Posted: 2017-11-14 23:53
I 8767 ve tried it for a year now and I 8767 m not a fan, your criteria for a match are not used very often, a lot of the people your matched with do not have photos, and for me it 8767 s very important for me to put a face with a name, especially when I 8767 m talking to someone online, even though it could just be a random picture the person got somewhere on the internet. I 8767 ve found that to be the case with several people women on christian mingle, and one of them wasn 8767 t even a women, so you have to be careful because you can run into some of the same dangers that you would with any matching website.
As for the control that you supposedly get, it doesn 8767 t really matter, because you 8767 ll get matched with people that don 8767 t match your criteria which doesn 8767 t give you much control over your matches. I really would rate the CM as a 6 star site because most of the features don 8767 t help you all that much. I also take issue with some of the adds on christian mingle, especially the one that says, 8775 What a man really wants, 8776 coupled witht the photo of a man looking away from the woman he 8767 s supposedly with.
Nobody said anything about all single moms being brilliant. Most people are not brilliant. Most married moms are not brilliant nor or their husbands. Brilliance is a rarity. I didn 8767 t realize we are discussing extreme traits. Stupidity is very common and it does not discriminate against single mothers or married parents. I can click a link just fine as well as having a good bit of first hand knowledge on the subjuct.
Your anger and bitterness is real apparent. Stating that single mothers may often times be troubled individuals is different that claiming that most are STUPID, POOR AND UNCARING. Perhaps within certain demographics and under a certain set of circumstances. Your statements are generalized and NOT based on any certainties.
All writers are arrogant, narsasistic pricks with no grasp of reality and often say whatever they want with out little no concern with truth. Now I can copy and paste a bunch of BS that I quickly pulled together off the internet and call it proof But even I know that everything I just said was biased and based on my own opinion and ignorance.
8775 Children of single mothers do poorly on every imaginable scale: they have more emotional problems, experience more stress, are more likely to grow up poor, they have lower educational achievements and experience way more behavioral problems than children who grow up with married parents. Depression, suicide, drug abuse, jail and psychiatric medications are all more common in populations of children raised by single mothers. 8776
I want a complete refund of $**. and here''s why: Scammers, scammers, scammers. I know that there''s been contact with hundreds of people. I''ve marked many as scammers with the system as they exchange contact information with me. Then in private communication, they send photos that they claim to be themselves. When I use a reverse image search tool at Google I see within a few seconds every site of each photograph they''ve sent me exists in a porn gallery of a known porn star.
Normally, this would be a pratfall: The guy who does the dating-site algorithm can t find anyone by being his true self (and the notion that no one would match up with him is probably Casual s biggest mistake early on). But instead of just dropping an anvil on us, Lehmann and Reitman have done their detail work. Yes, Alex is clueless, but maybe it s a facade he s constructed based on what he learned from his parents. Maybe it s just easier to be cynical, like his therapist parents, about real love, thus making it easier to sleep around.
Im not too sure if i believe in dating online ive seen too many people get messed over on the show catfish. I know God has someone for me and he 8767 ll bring him along at the right time. Im married but my husband doesnt love me anymore he says he knows im a great wife but he just struggles with things mentally and just wants to move on. It breaks my heart but i know God will send me a good man that truly loves and appreciates me.
An emotion this strong isn 8767 t likely to fade for me. I still feel just as bad about my grandpa 8767 s death now as I did ten years ago, I can just deal with it better. The love and pain I feel because of her is stronger.
I also come from a family with a bunch of bachelors who never got over their first heartbreak.
It took sixteen years to find this, I wonder to myself how long it 8767 ll take to find again, if I 8767 m able to, and if I 8767 ll be over this enough to take advantage of it.
The irony is, she 8767 s the one who said that she 8767 s afraid to get her heart broken again.
I just wish I knew why she did this.
Thank you for trying to help, JB. Hopefully, you 8767 re right.
My own sister had massive psychological and emotional problems due mainly to the abusive boyfriends she had in her life who would fuck about with her in many ways. The last one, he was a paranoiac alcohol abusing monster who fucked about with her the worst that left her in a massive shit state with a kid to raise on her own with no help from him due to his complete inefficiency as a compassionate human being.
Divorced moms who escaped abusive marriages with drug/sex/gambling/whatever addicts should not get a free pass from you, either. Even if it’s TRUE that the husband was a colossal fuck-up, you need to ask yourself what kind of imperceptive moron couldn’t spot that? What kind of insecurities plague a woman who thinks getting married to a drug addict is good idea? What kind of delusional self-image does a woman have, if she can fall for a con artist with a gambling habit that would shame Charlie Sheen? Be very cautious around a woman who takes none of the blame for her failed marriage. You might not be the FIRST man she blames all her problems on, but you sure as hell can be NEXT.
I 8767 ve tried several dating sites, and I don 8767 t think any really compare in quality to the two big ones, eH and Match. I was pressured by friends to try Christian mingle, so I obliged. I found the matching criteria to be 8775 loose 8776 at best. The matches I received were so far from what I was looking for but the fact that they were Christian meant they were perfect for me, apparently. I didn 8767 t feel that this site actually analyzed or took into account what I 8767 m looking for in a match. In addition, there are simply less people on the site, which means your matches run out a lot more quickly than eH or Match. So, there are my two cents. 😉 I 8767 m still single, though, so take it for what it 8767 s worth! (Probably exactly two cents, actually.)
However, she was so sweet, kind, loving, sexual, calm. It was nice going somewhere everyday where someone cared about me. She was also VERY pretty. Good body, beautiful face..everything. The sex, while plentiful was not the best. It was fun but there was not much 8766 feeling 8767 . I 8767 m average size and she of large down there. Nonetheless, that did not bother me. I loved being with her in that moment. It was passionate, not just about getting off. Also, she loved giving oral and was GREAT at it.
That issue aside, I think my other issues are likely not limited to CM but maybe more obvious on their site. I was almost entirely save for maybe two men, contacted by individuals who were well outside of my intended matches, either 75+years older, well out of my desired area or completely not compatible. I found that every time I logged in it was like being a bar and having to repel endless drunk idiots and frankly that 8767 s why I was using CM to weed through that. Lastly while I 8767 m likely picky, I have to say the lack of expectation is disheartening, I wish CM would have a base level of profile presentation like no slang and at least one sentence present. Makes me wonder what has happened to my generation when their attempt to find a mate begins with lol, gud or kool.
8775 Divorced moms who escaped abusive marriages with drug/sex/gambling/whatever addicts should not get a free pass from you, either. Even if it’s TRUE that the husband was a colossal fuck-up, you need to ask yourself what kind of imperceptive moron couldn’t spot that? What kind of insecurities plague a woman who thinks getting married to a drug addict is good idea? What kind of delusional self-image does a woman have, if she can fall for a con artist with a gambling habit that would shame Charlie Sheen? Be very cautious around a woman who takes none of the blame for her failed marriage. You might not be the FIRST man she blames all her problems on, but you sure as hell can be NEXT. 8776
I love this comment you made. im the type whos nervous to just go talk to some random person if I think theyre attractive, and tons of my friends ask me how im single because they say im beautiful even though I don 8767 t see it as much , but anyways my friends always ask me if guys come up and talk to me but they don 8767 t. no guy has ever came up and just started talking to me and I don 8767 t know why but that makes me all that much more nervous about going up to a guy to start a conversation. ive tried the online dating thing so much and not saying all guys are like this but its always crossed my mind that how do you know if youre a mans only female he talks to or even dates in the future? ive dated two guys that I had met on a dating site and after we had broken up I had found them on like 9other dating sites that they had never deleted once he and I was together. I might be 77 but I know what I want and guys my age definitely doesn 8767 t. I just wish there was a lot of good, honest men in this world instead of them being so hard to find.
It 8767 s the same thing when the ministers of the church are advertising, getting paid to teach/preach the word of God. When it 8767 s free Many people use God all the time, when it 8767 s to get a point across, through good, bad times, ie Christian Mingle is no different, than people using the word of God everybody I 8767 m sure at one time or another has thrown the rock, hide their hands..
Cm is the worst site ever. I am a 95 year old small business owner of 66 years. I am very fit and in great shape. But only average looking face. Not one single woman talked to me. I was on there about 8 months. Sent hundreds of mails out with no reply. Maybe there are some bad eggs on there but ALL of them? Is every single woman on that site so stuck up, snobby and shallow they can 8767 t give an average guy the time of day?
I have 655x better luck on a free dating site then CM, or e-harmoney. That one is 7nd worst ever.
You 8767 ll be tempted to rush through this section and get on with searching for matches, but keep in mind this section requires an approval process from Christian Mingle and that approval process can take up to 79 hours, as do any of your profile photos. So when you go scrolling through the search engine and look at a really awesome profile of a match, all they 8767 ll see is a mostly blank photo for you until your words and pics are approved. So you 8767 ll want to fill this out as soon as possible and with as much detail as possible. It 8767 s a first impression and you know what they say about first impressions
Had I not been so good at detecting the scammers and stopping them before they could actively pitch me on an idea to send them money to bring them to the USA, and I was gullible (like many people on the internet is), I''d imagine I''d have been scammed for thousands of dollars. I imagine there are hundreds (maybe thousands) of people that are unsuspecting members of that are being actively scammed as we speak. Even though is not responsible for the scamming, they are an accessory of the scammer to get more business via the availability of the unsuspecting clients at that have well wishes of good things to come.
No Mary, you are very much an outlier. If most single mothers were like you, you would not see the disastrous outcomes for their children. One of my closest friends is a single mother. 95 years old and an ICU nurse with a close family. Her child has never spent a single second in a daycare facility. Most single mothers are poor, stupid and do not care about their children. If they were all like you, there would be no issues.
I totally agree with what you are saying. I find that if men contact a woman that they feel is attractive and that woman doesn 8767 t respond then they say all women want are the pretty boys. They don 8767 t stop to think about what options they are closing out as well. I know it is hard to feel like someone doesn 8767 t find you attractive but there are plenty of women a man wouldn 8767 t go for either no matter how much she loved the Lord.
Honestly the too picky thing can stand for men and women. To be honest I don 8767 t want someone who chose me just because I love the Lord but thought I was okay looking or good enough. I want someone who chooses me because I love the Lord and thinks I 8767 m beautiful too.