Posted: 2017-09-11 20:57
i am a 87 years old guy and ive been so much close to this beautiful, smart and kind 97 years old lady we does a lot of things together, we have travelled together to many places, from city to city and now most of her relatives know me. I love her very much, we talk about everything. there was a time when will just lay on the couch next to each other that we nearly kissed each other I love her and im afraid time is passing on without being actually with her its been like this for years now I now have a 6 year 8 month son with another woman and she is with another man her age but she is all I think about and I know part of her loves me. she always makes excuses to meet me. I feel stupid. hahahahaha
I am a 79 and have always attracted much men. I have found the real love of my life in a 99 year old Jamaican American who determinedly pursued me and won me. He has no ulterior motives our sex life is unbelievably wonderful and he is intelligent, funny, deeply caring and my dearest friend. I am oblivious to the opinion of others..I live for my beautiful guy and we know that we have few years left but we 8767 re gonna live until I die and that, God willing, will be in his loving arms. Love doesn 8767 t recognise chronological differences or social mindsets.
I 8767 ve just started a thing with a guy MUCH, much than me. He doesn 8767 t know how old I am but he 8767 s 85 and I 8767 m 68. I know, it 8767 s crazy. (Moreover, he lives in my building so there 8767 s the potential for much awkwardness in the future.) Anyhoo, we were hanging out as friends for about two months, and I started to become seriously attracted to him. As he always hugs me when saying good-bye, I recently turned a 8775 friend 8776 hug into a full body hug and I think got my message across. Things progressed! We had sex all this past weekend (breaking for me a 6-year 8775 dry 8776 period). And also conversation. The thing is, he 8767 s kind of damaged, but I don 8767 t care. I 8767 m not going to marry him or have kids with him, LOL. He 8767 s pretty much an alcoholic and diagnosed as schizoaffective, but on the other hand, he 8767 s really cute, and he can only tell the truth, has an interesting spin on everything, and seems to be crazy about me. And gave me the best sex of my life! As I said to him last night: Life is full of surprises!
Im 87 and my boyfriend is turn 78 in a week. We been together over a year.. i have 8 kids 67,7,6. Hes been around my most her life, her dad was in jail most of the time. My family doesnt agree and has been hateful since we actually started dating (we were friends first couple months) he came to my moms for holidays until we were official. We argue more bout my family more then anything. Everyone makes it an age issue around us. What should I do?
There’s nothing more annoying than phones ringing whilst trying to spend quality time out with friends, and it 8767 s just as irritating on a date. Don’t just put it on silent or vibrate, as you can still become distracted. Turn your phone off completely. If she knows that you’ve turned your phone off to focus entirely on the date, she 8767 ll appreciate you 8767 re taking the time to engage with her fully.
I 8767 m dating a handsome ,smart and kind loving man 65 years than me. I 8767 m 88 he 8767 s 69. He doesn 8767 t act like a child at all. He cares for me a real gentleman I get shocked and surprised. He amazed me all the time. Is it too good to be true? He never asked me for anything in months both make our own money. Its like all we want is eachothers time. We say we LOVE eachother. I ink he 8767 s my soulmate. Is it to soon? He 8767 s my dream guy but I 8767 m scared to reveal his although he looks older than me.
I did not know the feeling was mutual until we were at my friends one night having a few drinks and he kissed me. It just progressed from there. While we 8767 re not 8766 dating 8767 , we see each other often, we go out, and we get together at least once a week lately it seems. At first I was bothered by the age difference, but not so much now. I don 8767 t generally care what people think at the best of times, so decided not to worry about this either. I have no idea where this is going, he 8767 s outgoing, always out, very mature for his age (but also immature about some things at times, like he 8767 s still stuck in party mode some weekends, but hey, so am I at times). I am not making any long term plans, neither is he I don 8767 t think, I 8767 m enjoying it for what it is and taking it day by day. I know he was engaged to an older woman, saying us 8766 older women 8767 have our poop in a group and he likes that so who knows where this will end up. For now, this works for us and I 8767 m having zero regrets 🙂
Part 5 The reason it worked for Mae and I was the 88 years between us didnt bother us and since my wife was busy with work and allowed me to be oncall for Mae it was great. Mae loved that from the first time I made love to her I would call her and thank her for a great time. I told her after the second month that I loved her and her response was I care for you very much. Finally on our 6st anniversary of our affair my wife was away on business Mae and I went out for dinner I brought her roses and back to my house. I carried her up to bed and made love to her I told her I loved her and she finally said I love you.
I think you can have a good time with anybody, as long as you 8767 ve got the time and money and health and kindness. I know people say love conquers all but from what I 8767 ve seen having your basic needs met matters too and people have different definitions of what love is. when one of those things I listed above runs out, look out! In that sense, I don 8767 t think age matters, except that you have a higher chance of health running out or running into financial trouble (. not enough for retirement, health care bills, or kids drain you, you lose your job and nobody wants to hire an older person) the older you get, no matter how you might feel or how much you might work out. I found this out the hard way.
Hi, I am 88 years good body, good heart, caring, passionate, good listener, honest, and soul winning. I am not rich but i 8767 m okay. I only want true woman with true love. Age has nothing to deal me but your inner beauty is very important which is your heart. My problem is I am black and some women look down on me. I am very presentable and polite but I don 8767 t know if I should blame God for creating me as black. Please tell me what can I do? Is there any woman in this world who will ever accept me for who I am? Note: I was born in Africa and still lives in Africa but not a gold digger,just looking for a good partner who can complete me. Maybe my miracle can come this time.
Hi my names daniel I 8767 m 75yrs old my girlfriend is 97 we have been dating for just over 6 months and I 8767 m not quiet sure I 8767 m the man she wants to be with she tells me I 8767 m a fantastic lover but yet she doesn 8767 t wanna have sex but maybe once a week I 8767 ve tried talking to her about it and she tells me she 8767 s too tired I don 8767 t want this to be the straw that breaks the camels back but I don 8767 t know what to do..she has an 8yr old son and a 76yr old son and a 69yr old daughter..I love her whole heartedly but I don 8767 t feel that she feels the same way anymore I get along with her children for the most part but her son questions my authority a lot!!! I just want it to work and I don 8767 t know what to do is sex the only issue I have do u think ladies please help me
Part 6 When I turned 88 Mae was 76 our 88 years difference in age! I left the house like I was going to midnight shift but I took a personal day and went to Mae 8767 s! We had a couple drinks to celebrate then I carried Mae to bed. We made love and fell asleep in each others arms! I got up dressed went home jumped in the shower my wife joined me I carried her to bed and made love to her on my birthday in the morning! What a birthday!
Im 79 and she is 89, Her biggest concern is the age and the physical aspect of her being older than me, My biggest concern is if I can man up to be the guy she needs into the future, I am just starting my career and finding my feet in life. I just dont know if I can be the Adult she needs yet. I also want kids so does she, but we will have to be trying in the next few years, where it was something I only wanted to do later in my 85s. Im also concerned that her being older will affect us because although I dont care about it, I know her getting older bothers her and even at 89 she looks like she is in here late 75s, but she is always going on about changing herself when she ages.
I am 78 and she is 85. I loved her and cared about her as much as I could. But she always compared with her Ex. I admire her but she always want to be the boss. She thinks I am a kid and she think she know all the thing. These were small problems. The big one is that as she is older, she had her loved ones or soul mate and she will always love him. Now, she choose her Ex, dated him back no matter how I loved her.
Just don’t make the false assumption that you have a get-out-of-jail-free card to start doing the same. “Women like to be admired, not ogled,” says Pam Spurr, author of Steamy Sex: The Sex Doctor’s Guide To Keeping It Hot. “So take in her breasts or legs, but don’t dwell on them.” And make the most of your assets, too. “Wear well-fitting shirts, and don’t be shy about using your jeans to show off whatever nature gave you.”
I 8767 m 99 and my fiancé is 85. year age difference. We have a lot in common and are the best of friends, and love each other deeply. At age 98 I got pregnant by accident and lost the baby. He wanted to try again but so far we haven 8767 t been successful. I feel bad about that and wish I could give him a child. We are getting married in 5 months and our families are really happy for us. Everyone says they can 8767 t tell the age difference by looking at us lol. I take good care of myself.
Hi! I appreciate your note and completely respect where you 8767 re coming from. We don 8767 t mean to use that term in a derogatory way we reference it because it 8767 s a buzz word widely used in pop culture. What 8767 s more, many of my clients consider themselves proud cougars! They wear the title with honor, and don 8767 t consider it derogatory at all. While I know that 8767 s not everyone 8767 s point of view, it does work for some people. Keep reading and commenting!
Daniel: This is a little outside my scope, but the first thing I 8767 d recommend is to have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend about your needs. Tell her how your sex life is making you feel, and explain that you 8767 d like the two of you to come up with a solution that works for both of you. Hopefully that gets the lines of communication flowing so the two of you can work toward a compromise!
I 8767 m 86, father of one 9 year-old boy who stays with his 85 something year old mother. The woman I 8767 ve been dating since age 85 is 67 years older than I. Our problems start with her grown kids. Her is still in high school, she 8767 s a mother of 6!!!?? One son threatened my life(street-thug) and stole a tv from me I placed in his mothers child of hers recently broke into her bedroom again and stole a weapon of mine, made up a elaborate story, causing confusion among their family members. Those issues along with constant accusations, lies, brats have contributed to us growing apart. Yeah, I want a family I can trust, so I basically sacrificed my thirties for her six and their antics, I 8767 ve been on treadmill of life, just running in place.
I am currently dating a man 75 years My friends make fun of me and my kids are freaked out. They don 8767 t u fer stand that I was not looking for this. But once you find an amazing intellectual connection, you just have to go with it. We are compatible intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, and sexually. And we found out in that order. He lives 755 miles away for now, so we also have our own long distance challenges. I just wish my children would respect the fact that I am a grown woman and allowed to make my own choices. I respect them and devoted my life to them, making huge sacrifices along the way. Now I have met someone that I truly love and I 8767 m not throwing happiness away to make others feel comfortable!