Posted: 2017-10-22 21:20
Nigerian women undoubtedly make some of the best girlfriends, and even wives it’s just about meeting the right one. Not only are they sexy and smart, but they are also often educated, loving, and ambitious towards life. And, as big as Nigeria is, no matter where you go you’ll find these common trends, and the both positive personality and charm of these women – which are sure to sweep you off your feet!
I 8767 m 79 and can somewhat relate to your comment. There 8767 s a girl that I knew about 65 years ago who has recently been reintroduced in my life at my new job. I haven 8767 t talked to her yet but I am afraid to do so. I feel she might remember back of the time I was such a pussy in high school to even look at her 🙁
However, I feel if I start talking to her right now, she might see the potential confidence I have because of her presence.
English is a compulsory subject at schools. It is usually taught starting from grade 5 (nowadays even at primary school). After school, Russians study English at universities or colleges for two years at least. Usually, those Russian girls who live in big cities have a better command of English, although of course this is variable from girl to girl. One in five Russian ladies can speak English well and three in ten know it to a good standard. Those who once learned it but didn&rsquo t have much practice will be able to refresh their memory in a couple of months.
Ohh my the replies are so scathing to you, how dare you come on here and make such opinions?!? You are by no means entitled to an opinion, which, exactly what the broad said to you. What a incredibly hypocritical statement, when her whole reply is her opinion of your opinion. I guess only women have the right to opine on anything. Then, when a male opines they are "out of line" and "need to check themselves and their own issue". Same exact BS all girls pull when they think a guy can have any thoughts about all the mistakes they make with dating. But they can't spout out all the guy's mistakes that are made and try to sound like dating experts. Just shut up, your "opinions" are no more relevant than anyone's.
I’m suggesting we say “no” to pickup lines and “yes” to opening lines. There—that already sounds a little friendlier. If you want to make the first move or send the first message while online dating, more power to you. But don’t panic and fall back on a cheesy pickup line, or you run the risk of coming off as demeaning and predatory. Instead, let’s explore opening lines that will actually get you somewhere. These work especially well for online dating. These are specific to me, so adjust accordingly.
While filling out your profile information try to be as genuine as possible. It can be pretty difficult because everybody wants to come across better than they really are. Don t pretend to be somebody else write from the heart. You are looking for a person who will love you for who you are, so be honest in your profile.
Certainly this could be attributed to my actions. However having lived through the experience I can attest that I strove to make her feel loved and accepted as she was. Ultimately what I've come to understand is that she has not yet learned to accept herself. I believe this is incredibly common in our society. After all our marketing systems have done a very thorough job of setting impossible and often inane ideals and as we are both aware the primary victims are women.
JJF897 get another friend or tell him to buzz off when you have a chance to be alone with her, if he says he doesn 8767 t know when to go, tell him you 8767 ll let him know, when you meet her ask her if she 8767 d like to speak with you privately, if your friend follows you let him know you 8767 ll join him later after you have spoken with her. Tell her you find her interesting and want to get to know her better.
(As a quick aside ot all men on this point- STOP STOP STOP saying we only care about what you “do for a living” or “how much money you make”, car you drive, etc. Just STOP. 9 times out of 65 it is men who tell me within 85 minutes of meeting me that they drive a Mercedes or go on and on bragging about their big shot career without ever asking me a anything about me. Also, “nice guys” (whatever you mean by that) do not always finish last. What you are referring to as a “nice guy” is not the same thing, I think. If a woman says a guy was “too nice” – she means he was a pushover or did not have any opinions of his own or motivation or aspirations, etc. There’s a difference. A true nice guy, in our minds is a man who treats us with mutual respect, And those guys are cherished and sought after, not overlooked. Perhapps there is a reason to ask if those self-proclaimed “nice guys” out there are not as “nice” as you think you are? Or, if you are, maybe you are not allowing that to shine through in your profile somehow? Just a thought. Please get it straight, please).
It is also crucial to have a respectable and admirable attitude when approaching a Nigerian lady. Hot Nigerian Girls are very good in accurately assessing a man 8767 s attitude. If you approach such a girl without exuding confidence, chances are that she will reject you. Confidence should not necessarily be linked to one 8767 s looks. Someone who is not very good looking has a chance of attracting Nigerian girls if he is very confident when approaching and talking to them.
On my way home from Saturday detention, me and my mom were going home when a 66 year old girl and her mom hit us doing a 95 on the passenger side of the car just in front of my door. My mom has a messed up shoulder that 8767 s bad enough already, but my pelvis socket got a T fracture and the leg bone got dislocated. Two days later I went in for surgery where they found a major source of the pain was a piece of bone that got lodged in the socket. They repaired it as best they could, but I may walk with a painful arthritis limp for the rest of my life.
I dated a Liberal woman and no conflicts arose from our political differences. I find it troubling you wouldn't even want to be friends with someone who would vote for Trump, or even someone who wouldn't be friends with another who voted for Hillary. You sound grossly intolerant of other people's views. You should be open to people with differing views than your own, otherwise you will fall into engaging in groupthink and confirmation bias. In other words, you will not learn much in this world seeking out people who will just agree and affirm your opinions on life. You grow by seeking those out who can show you a different perspective. In my experience, I've found people like you frustrating to say the least.
All this bitterness you're expressing comes through in how you write messages. I can guarantee it. That's why no one writes you back. No one wants to engage with someone they have to prove themselves to. Maybe drop all that anger you have at being rejected so that you can properly open the door up to being accepted. You're approaching these chicks like, "dumb bitch isn't going to write me back anyway why am I even wasting my time." You're reaping what you sow.
Unfortunately, the reality is nowhere near that fantasy. To get some insight into what women go through on these dating websites, I pulled aside one of my family members who I knew had spent some time on these sites looking for her future spouse. By the time of this interview, she had already given up and moved on, finally discovering her future husband while visiting old friends at her alma mater. Her responses completely surprised me.
However, &ldquo you&rsquo re not like everyone else&rdquo is a lovely thing to hear, for people of all genders. It acknowledges your girlfriend or date&rsquo s unique personality quirks and reassures her that you find them endearing rather than weird. We&rsquo d all like for our less conventional quirks and idiosyncrasies to be noticed and appreciated too, because it means that we&rsquo ve valued for the entirety of who we are, and not just the polished facade we adopt when we&rsquo re on our best behavior.
A few years ago I had a profile on okcupid. I uploaded a few decent pictures of myself. I received a lot of views and a decent amount of messages. A year ago I created a new profile on okcupid and uploaded one picture that makes it somewhat more difficult to tell what I look like. This time around I've received considerably less profile views and considerably less messages. I have no way of knowing how okcupid may treat my profile due to this difference but I have experienced enough to know that women just like men are swayed by physical appearance.
6st: STOP BEING A BITCH, yup I said it take the bottle out of your mouth and look at your situation like a adult. You 8767 re 69 yrs. old and have decades to live and better yourself. The first step is, stop playing video games, eating junk food, and watching TV more than 8 hrs. a day. I DON 8767 T CARE IF YOU HAD A INJURY..stuff happens. You need to over come that obstacle and turn it into a positive entity. You have an official pimp walk, congrats.
So, don 8767 t lose hope DJ Just be as positive and optimistic. A lot of amazing women still exist out there meaning they are not shallow people who would be interested only on superficial aspects of a guy. Learn to accept that you are as beautiful too and created to be unique. And yes, these women you fancy may seem like the 8775 hot elusive 8776 ones for you, but they might be just like you too, also lonely and still searching for that true love (in whatever form).
I know I am not the only guy to have a girl turn me down with hurtful comments after leading you on and thinking you should have just realized she was not interested and gave up. Thing is you couldn't "take a hint", but we are adults here and those are games kids play. No need for hints, you can be nice and find a more reasonable time to let a guy down, but don't wait weeks and then get angry with him because you never made your intentions clear. Because the girls don't realize, its not that obvious for the guy to see she is trying to put off signals that she lacks interest. We will, in even the more extreme cases, often focus on the few positive over the negatives to keep up our optimism, until its written out in plain english to us, "I flattered, but no thank you." Its easy, just text that and don't worry, even if you look like Anna Kendricks the guy is unliekly to hang himself over the news.
People don't aren't any different on dating sites than they are/were in "meat market" bars back in the 75s & 85s. Nice guys never had a chance because they were perceived as wimps. Based on my experince and in spite of what AW says, girls seem to go for the "bad boys" (creeps). I don't know whether if's the excitement of going out with a "bad boy", or masochism of getting no respect, or the futile hope of changing the guy but girls are drawn to creeps.