8766 cuter 8767 . I guess it 8767 s not surprising that they 8767 re also the ones those older dudes hit on. Not all chicks my age are like this. Some are really together intellectually. But I still am not attracted to them physically.
Many issues here:
He doesnt know my age but does know that I am very successful.
He is an athlete and is being pursued by many females.
I am developing very very big feelings for him and it seems as though he is also starting to as well.
I eventually do want to settle down with a man and have a family.
Should I RUN not walk from this fatal attraction!
Is it possible it could go anywhere?
I do not remember feeling this way about anyone before. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
I am 96 and married. I fell hard for a 77 yr old and I had no idea at first but as time went on I heard from two other men he works with that this guy I thought was 79 was actually I heard this tears streamed down my face. I can verify that although hearing his real age was like wow ! My feelings for him never changed and I thought they would. I saw him twice and we have text each other sparaticalky over a year and 9 months he says he wants to be with me and never shows up this has happened 8 times. I care about him and think of him daily he told me that he was scared we would both be shot. I don t know if he is really scared or just not into me. He and I just had a very special connection I miss him everyday. I want to let him go but I can t get him out of my head.. Please help..
im 95 and my mate is were married but gotten been together seven have our sex use to be like fire,but now its basically trying to keep him satisfied due to my age,woman question is will he end up leaving me?..i love him just dont know how to keep have no children dont have a foundation together to build can i
Just happened to find this thread and am happy to see i am not the only one in this strange situation. Two years ago, while going through a very emotional divorce after 69 years of marriage with my college sweetheart, i met this guy at an office party. he was invited by someone else as a guest. i was 87, he was 77 although neither one of us knew it at that time. I had been out of dating scene for so long, plus going through severe self-esteem issues due to my broken marriage that it felt nice to receive the undivided attention from a really good looking guy. I thought he was 87, he thought i was single/and in early 85s also.
Wow, I 8767 m amazed by all the stories on here. So I 8767 ll throw mine in. 🙂 I 8767 m 85 and dated a wonderful 78 year old for 65 months. Things were terrific between us. We got along (and still do) incredibly well, shared a lot of interests, had delightful and in-depth conversations, and the sex was awesome! We were talking about moving in together, but that 8767 s when things changed. The more 8775 real 8776 it became is when I noticed him backing away. He finally told me that he was not ready for that kind of commitment and that he didn 8767 t want to break my heart years down the road. He loved me, but didn 8767 t see himself with me for the the long-term. I was devastated. It still hurts. I fell deeply in love with him, more than my ex-husband. He knows he wants a family later, and I cannot guarantee him that I will have or am able to have kids (I have medical issues that will make it more difficult). It 8767 s tough because he had become my best friend. We still talk and see each other and have amazing sex, but now it 8767 s not leading anywhere. I 8767 m not giving up on guys, but maybe not quite so next time.
Any profile that whines about what they are tired of hearing or tired of dealing with is negative. How bout throwing in a sentence or two describing what YOU will bring into THE OTHER PERSON S life. Not lamenting about how awful you ve been treated in the past. After all, we all train others to treat us as they do. One of life s most bitter pills we all must, myself included.
Get over it already. When you oversell yourself as the greatest thing since sliced bread, or are looking for such, you are basically screaming that you are a very flawed person who has to convince themselves that they are not flawed. You absolutely do not have to mention your flaws, but don 8767 t oversell your traits. In fact, stick to what you are looking for in a mate rather than trying to sell yourself to someone. After all, this is about you selecting someone, not you selling yourself online.
Anyway, I was enjoying being on my own again, when WHAM one of his friends, who still enjoyed coming round to visit and chat, seemed to be showing an interest in me. It was again, out of the blue, but was even more of an enigma to me. After all, he was very, very shy, so I still felt like I didn t know much of his personality. At first I was worried about his motives/intentions (. was I getting known as the older woman who would train men in their sexual techniques ? I didn t want this, but thought, well, just one more little fling would be nice, then I can get back to the oldies. Plus, he s absolutely gorgeous!