Posted: 2017-11-14 20:57
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months tomorrow we have 5 kids toget ther 8 are his and 7 are mine he works and i take care of them my 7 go to there dads every other week but his 8 live with us. But i really want him to love on me more or help me with thing when i ask i do everything he askes me to do and he dose nothing i ask but the mane thing is when we get ready to have sex he wants me to just please him like he dont kiss me or anything to get me ready he just wants me to suck him off wich i dont mind but i just wish he would like kiss me and rub on me first but its like there is no real Passion for me what should bi do?
i reallyreally likethis guy and we kissed just the other week but now he doesnt text me even though he thought i tasted good and wants to kiss me again we are not going out but i want to and im so confused about him all he does is tease me and make sexual remarks what do i do and does it sound like he likes me because i am so confused he has acted like this since forever and i play along just because he is funn please help
I too was with a guy like this. We just broke up..and I think it needs to be for good. He constantly thinks I 8767 m cheating. He questions everything that I do. And no matter how much I stress to him that I don 8767 t want anyone else he accuses me the more. It breaks my heart. He takes things out of my past that has happened years ago and uses that to justify how he treats me. He talks to his ex and other women of his past and always makes it seem like its no big deal. But he accuses me of everything..even to the point of sleeping with my stepdad. I love my stepdad like my own I have slowly distanced myself from him just to not have arguments. It has slowly drained me. I can 8767 t do it anymore. And when he gets into his way the name calling starts and I 8767 m all kinds of whores and b*tches. My heart is broke tonight. I 8767 m 89 with no kids and I wonder am I destined to be single. That 8767 s probably why I held on so long to this. I don 8767 t want to be single. But at some point I have to say that I 8767 d rather be single then to have to deal with an unhealthy situation.
As for getting asked out, I do believe in self-fulfilling prophecies and I have stopped telling myself 8775 I never get asked out. 8776 I don 8767 t get hit on every time I leave the house, like some BR ladies, but I do okay. Interestingly, I 8767 ve been in New York state the past week or so and am amazed at the difference: I feel way more attractive, and it is creating some kind of loop that builds on itself.
I like seriously hate being shy. I 8767 m shy to some of my family! I hate it n I work with little kids at my church n I 8767 m shy with little kids too. In 9th grade I got voted for the most quietest, like no joke. And like of course I talk to people that are my friends and stuff like if someone starts talking to me of course I 8767 m gonna talk back but I just hate how I 8767 m shy to my family & the kids I work with. Like for vacation bible school I 8767 m suppose to interact and communicate with little kids but Idk how to do it. Please help
I am not suggesting that this post is invalid, but I know I am extremely insecure, but I am not abusive, nor would I ever be. You we 8767 re saying something about our mommy making us the 8775 Nice guy 8776 Well my mom also taught me not to touch a female, no matter how bad some of you women out there deserve a good knock upside the head lol And ya 8767 ll play on that until that one guy who didn 8767 t listen to mommy comes along. In conclusion, Don 8767 t always judge a book by it 8767 s cover, but hell yeah most of us are insecure but I could just as easily say most women are promiscuous, and most of those insecure men. spawned from a promiscuous woman. Just think about it and thanks for reading, I meant no offense to anyone, apologies if I came across otherwise.
He 8767 s attracted to you in some way, that 8767 s why he approached you. He 8767 s interested to a degree, but you 8767 re probably not the only one he 8767 s interested in. He may be weighing his options, trying to figure out who he 8767 ll ask out. Just be patient. Be kind. Don 8767 t put all of your eggs in one basket with this guy though. If he wants you bad enough, he 8767 ll make a move.
Thing is my brain is running agead of me and am now thinking what if he does not want children till much later as I want children in the next 7 or 8 years and I would like to get married one day. Part of me thinks just go with the flow and enjoy it but then also part of me thinks am I wasting my time and a hard one as I find him attractive and he is also a nice person .what to do??
i have the same problem with my current boyfriend. he 8767 s not as affectionate as i was expecting/hoping him to be. friends tell me i 8767 m supposed to teach him by being patient and by telling him what i want. but i want him to just be affectionate and sweet and caring all the time naturally. i mean, come on. my ex was like that. he used to take care of me and cater to me. that 8767 s my type of guy. so i always break up with my boyfriend because he 8767 s not good enough for me. but he always begs for me to take him back. so it 8767 s like a cycle. i really want to end this. right now i 8767 m blocking his texts so that i wouldn 8767 t need to communicate or hear whatever he has to tell me ..
I really like this article, thank you. I have a very bad few weeks everyone is picking on me. Once people at work or wherever find out you have shyness and anxiety they try to pick on you, not everyone but the group dominates any environment. Nobody cares if you have food to eat or a place to sleep. This is the really had part to overcome severe anxiety and shyness Nobody outside the blog gives a shit and most of them actually see you as unprotected class of disability so they just take free reign to pick on you and hurt you. I am very depressed today.. Please ignore me.. I want to change so badly.
Ah I 8767 m so glad to read an article like this, I feel like I 8767 m one of the few like this and to hear from guys like me too is good (in the nicest way). I 8767 m also reasonably muscular and I take care of myself and I nearly always get 8766 you seemed so arrogant at first and now I know you 8767 re actually a pretty nice guy 8767 . I 8767 ve even learnt to pretend to live with being 8766 a snob 8767 , even though I 8767 m not at all because I tend to keep away from loud bars and clubs which are full of extrovert people. I do this because my voice doesn 8767 t travel far in there.
Okay, so there is this guy that was in the same class with me last year. I liked him alot. I had a friend and I trusted her fully. She asked who I liked and in return she told me who she liked. After while she started being mean towards me. And then in class about a month later my bff for life told me some news that I didnt want to hear. That the so called friend that I trusted fully was now dating my crush. At this point EVERYBODY knew I liked him including him. When I was around him he was nice and super goofy alot weirder than normal for him and would laugh at my corniest jokes. This year we dont talk but sometimes I look over at the lunch table he sits at and he is staring. This may be a coincidence but do you think so? Also if it isnt just a coincidence then how do I walk up to him and talk without being totally awkward in every way possible? If ANYONE reads this then can you please reply to me?
There 8767 s a guy I met about a month ago. Here 8767 s what he does:
Makes jokes all the time
Talks about serious stuff like his parents divorce but also stuff like baby carrots
Makes eye contact
Stares at me but when I glance up doesn 8767 t look away
Says my name a lot when we talk
Smiles a lot
He is a friendly person to everyone. Does he like me?
Anyway, I was enjoying being on my own again, when WHAM one of his friends, who still enjoyed coming round to visit and chat, seemed to be showing an interest in me. It was again, out of the blue, but was even more of an enigma to me. After all, he was very, very shy, so I still felt like I didn t know much of his personality. At first I was worried about his motives/intentions (. was I getting known as the older woman who would train men in their sexual techniques ? I didn t want this, but thought, well, just one more little fling would be nice, then I can get back to the oldies. Plus, he s absolutely gorgeous!
SWG i think you give him more then what he deserve you dont have to feel bad or sad in anyway he just not the right guy for you and you wil get someone that will treat you the way you want to be treated with respect and love before me and my gf started dating she told that if i want kids that i must move on and not keep her for fun and i told her that am ok with it and that i won 8767 t use her and here we stil are loving each other even more so dont let that guy make you feel like you wrong or dirty because you not
Found a work around and hey presto no messages for 8 weeks now. Got a girl to randomly ask me that question on my wall saying she was researching male behaviour etc and I responded with my hints n other guys mostly agreed. The funny thing about my unwanted admirer is that the next day she sent me two messages just with links to articles, I am pretty certain not to appear 8766 guilty 8767 . Since then my news feeds have shown a couple of cryptic posts from her, but can 8767 t say if she 8767 s cursing me cos even before she was the type to regularly be posting cryptic attention seeking posts etc.
Since then, we have not been friends,but he has tried on a few occasions to make nice by offering to do things for me. (This was after I found BR.) I politely declined his offers of help, because I didn 8767 t want to get sucked down that black hole again. He was a future faker when I was on good terms with him, and I didn 8767 t want to put ANY kind of hope in him actually following through on these favors.
There is this guy I really like in my grade and somehow he found out that I like him. We were good friends before, but now he is just totally ignoring me and has blocked me online. I didn 8767 t confront him and now I don 8767 t know what to do. I am fine with it if he doesn 8767 t feel the same way about me, it 8767 s fine if we are just friends. However, I can 8767 t even tell him this, because I can never find him! Two of our friends have decided to help me, and they said that they would talk to him but I don 8767 t know what to do at all Please help!
someone suggested Facebook to me,I don 8767 t do Facebook, but might be worthwhile. as far as looking up old girlfriends, well there really is only 6 or 7 of those, more like one.
I get your 8775 social zone 8776 deal, its quite rare for me too but last summer at a BBQ i was in the zone. I was actually talking with my 7th grade girlfriend, and her husband, but somehow attracting a girl I ended up dating, and another girl, a good friends sister, who was all over me.
Bry85 seems like your dating the wrong type of girl, look for the more introverted girls, online, or at a coffee shop, if they like Wes Anderson movies, that 8767 s a easy sign for the introverted girls. what I 8767 ve found with them is your have to put in a lot of effort, at first, tons of messaging, even before you meet up, even if they ever will meet up. so how can we get into this 8775 social zone 8776 ?
or can we?
A guy that I work with had a crush on me for a few months and I had a crush on him too I just didn 8767 t know he was into me like that. So recently I gave him my number. He didn 8767 t respond it turns out he met this other chick which is ok I 8767 m not upset cause all I had was a crush. The thing that 8767 s getting to me is that he now finds it awkward to be around me. Cause he tried to talk to me and apparently was looking for me a lot the other day. But I didnt say hay back to him at one point during the day( by accident) ever since then hes avoided me. I guess i made him upset or feel awkward..Sucks cause I would like to at least be friends. I feel like i should go up and talk to him about it but i dont want to make it worse.. i dont know what to do to make him feel comfortable other than that.. or if I should do anything at all