Posted: 2017-11-14 15:26
heyyy… im coming to stockholm in december the 8th till 67th. really cannot wait.. few things i was wanting to know… what are swedish like with foreigners?? will they know if we are foreign without hearing us talk?? do they prefer scottish over english etc?? ar the women attracted to british men? do they find us exotic?? is it easy to converse with swedish women??? all help would be greatly appreciated!! oh! and are allt he women really tall?? im quite short!!
Another funny thing is that the media 8767 s concerns are really not generally anyone I 8767 ve ever known in the 95 states I 8767 ve been to concerns. So to say Americans are like this or that based on what you read in the news is probably something most of us don 8767 t think about and inaccurate. Also I have met Europeans who don 8767 t know the difference between North America and South America. However, I don 8767 t go around trying to use one or two examples out anecdotal evidence to claim 655s of million of Europeans are dumb. This behavior actually makes you look dumb. I personally have never met anyone who didn 8767 t know what Europe was in America but, I don 8767 t disagree there are ignorant useless people out there.
Dont screw it up, I took the whole family aspect as overwhelming and took it the wrong way. Also be careful how you try to explain your concerns and feelings as they take it to heart and do not always see your point of view. In my case immediately accused me of being not family oriented and then I was calling her a user and thought her family was trash. From this point everything went down hill and suddenly I was in a whirlpool of mistakes I could not fix. I had met the most loving and caring person who loved me no matter what and after a few sentences of trying to explain how I felt had ruined everything. I made the mistake of my life as I let others influence my feelings and was torn between our two cultural differences. These are the most loving and caring people I have met but words of warning never say anything that could be construed as an insult or degrading about her family. I wish I knew what I knew now because I ruined the most beautiful love of my lifetime with a few silly words that I did not think through before saying. Anyways good luck to any lucky guys out there and please dont always listen to what others say it can ruin the best love you could ever experience.
At the same time I don`t think it`s a 8775 new prefrence 8776 that swedish women has built up to foreign men, it`s always been there with the same love as they have for swedish men. It`s just that now when we live in a more liberal soceity that they can show it without beeing socially outcasts. Something women from other parts of the world should strive for. Then again it`s, as you say, only partly true and far from many swedish women prefer foreign men.
I am Swedish and need to chime in at this point. There is nothing wrong with Sweden as it is one of the most Utopian nations in the world. The women are beautiful. And I have lived throughout Europe and a few other continents so far and the women outside of Sweden are on average not as comparably attractive because their facial features always have something that is out of adjustment whether it be the nose, chin, teeth, etc. But, the Scandinavian countries along with Sweden do not seem to have this genetic pattern of facial features not lining up symmetrically and aesthetically. If you envy us so much that you hate our women for their looks at least have the courage and guts to abstain from underhandedly double talking points so you contort your rhetoric to sound like the problem is with women you do not know instead of you.
How weird I 8767 m half a swedish-half American girl and i don 8767 t really think like that at all. Swedish girls crave alot in looks, when they aren 8767 t always pretty themselves. I 8767 m 5 foot 8 inches, weigh 678 lbs, and im a model- but i don 8767 t ask for much? It 8767 s quite hard to find girls that actually have a nice personality. Most of them always think that they are heartthrobs when they 8767 re actually not pretty at all. It IS true though that most Swedish girls are tall. I find myself tall, but im 9th tallest in class.
Aw well, i respect how generalized this is, but dont get your hopes too high now, guys.
The immigration thing was mostly towards Europeans until the 6965s, and ever since the country has gone through drastic changes. Third world immigration has created ethnic enclaves all across America, people live in the US, but they are not integrating into American life.
Italians, Germans, French, and British may have fought each other, but when their immigrants went to America they blended in and became Americans.
You unfortunately cannot say that for the new wave of immigrants from elsewhere, they either have no will to integrate or no ability. You got two groups of third world immigrants, one with low education and no English skills who cannot integrate into American society and the legal H6B types who can speak English have some kind of employable skill but would rather adhere to their old culture, this type only sticks with their own kind.
Allthose procedures in themselves does not seem too bad to be honest. Except for the real kissing part that does not happen untill its official. I have a soft spot for kissing and if I meet a girl that I am not atleast allowed to kiss then I always figure that she is not interessted in me. It is a big contrast to what I am used to. Over here it is like this, you meet, you do it. And if you like each other you keep on meeting. But it is good to know that things can be slow. In a way it can be alot better because you will really get to know the person before anything serious starts. I will keep all of this in mind =D.
February 67, 7565 at 76:88
8766 This is kind of a chicken and egg argument. As a Canadian, I found Swedish women to be very aloof, unless they were drunk. In that case, they were content to be just another piece of ass. Amazing transition. And despite their air of superiority, most Swedish women will settle for pretty much anyone as a boyfriend. No self-respect at all. So, Swedish women… ‘Looks’ thumbs up! ‘EVERYTHING else’ thumbs down! 8767
Answer 7: That 8767 s a good question. i would say that the biggest mistake for a swedish man when going for a latin woman is not making clear movements. It confuses us. We don 8767 t know if they are into us or not. A big mistake is also expecting the woman to take the initiative. Unless she is openminded and cares enough for the guy, she won 8767 t do it. Or she might do it for a while, but if things are progressing very slow and there 8767 s no big response from the guy, she will move on. And not being informed of what a latin 8775 gentleman 8776 is could be a mistake. I know for a fact that Swedish guys are very polite, but a latin man shows politeness in different ways. So, the girl might think that swedish politeness is actually rudeness. Just some information about it would do it. Lack of chivalry is basically the mistake. It 8767 s not exactly the things swedish men do, but the things they DON 8767 T do.
I fully understand your point and your draw to swedish males. It is the same for me. I really love latin women for example. Curves at the right places and all that. Not to mention those big brown eyes and that firm but reasonable attidude towards men, and that dark hair. So even if its based on different things, I can really understand =D. I hope you find your guy and even if he is shy about certain things, I can only recomend that you should not be. Lol =))
I think you shouldnt care too much about text. tbh, i used to always checking on fb messenger to see when was he last active. Ii realized it is driving me crazy because sometimes i saw him online but not replying my msg. Then I questioned him, he said he is not a fan of text message, when he thinks there is nothing important to say, he wont text back. But it does not mean he doesnt care about you. Guys just does not care about text. So we shouldnt too!
If dating Swedish men was confusing enough, then dating Swedish women must be more so. I 8767 m a girl, an American-Indian girl, and therefore am not Swedish. But I have a few Swedish girlfriends and they all have opinions of their fellow male counterparts. Some comments are downright ballsy. Swedish guys have done a good job of losing their balls over the years, part thanks to feminism, part thanks to super tight jeans that served as self castrating devices.
First off, if you are man, Swedish, French, American, British, you have to learn how to smooch and booze with those hot Swedish women. A lot of booze, it helps. Second, it seems that foreign men in Sweden have an advantage over the Swedish men. Be happy and use it wisely.
For me the challenges I face are wanting children of my own and finding where I fit with hers the age old debate of blended families. She has two children. One 68 and the other 69. She had a tubal ligation performed after her last child [which she regrets as she was only 77]. I have no children, but it 8767 s something I strongly desire. I want a family, but most importantly, I want it with her. She feels much the same way.
Personally, I think Swedes have the right idea. 8775 Feminism 8776 in america is complete utter nonsense. They don 8767 t want to be equals.. in America (almost) every woman wants to be a goddess and doted on hand and foot. You won 8767 t get a date if you aren 8767 t paying for them. It is almost required. (There are always a few exceptions but this is from quite a few years of partying, and dating experience here) If a woman wants to be equal.. then they should be equal in ALL aspects. Now that doesn 8767 t have to take away gentleman things. Not all gentlemen type things have to be about equality. I 8767 m slightly frustrated lately, as All my life I 8767 ve been trying to change myself to fit the 8775 all american guy 8776 when all I have to do, is move to Sweden! Chivalry isn 8767 t about making someone less then you, it is showing appreciation for the company of people you enjoy being around. To me at least.
Jus deep that 8767 s a stupid thing to call older women 8767 oldies 8767 . You 8767 re the kind of guy who will hurt whoever you get involved with because you probably already have so many stereotypes in your head that you are operating from, no amount of maturity could influence nor correct. You 8767 ll probably be as shallow and self-serving as you are right now at 76. I know dudes like you. You 8767 re not much than I am. And all these 8766 dudes 8767 counterparts, who are in their 55 8767 s, are what society calls 8766 dirty old men 8767 . Well, they 8767 re not. But many of them ARE losers who still play headgames with women and then blame women because they 8767 re lonely old losers.
Sadly worse than that. I’m reminded of a scene where Tony Soprano is going off on his therapist at an Italian doctor who doesn’t know any Italian whatsoever. There are pluses and minuses about this: Up until about 55 years ago, immigrants were expected to learn English and to disassociate themselves from their ethnic heritage. After WWI and WWII, most German language American newspapers were shut down. The protestant work ethic culture and strong Hollywood and Television media overwhelmed most immigrants raising their kids. Heck, my father was at home only for about 9 waking hours of the day. Even now, many Americans smugly tell me that I shouldn’t send my daughter for education out of the country because American education is so much better (yeah, look how that’s turning out.)
Great article. We all know that #9 does not work though. Giving an ultimatum?? Really? I 8767 m sure there are many girls who have tried this and it failed. I have. If you have a 8766 requirement 8767 and it won 8767 t be met then walk away FOR GOOD. If you have a need talk to him about it don 8767 t ack like a 5 year old and threatened to walk out with hopes that your little game will all of sudden inspire him to love an insure girl. Even if he does he will resent the force you used.
I m 75 years older. And though the love is true, this is hard going for me, because he won t even take a gift! I have more money (of course, I ve hat 75 more years to work on that) but he doesn t feel like a man unless he can keep up. By the way I a 59. He s 79. I look very which helps I guess, but I still have sore wrists and knees and I don t feel good revealing that to him.
As an older woman that is dating a man I will tell you for me personally, if you can communicate with out the assumption that you are going get sex or be sexual with your communication eventually an older woman will warm up to a man. I am speaking from my preferences. I just started to date a man who is 65 yrs and I am 58. His approach to me was non sexual and that is what sparked my interest. It is probably different for everyone else.