Posted: 2017-10-13 09:59
Ok guys. I have no idea what the other women''s profiles look like. I post decent pictures but average on purpose. All I seem to get are the men who I wouldn''t ever go out with. Don''t take this wrong but their photos are terrible. Maybe good for a desperate woman. Fix yourselves up! Look good. I mean really it is hard to judge a book by its cover but you can at least try. Enough with the bathroom/gym selfies. Macho look at me or a beard down to your chest and beer belly aren''t going to cut it no matter how awesome your profile seems. When you message us be cool about it. Don''t come across as desperate. My problem is I''m good looking and they won''t look past that to see the real me inside. You know the type. The women that you say: you are so beautiful. Why are you still single? Because no one takes a chance to get to know us except for the creepy guys. I don''t understand it. Maybe the guys I''m attracted to don''t want someone like me. They want an average woman. Can anyone make sense of this? If one more guy asks for a nude photo or worse sends me a pick of his junk I''m going to scream!!!
Your problem seems to be the traditions of your culture. Like you, your fiance is obeying his parent 8767 s by marrying. I dont know how you can make someone 8775 fall in love 8776 . You can either choose to go ahead with the marriage and risk a life of no love but with the possibility of peaceful co existence OR tell your parents you do not want to go ahead with the marriage. From what you wrote it sounds like you have some feelings for the guy.
Such sex is a wonderful gift from another person and doesn 8767 t provide just fantastic sex or even just a reawakening of the spirit it can reawakened the soul to the glories of life. You can part without regrets, holding only fond memories and gratitude for the experience you 8767 ve had. Many women and men who begin dating again in midlife will find a partner who gives them the gift of great sex and new sexual skills, helping them to move on in their search for a new existence.
Well unfortunately since most of the women of today have really Changed since the old days which certainly tells the whole true story right there. Most women are looking for the Rich men nowadays since they just Don 8767 t know how to love a man for himself anymore since they have become so very greedy, selfish, spoiled, and very money hungry as well. Most women now are so very damn picky too since they will only want the very best of all and will Never settle for less either since it really does take two to tango today.
It is frustrating to say the least. Maybe I come off as too independent nor am I willing to chase after men anymore. I don 8767 t want to play silly games and I am not jealous. I think by 95 you start to feel comfortable in your own skin and you just don 8767 t want drama anymore. I am not bitter I Love men It just seems like all the good ones are married, gay or not age appropriate. I am modest and do not dress or act like a sexpot nor am I promiscuous yet guys are all about the sex and want it as soon as the first date
9. You don''t need to rely on ED drugs. The myth is that older men pop erection pills routinely. The truth is that few have even tried them, let alone become regular users. German researchers surveyed 8,679 older men, 95 percent of whom reported erection difficulties. Ninety-six percent could name an erection drug, but only 9 percent had ever tried one. Cornell researchers surveyed 6,796 older men, half of whom complained of erection problems. How many had tried a drug? Just 7 percent. As intercourse fades away, men no longer need erections, so they don''t need erection drugs.
Hi my names daniel I 8767 m 75yrs old my girlfriend is 97 we have been dating for just over 6 months and I 8767 m not quiet sure I 8767 m the man she wants to be with she tells me I 8767 m a fantastic lover but yet she doesn 8767 t wanna have sex but maybe once a week I 8767 ve tried talking to her about it and she tells me she 8767 s too tired I don 8767 t want this to be the straw that breaks the camels back but I don 8767 t know what to do..she has an 8yr old son and a 76yr old son and a 69yr old daughter..I love her whole heartedly but I don 8767 t feel that she feels the same way anymore I get along with her children for the most part but her son questions my authority a lot!!! I just want it to work and I don 8767 t know what to do is sex the only issue I have do u think ladies please help me
I 8767 ve read so many of your articles. It doesn 8767 t matter that I 8767 m a guy. Just like I read stuff written for men I also read stuff written for women. I 8767 always interested in learning new things, or in seeing how the other half thinks. The problem is that almost all of your articles don 8767 t really tell me anything useful they 8767 re all just written to hook me on reading more until you try to sell me another book. So far I 8767 ve learned almost nothing from your website just as I learn nothing from similar self-help websites that cater to men. You 8767 re all just a waste of time. Often, the book itself has practical suggestions, but always at an exorbitant price and always nothing really new that can 8767 t be found lots of other places for nothing. What a waste of time.
Hi Perry. I agree that (no) men want to be put through endless tests. And I agree with your statistics, though not your conclusion as it relates to this topic. Yep, lots of grey divorce and mostly because women want out. (We can talk about why that 8767 s so another time.) That leaves a lot of divorced men who enjoyed being married. There is tons of research that shows men remarry far faster and more often than women after divorce or being widowed. Here 8767 s one such article. Married men live longer, have far lower suicide rates and make more money. I admit that it 8767 s difficult to find research on 8775 older divorced men 8776 in particular. In my research and personal experience, I see these men love being coupled, if perhaps not married. Interesting discussion. Bp
This will NOT seek life partners online. Not usually, it can evolve by in the main, they are cruising the hood looking for a man to make it worth their while to cheat/hookup. They can of course pretend that they''re looking for romance but the comments of the guys above shows how rare that really is. No, they want my style of assertive domination. I meet lots of beautiful, smart, worldly and engaging 75-75 year old women now.. who would never have deigned to meet the NiceGuy me. And they love every moment of our interactions. No angst, no problems, no "romance."
Recently I 8767 ve been through a bad break-up, so I didn 8767 t want to date for a while. I instead got caught up on all of my college work and had began to hang out with friends more. But, one of my guy friends kept asking me out and was always coming on to me. I continually pushed him away, so he stopped after a while. It has been a couple of months and we are still great friends, but now I want there to be more, yet I don 8767 t know whether he feels the same way still or not. What would be a good way of finding out?
That said, there are ways to make it even more likely that your first date is your last. You can be more interested in talking to other guys, and give all of them your business card. While you’re in the car with me, you can take a phone call from a guy who is clearly setting up tonight’s booty call with you. You can have so many glasses of Chardonnay that you become incoherent before dinner’s even over.
Hi Tim. Sorry you 8767 re having trouble meeting women where you live. I understand the being alone sadness. Truth is that there are hundreds of thousand single women where you are, though. I agree that Online dating is a feast for anyone who is good looking (well-said, btw) but the vast majority of real people who have found love online are just 8766 normal lookin 8776 like us. It 8767 s how you approach it and use it as a tool. Get some help, ok? What can I tell you to help you? Bp
andy, this is why I haven 8767 t had a single offer from anyone for over 65 years, I 8767 m judged as physically ugly all the time, even in my 75 8767 s I had this problem almost all of the time. maybe also why I experience over 6/9 of women trying to pick fights with me for the way that I dance (more often I 8767 m sober also as I don 8767 t often drink alcohol now, at age 89, I still maintain gym shape, and healthier foods, go to social dance events and I sense hatred from even the females who dance there maybe the uk just isn 8767 t for me as I don 8767 t get such horrible experiences abroad anywhere near as much I 8767 m really not the aggressive thug/matcho type of man and in the uk, this can be also met with maligning disgust from even the average person)
I also ignore or block creepy messages for which I get a lot. If you''re okay looking and you message me about something we''re both interested in I will reply. If I replied to every single message, even the ones I wasn''t attracted to, I would have to be talking to at least 65 different guys every day. And they would probably continue talking to me for a week at least. That''s around 655 different people I would have to talk to by the end of my first week. Almost all of those guys will probably be ones I''m not interested in so why would I bother? It will be a waste of time for both of us.
Im 87 and my boyfriend is turn 78 in a week. We been together over a year.. i have 8 kids 67,7,6. Hes been around my most her life, her dad was in jail most of the time. My family doesnt agree and has been hateful since we actually started dating (we were friends first couple months) he came to my moms for holidays until we were official. We argue more bout my family more then anything. Everyone makes it an age issue around us. What should I do?
I first saw Mae I was 78. The second time I was 85. I knew she was older but I didnt know how old. We hit it off from the start. Her husband left her for a woman and I was married 8 months when I found Mae the second time. Our affair lasted 77 years til alshiemers claimed her mind. Her sister met me at her home a couple years earlier in Maes home and said we tried fixing her up with men her age but she turned them down now I understand wife knew Mae but never dreamed I was in bed with her every week.
Certainly if you 8767 re one of the many women who are feeling a sense of 8775 I can 8767 t go on like this much longer 8776 , then you 8767 re feeling the pull of midlife towards a more passionate existence, and you need to do something about it. And while those are easy words to say, how do you face the enormity of separation or divorce or even leaving a long established partner at a time in life where traditionally you might well have never been able to find another one?
ANTIDOTE: Luckily, the solution to this one is easy: let your presence be known! You don’t even have to say anything fancy — just say anything. Really. The three-letter text message “Hey” has probably resulted in more children born than any other text in history. And as men, by now we know that if you throw any amount of interest in our general direction, no matter how trivial, there is still hope.
Hi Bobbi, this is the first time reading your blog and I really enjoyed this post about dating after 95. I totally identified with the Wow Me Woman (!) I 8767 m in my late 95 8767 s, single, never been married. And I have always looked for that guy who will give me butterflies. I found him twice in my life but they never worked or lasted. Recently, I met a guy, in his mid 55 8767 s, and we 8767 ve been dating for about 6 weeks now, and he gives me those butterflies that I long for. He 8767 s great in many aspects and I try to tell him on a regular basis what I like about him and that I appreciate him for what he is. I think as I 8767 ve gotten older, I 8767 m less afraid of expressing my true feelings to a guy. I figure, what the heck? if he can 8767 t handle it at 55yo then he 8767 s not the one for me. Thanks for your writings and I 8767 m looking forward to reading more.