Posted: 2017-11-15 01:59
6. Relax and don 8767 t try to impress her. It 8767 s going to feel artificial and lame. That means no 8775 DHV 8776 stories where you try to show how cool you are, no bragging, no trying to talk yourself up. 8775 The lion doesnt need to roar. 8776 Instead, treat her like a female friend you 8767 re really comfortable with. Joke around with her. Tease her. Give her funny nicknames. Be affectionate.
As for child abuse, your statistics are so flawed. As a survivor myself, I have no mental illness or 8775 after effects 8776 of the abuse. I forgave them & learned to accept that it was part of my childhood & moved on, instead of constantly blaming my abusers. I realized that they time they grew up in, was different than it is today & was able to forgive them, because they didn 8767 t know any different. But, I could make a difference in my adult life & how I raised my children. But that is what angers many people, of every race, is when we constantly hear that what is wrong with black Americans today is all because of the white man. There have been many strong black men & women who try to advise black men & women today, but it 8767 s like it falls on deaf ears. We can 8767 t change what happened in the past. Only when people quit blaming the past for what is happening in their lives today, only then can the entire country move on to a place of healing.
Your power is your degree of internal locus of control (I-LoC), and inversely, your lack of approval-seeking (nApp). Most seduction methods are based on techniques that fake a lack of approval-seeking. However, I-LoC behavior is extremely subtle, and varies with each individual. If you make a conscious effort to present yourself as confident and 8775 alpha, 8776 I assure you there will be a crack in your expression. The nApp-ing will show through. This is why the 8775 fake it til you make it 8776 strategy will actually slow your progress.
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Hell heres a list of suggestions since I 8767 m already started
(telling others about the importance of it .)
9. The Real World
about the weather
/Disney World/land and all Disney products
9. Saving endangered/old buildings,parks and the like
accents and those attached to them
American made products
66. Flying American flags
to comedy shows featuring black performers
kids of differnt races and thus Angelina and Brad
76. Going to the Dentist
..the list goes on
By the way great site
Totally agree that machismo is oppressive especially to females of European decent.
My personal experience was not pleasant to put it mildly. I think it is a cover for male
inadequacies. . Overt masculine behavior is a cover to counter their emotional
fragility, insecurities. What first may appear as confidence, on closer inspection is
insecurity. Well anyway seem to be true in my experience.
Macho behavior comes across as acting/ not genuine and natural.
Glad he is gone and now can focus on my life and making it better.
Totally understand Faith in above post. Its not her fault rather the immaturity of him.
I don 8767 t know where you 8767 re from or who you 8767 re talking about. Maybe in your circle of friends that statement is correct? The truth is close to 85% of black children are born out of wedlock. Fact. That isn 8767 t even counting all the white women who have mixed bastards, because in most hospitals the race of the baby is listed as the mother 8767 s race. I 8767 m not even going to go into the incredibly high rates of disease, drug use, criminal records, etc. etc. of blacks compared to whites and most other races.
And who said white people are more beautiful and fitting? Because according to nature (the only true God on earth) everyone with color and melanin are more fitting lol. Hence the reason we don 8767 t need 8775 advanced 8776 creations like sun screen lol.
We can create a black person but mixing with any race of person. ANY
People of color can create a person of ANY color even white.
White people cannot do that lol, but blacks are allegedly inferior
We can turn the entire world black by mixing with other races of women.
Ironic that the darkest and lightest man on the planet are BOTH black lol. http:///gallery/C6YcZPO
I 8767 m sure Warren Buffett didn 8767 t squander all his wealth, but the amount of money that he has is far more than any human being needs to live on, and he made it by taking a life path he couldn 8767 t have had without access to things other people couldn 8767 t have because of their race. It is good that he donates to charity. It doesn 8767 t change the fact that he and a lot of other people were able to make the wealth they did in the way they did because of their racial profiles.
You learned a lot about racism in this experience. However, you did miss one area that I couldn 8767 t help but notice. Your black boyfriend most likely was rejecting much darker black women to be with you. Colorism is common among minority men who reject their own kind to be with white women. For example, Tiger Woods has an absolute preference for blonde white women with blue eyes most of the time. Occasionally, he dates white brunettes. Meanwhile, he rejects much darker black women who look like the women from the Supremes from the 6965s or Janet Jackson.
Does an individual really believe that the proof of superiority really comes through oppression of others? Since ancient times, people have been 8766 categorized 8767 or 8766 stereotyped 8767 , which has made discrimination easier. The root of the problem lies in our physical or cultural differences which involve skin color, language, religion or tribe, hence, the solution too comes from this problem of being different. Accepting, and maybe celebrating differences is just one way, educating ourselves on these differences is another, and just maybe, a zero tolerance attitude towards racism as an individual and a society could pave the way for less racism. But, then we do not live in an idealistic
What you are saying is, 8775 I don 8767 t like this. I don 8767 t like that I am being asked to play a role in making things fairer. I don 8767 t want to think about it. Therefore, I 8767 m pushing the problem out of my sight by blaming black people for causing or perpetuating their own oppression. Where it becomes too nonsensical to insist they caused it, I am going to say 8775 Well just forget about it, you 8767 re saying things I don 8767 t like so I am just going to say 8775 Let the past be past, 8776 which means 8775 It is inconvenient for me to to have to think about such painful things. 8776 8776
You talk about white attitudes and when you have been proven to lied you say, 8775 So you admit it is only about the attitude of whites. 8776 You never stop you trickery do you. Attitudes are a simple trick it sounds easy so whites fall for it but you can always claim attitudes didn 8767 t change and you don 8767 t want any concrete test of your demands. The real world test of an idea is the only real test. You ideas led to poverty and death. You don 8767 t to be exposed again.
However, it 8767 s true that in the US I experienced more random sexual assaults from strangers (I also experienced this more in Italy, Spain, France and Japan). It 8767 s also true that men in the streets will often yell much grosser things like 8775 you got big tits 8776 or 8775 I 8767 d hit that, 8776 etc. (so disgusting), as well as insulting things (once someone yelled at me 8775 lose weight bitch 8776 as I was biking I tend to yo-yo a bit and was chubby, though far from obese also, I was BIKING YOU IDIOT, NOT EATING AN ICE CREAM SUNDAE also it 8767 s none of your fucking business, asshole). So there 8767 s more hateful kind of harassment in the US, definitely. And they also seem to think that telling you you 8767 re fuckable is the ultimate compliment, whereas Latino men will usually try to tell you all kinds of lines about how you 8767 re beautiful (and compliment specific facial features, not your body) and call you 8775 angel 8776 and etc. to get you to like them. I do notice in Mexico that I get a ton of married men and men with girlfriends hitting on me (and they don 8767 t bother to hide it), which seems to be a part of the machismo culture.
It’s true that women are more likely than men to be anxious , but they’re also more likely to have experienced physical and emotional abuse, both of which contribute to anxiety, for obvious reasons. So the claim that women are “neurotic” without any context as to why—possibly some differences in brain chemistry , but also, just maybe, greater levels of sexual harassment and social isolation in the workplace—is misleading and frankly, insulting.
I grew up in a wonderful and loving home in Southern California. I had an older brother and sister 67 and 65 years my senior respectively, parents who were happy together, and my aunt and cousins lived one street over. I had a lot of attention growing up being the baby and all, but my main source of affection came from my Dad. My mom began studying for her Bachelor’s degree when I was 7 so I spent most of my free time watching WWF and eating Doritos with my Dad for nearly a decade.
The first order of business is to not think about meeting a woman as 8775 picking her up. 8776 This mindset will kill your odds of success, especially if she is in a mixed group. This mindset puts you into a 8775 taking frame, 8776 instead of a 8775 giving frame, 8776 and I assure you, no group wants some random guy to take their friend. Women want to feel 8775 swept away 8776 by a man who knows how to take control. Women do NOT want to feel like the man is getting over on them or taking something from them.
Frankly, you 8767 re not telling the truth. I was born and raised in Peru. And i can tell you that don 8767 t figure out attitudes from some disrespectful guys as a part of everything. The fact a man/woman from a determined country stares at a woman/man from different country/background doesn 8767 t mean she/he 8767 d be rude.. It 8767 s just curiosity. In my country, it usually happens. Here it 8767 s quite possible to find out a man who does it. We just don 8767 t learn to do it. Something that i can tell you is that we fight -little by little- vs inequality in our society that includes people, economy, security, health and transport.
We latinos (most) love to threat our gf/wife in an affectionable and protective way. Our intentions are the best and we try our best to reach it out. Moreover, it doesn 8767 t mean we 8767 re not confident at all. There 8767 s still a bad misconception about us.
Just don 8767 t take it for granted, something that sums it up.
9) giving money to street musicians, esp. ones who are playing jazz. Speaking of which, is jazz not on this list? Seriously? From the 85 something Pottery Barn shopper who picks up 8775 Ella 8767 s Greatest Hits 8776 at the checkout counter on a whim to the 8775 serious 8776 record collector who will lecture you for hours about the merits of various pressings, one this is for sure. White people like jazz!
I can see why any Mexican would stare at you in the picture with your friends. I 8767 m Mexican and the problem is the shorts and the cleavage. To diminish such advances (you can never quite eliminate them) I always wore jeans. More modest tops that show no cleavage were necessary in rural areas, though in Mexico City there is more leeway. Is it fair? No. But it 8767 s not about fairness, it 8767 s about getting less rude comments. And, yes, you always have to ignore them and be icy towards them. You 8767 re lucky no one followed you back to your home/hotel. If you engage them they sometimes do that.
It is my decision, as an adult, to remain happy and not compensate my ethics and morals for someone who refused to even give someone important to me a chance. Many people will tell you that in life there is nothing more important than family. But you have a responsibility to ensure that your family is healthy for you. Dr. Phil often says “sometimes you have to give yourself the love and care you WISHED you got from others.” Amen.