Posted: 2017-11-13 01:22
Liz am in the same situation except he is 68 and am 85, i do have the same cncerns as most women the age gap thing, in the begninng i started it casual i wasn 8767 t looking for anything serious just to experiment and to think i am desired by such a person peak my interest, we became intimtate within weeks and found out am his first now its going on six months now nd we are very attached but he has became very jealousful of me nd naggs all t time and argue however we are very much inlove
You are the best and I so much enjoy reading your blog plus I 8767 ve learnt a lot and I 8767 m still gonna learn more. Sir, there is this girl I just met via facebook. She added me on fb, and after some minutes upon accepting her request, I message her and she did replied and it seems we are good. She then ask me to call her but I couldn 8767 t and I let her know. She then pleaded with me to text her. I agreed but did not until later in the night. She didn 8767 t text back, so I called. She claim, she couldn 8767 t here me and me too can 8767 t. I called a couple of times and got like I don 8767 t want to be like I 8767 m a clingy person. That will be a wrong impression. Tony, pls I like her but she hasn 8767 t text, call or facebook me and I don 8767 t literally know what to do. Pls come to my aid o. Thanks brother..x
Thank you for sharing your experience. This proves yet another important point. Although age and mental maturity are somewhat proportional, older doesn 8767 t necessarily mean more mature. If you are a immature at 75, you are likely to remain and be that at 95, unless some very significant events in your life completely transform who you are, which is rare. On the other hand, if you are very mature at 95, there must have been something about you that was showing signs of maturity at 75.
Dude. Don 8767 t get needy on that girl. She thinks you have options and that you 8767 re out of her league? Good! Use that. But at the same time, she isn 8767 t responding? Wtf? Sounds like she 8767 s retarded. Maybe she fell on her head. If she isn 8767 t replying or answering, who knows? I 8767 m not a mind reader. Are you? Make her fucking reply. Say, 8775 Hey. Fucking reply. 8776 Or move on.
I knew my husband would never make much. When we married I felt like kids were years away and there wasn 8767 t any reason to worry about it then. Like Anonymous Lawyer says, I had no idea I 8767 d feel this way. I am financing his dream of a museum career while busting my ass in a job I haven 8767 t enjoyed for a long time. I have been trying for over a year to get the hell out of public accounting and so far nothing is working out for me. Maybe if I didn 8767 t hate my job so much I 8767 d be less resentful.
The MISC. always laugh at this saying: LIVE. LAUGH. LOVE. BUT I argue that this
is what you should be telling yourself constantly. LIVE first, make sure you
have direction in life! LAUGH second, once your life has direction only then
you can really begin to have fun and be happy when you wake up in the morning.
LOVE is the last, because only when you are LIVING first and LAUGHING second then
you are capable of finding true LOVE.
There are some salsa places in stockholm that Ive been to, there are mostly hispanic people there, in fact, so many that everytime Ive been there that everyone just assume that I speak spanish. My first idea was to just go there and ask a girl to ask me to teach me lol. I always figured that the best way to learn something is to just do it. But everyone at those places are just there to dance salsa and are great at it. So I kinnda feel out of place. How would you as a latina girl react if someone asked you to teach them to dance in a salsa club?
Wow. So long as the guy is a gem I don 8767 t care overmuch about height. I always thought other issues like compatibility are more important.
That could also be due to my job. As a midget female in the military bigger guys always want to push you around or challenge you. (Officer. Nuff said.) Not all mind you but dealing with the alpha male nonsense can be fun. (Big jerks make big targets in deployed conditions Being short has bonuses.)
Having dated tall or short and divorced from a short I still know one thing. If someone can 8767 t get past something I can 8767 t help I 8767 m grateful. (Shallow? Can 8767 t date a military/alien/short/non-blonde?) Lucky escape for me! Sorry this doesn 8767 t help you though.
But I see plenty of women out there that have women who are taller than he is. What are they doing that you aren 8767 t? Also, are you insisting on the whole package? Well, I have news for you, if you are shorter, you aren 8767 t the whole package if a woman is going to be with you, shorter probably wasn 8767 t her preference, so she is settling for something less than the whole package. She is focusing instead on education, personality, etc Maybe you have to settle for a woman who is overweight, or some other issue that isn 8767 t your preference.
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I had a boyfriend like this. When we lived with two other female roommates, right after college, he didn 8767 t want to contribute to the toilet paper fund, because he didn 8767 t use as much TP as the gals. Nor did he want to contribute to cleaning supplies b/c he didn 8767 t think we needed to clean as much as we did. We were all super broke (there was a recession back then, too, and I was living on free bagels I brought home from my job at the bagel shop) but it was about not wanting to share and contribute to the household, not whether he could contribute an extra dollar or two.
Just be aware of fashion, you don t have to be so aware you could host your own version of What Not To Wear. Have clean and maintained hair, you don t have to look like you got your hair done for a wedding (some of the cutest and best looking hair styles I ve seen have been on friends when we were 9 or 5 days into a week-long of camping and they just did something quick to keep their hair out of their eyes). Wear an outfit that makes sense within itself, you don t have to spend three hours agonizing over which accessory best goes with an outfit.
A woman wanting a high-earning man (. a man who earns more than she does) is analogous to a man wanting a beautiful woman. To answer your question above, Evan yes, this is a result of good old biology. However, these are only human tendencies, and most people eventually learn to rise above these tendencies and look for LOVE. And, hey, some people learn this lesson the hard way when the rich guy turns out to be a prick or the hot chick turns out to be nuts!
I 8767 m 68 yrs old i met a women who 85 yrs old in Online , firstly we became just friends and now we became lovers. she is a lawyer and she didn 8767 t marry till now , I LOVE HER SO MUCH and she to love me a lot , my family will not agree to this and she advise me that after my Graduation i can move to her , and marry her . But i think a lot about this and to to decide. and i want to know is this will success. I hope that we will live together with great happiness , but i have still fear in my heart, to do all this i need a good advise for good life
Sadly, for some posts i have seen, chilvalry is only considered as such if it means you are burning an outrageous sum on the woman, or acting as a bag carrier/cry shoulder at her convenience. I 8767 ve never been in Sweden, although I would like it, for the quality of teaching. But having seen some posts here and on other sites too, and personal accounts, I would never would go to Scandinavia after women. I have some girl friends who went there and married native men, the second marriage for these men, the first was with native women, and did not last long. And when married women from outside, these guys acted as if they were people who had never eaten a good meal in life. These girl friends have a hard time to fit in, because there are many women there who act like men and are upset by women who want to act like women, as if they want to be sex toys for men or something.
Along the same lines, most women may not be into short guys because it makes them feel big and heavy. There 8767 s such a strong emphasis on women being small mostly thin, but also petite so maybe if it was okay for women to be any other size it would be okay for men too. If a guy is going to outweigh me (I 8767 m 5 foot 6, mid 695s) yet not be fat, he 8767 s probably going to be a few inches taller than I am.
To be fair, there are quite a few men who invest a large amount of their free time into being attractive. Sure, cardio and going to the fitness center does have other benefits as well, but for many looking good and feeling more secure is a huge factor as well. I m sure if you d add up those hours it would be a bit fairer ). You re right of course that the average women probably spends much more time on her make-up/outfit than the average man.
One question I have is why women find it so easy to make a guy feel self-conscious about his height. I 8767 m 5 8767 8 8776 and several women have admitted before our date = they have reservations about my height, asking me questions like 8775 are you really 5 8767 8 8776 ? 8776 I would NEVER make a woman feel bad because of her height or weight, so I do not understand why many women do not give shorter-than-average men the same consideration.
My main question is would a Switz girl about my age be attracted to a guy who has these type of characteristics? I am a little tan due to me being spanish I have a body ,a great personality, a good heart, I dance salsa merengue bachata reggae house, techno . is playing but my advantage is dancing and respect. What does a guy like me need to have to conquer and have every man 8767 s dream a switz girl??
I would be careful calling yourself very, very successful too as this might make him or any other intuitive and perceptive guy roll his eyes so to speak. You can imagine how this can be construed as sign of insecurity. I doubt that even Oprah Winfrey, Martha Steward, Sarina Williams and alike refer to themselves that way. I doubt that it matters to a 78 year old guy who is into sports, school, etc