Posted: 2017-10-12 19:51
The introduction part in Nigerian marriages is often done by the two fathers, the father of the guys introduces his
son and talks about how he has found a wife and have come to take her at all cost, the father of the girl invites his
daughter into the sitting room to inquire if she knows and accepts the guys, and if she give them a "yes" they
would be given the go-ahead to mingle together and plan ahead for other marital events.
Whether you like to hear it or not Majority of Nigerians but also other Africans who come to Europe are not good People. They are DrugDealers or Scammers who only look for Papers. And they treat Woman horribly. They treat you like you are worth less then them, do NOT help in the House at all and would never lower themselves to Cook a Meal. They think they are Kings of the Earth just bc they got a Penis and the other Half of Humanity does not.
In Reality Men are supposed to help Ladies bc Ladies are physically weaker, but with them is exactly the Oppossite. Spear urself the Grief and never get involved with them.
Oh and 95% of them have Wife and Kids at home, and several Woman to support them financially.
5) The most sensual, sexual guy you will meet. I don 8767 t know what it 8767 s like in the open public between you and your African man but I can almost guarantee it 8767 s great behind closed doors, when you guys are You know what. cough. An African man wants to pleasure his woman, and give her a good sexual experience married or dating. Nigerian men consider themselves great lovers, if only that were true but even though this might not be exactly true for all Nigerian men, they at least try and put that work in, if you know what I mean.
You know how we’re told that when an issue repeats itself, we need to examine our own role as the the common denominator? I think about that often. There aren’t many things that I take more personally than romantic rejection. It’s hard to see this chronic rejection as anything but a reflection of how the world sees me and, subsequently, values me. And the selected messages I receive show that the world doesn’t see me as much more than a black sex toy.
Give that to the Lord, he 8767 ll work it out..I actually don 8767 t think he 8767 s playing you..Sometimes it don 8767 t take some people (The African Man) to realize what they want, & who they want to spend the rest their life with. My husband has a 65 year visa, we already planned to start building a home in Ghana, when that 65 yr mark is up, even before 65 yrs,we getting out of the US. Keep God 6st in everything you do madam.
I 8767 m Nigerian. I live in Nigeria and I am not afraid to say it like it is It is a scam! You 8767 re right, no African or at least Nigerian man will agree to not being able to father a child even an elderly Nigerian man will marry a much woman just to be able to become a father! We see this all the time here. He is looking for a visa to the . Plain and simple. Please let your aunt know and help her to be strong, so she can cut him off completely.
When you say taken for a ride what do you mean by taken for a ride do you mean a mug? I 8767 m not a practicing christian and very open minded having lived I Turkey and used to Muslim and their way of life. Are you saying I shouldn 8767 t go? He knows I haven 8767 t much in the financial sense. This is why I came on here to get some impartial advice as everyone is so against me going. I 8767 m not a lonely desperate white woman but a woman who fell in love by chance not design with a Ghanaian man.
Usually white guys feel guilty and start behaving in a weird way with their black girls. She wouldn’t mind watching Jango or The Help with you, just don’t give her the impression that she’s one of the slaves’ descendant and she needs to be treated in a special way. History is history , it cannot be changed but the good news is – it’s all gone. So stop obsessing about the past and take care about your future with that girl.
My fiance is from Benin and I have embraced his culture and his family and him being the 8775 alpha male 8776 he needs to be but I don 8767 t care where u r from it is not acceptable for a man to claim to love a woman with all his heart and say he wants to make her his wife and then be sexting oter females, going out with other females, and telling other females how sexy they are and asking for pictures of them without clothes, and such things as that. Also African or otherwise there is no reason for a man to watch porn and jack off while his woman lay right next to him naked. If ur woman isn 8767 t sexually satisfying u then u need to tell her so she can fix it and when asked if that 8767 s why he does it he says no it 8767 s just a thing. Then tells me that ALL the things I mentioned above only bother me bcuz its not my culture but I have spoken to his mother, sister, my best friend who is an African woman and have been told by all of them that no culture would accept that behaviour.
hello my name is kendra i was engaged to a african is from sierra leon if im spelling it right any who we have a four month old daughter we recently broke up. because of his family i miss him but i also dont want to settle his family refuse to see my she does not have they last name. so he claim he left his family to be with me.. but i dont think so he is very closed in dont show emotion as much. and im about ready to give up becsuse its alot to deal with.
When it comes to some other ethnic groups – opinions differ, but in the end it is a matter of taste. Africa is a huge continent and they say that it is rich not only in natural resources but in cultural diversities too. You would be surprised but Africans are arguably the most diverse people on earth. African customs, traditions, culture and languages are unique and vary from country to country. However there’s one common feature of all African people which is hard to overlook – the colour of their skin. We decided to make a list of features that attract men in African women. Be it some physical characteristics, or internal features they are of equal importance for us. We know that African women are incredibly beautiful, so we would like to share our point of view on why they are so attractive and why marriage agencies thrive in Africa.
When it comes to experiencing explicit racial bias, I had been fortunate for most of my life. I grew up in the racial minority, but it wasn’t until making myself vulnerable to strangers in the dating world that I realized just how different I am. No matter how much I work on myself or the number of awards that I win, I will always be some sex object to most people who see, first and foremost, the color of my skin. And I cannot control that. I guess online dating was the rude awakening necessary to remind myself that I 8767 m not seen as a full human being by most of the people who scroll past my face in search of their new girlfriend.
It 8767 s your heart to follow. You know best if he loves you or using you. I have a friend who is married to a African man and he is very mean to her behind closed doors but the perfect handsome husband in public. But that will reveal its self in time. Just make sure you have a trusted friend or family member by your side incase things don 8767 t go as expected. But I 8767 m a hopeless romantic and I think it could very well be real.
Our world is going through the process of globalization. Some people would say that it is a good advantage for all the nations, but we consider that globalization leads to the loss of each nation’s self-identity. Countries lose their unique special features and start looking the same. Something like this happens with people too: they forget about their roots and ignore their national heritage , special features that portray them. But when it comes to Africans the story is completely different – unlike all the other nations they cherish their national identity , their culture and history. The history has been harsh on Africans, you all know that, but instead of disuniting they chose to stick together. African women look so exotic not only because of their chocolate skin colour but also due to their kaleidoscopic garb . It’s hard to overlook a beautiful African woman because she always wears bright clothes.
. need their freedom at times and we can be very needy at times which and cause friction. I've learned there's no love lost by falling back and giving her space, with her heart if it was meant for you it will be yours no matter where she is. This is where we must control our egos and imaginations because they both will get the best of us if we let them. Trust is the key but if we have trust issues we have to communicate them to resolve them. We cannot suppress them and think they'll be resolved. Giving her freedom allows her to refocus and be refreshed. she's not breaking up with you, creeping on you, ignoring you, or all of the other craziness our mind tells us. Breathe keep your mind occupied and remember what's for you will always be for you. Trying to control her will push her away even more.
It’s been said above that Africa is a very diverse continent. It sounds surprising because we are used to think that people belonging to one and the same ethnical group look more or less the same. But it’s not like that with Africans – their culture, traditions, customs and even language differ from country to country , and we know there are dozens of countries in Africa. But there’s one feature that unites all tribes, even if they are rivals, all countries, all villages – the colour of their skin. Africans are incredibly respectful towards their national self-awareness and their skin colour is like a flag which helps them recognize their “friends” among other people. But it’s not only an instrument used for distinguishing friends among foes (speaking figuratively), it is also something that makes them unique and special. In fact even the skin tome differs from country to country, but nevertheless it expresses their otherness. As a rule, Europeans find their chocolate brown skin incredibly attractive.
MY boyfriend is West African. I saw his cell phone text by some other woman displaying porn and 8775 does that make you horny 8776 etc.. the kicker is this she has a boyfriend who seems to be nice guy. What kind of sick game are they playing.? I spoke to the other woman and she says oh we are just friends, we joke. She should have said 8775 I am arrogant and think you 8767 re stupid 8776 It would be less insulting. I give up
No one wants to think that their race—something completely out of their control—is a reason why they cannot achieve one of their goals. But I had to start considering the plausibility. I mean, I’ve tried it all. Free accounts. Paid accounts. Getting photos and profiles picked and edited by friends. Not expecting my best matches to come to me and messaging them first. Lowering, er, adjusting my standards. Becoming open to dating all races. Ten years gives you a lot of time to try different things.
If you're interested in pursuing African brides you're probably pretty adventurous, but it's wise to check on the current political situation in the countries you plan to visit since you probably don't want to be caught up in a civil war. Crime is also a concern in some areas, particularly in Nigeria and South Africa, so you need to do your homework before you make you plans.
The same goes for hotels and car rentals too, because at this time there are no regular romance tours to Africa. You have to plan everything on your own and you need to be well aware of the prevalence of AIDs in many parts of Africa.
9) Alpha male: want to show how they are a man, they could show it through their fortunes, how they treats you, or by their religious and mental level. Some times you have to let a man be a man. Nigerian men have big ego and for some enough pride to stretch from here to China. Nigerian men are taught to be the head in the household, the need to take care of certain obligations for a woman comes naturally for them. (Paying for the date.) They don 8767 t like to feel belittled or not in control, and because of that some are very argumentative and aggressive to protect that Alpha male, macho man persona.