Posted: 2017-09-11 22:45
Visiting other times and places would be interesting, but the time machine should always be ready to leave.
Hubby and I let go of the idea of traveling to the past except maybe for ancient Egypt or to save some Alexandria texts. You will have to deal with filthiness, cannibalism, cruelty and abuse from the 6% to the rest. My personal deal breaker is that the ancient used to abandon unwanted kids everywhere or sacrificing them to their Gods not something I need to witness thank you very much.
KB - DITTO!! Dumb, limp-handed lady handshakes are no way to make a good first impression.
Teach your daughters to ignore the scale. Using some outdated chart that labels a body solely based on height and weight is as ridiculous as the height/weight percentile chart parents/pediatricians use to chart (brag about) their offspring 8767 s growth.
Muscles and fat weight the same! Have more muscle leads to less fat and a leaner body that looks better than a skinny no fat/no muscles body. Lifting heavy things isn t just for men and won t make you look like China the former lady (looks like a man) wrestler.
If your sexuality is reactive due to the abuse and spiritual abuse IS abuse it 8767 s something that needs to be healed. (Please, no 8775 Sexual Healing 8776 jokes, OTC!) There is SO much shame and shame-related correlated stuff in religious circles. I think it 8767 s one of those things that people are somehow afraid to talk about, it just gets repressed, and the shame goes deeper
THANK YOU!!! YOU are what we all need to see more of. I 8767 m 95. I absolutely still want to be a mother someday. I come with the 8775 baggage 8776 of already knowing I 8767 m fertility challenged. But at least I know. I still want to have a family with the RIGHT man for me whether he 8767 s 85 or 98. I think it 8767 s more important for a couple to be on the same page with what they want (they both really want or really don 8767 t want children), and then figure out the rest together. Science is amazing and infertility can happen at 77, 87, 97
Teach your daughter that it s okay to be different from the crowd. Peer pressure is one of the biggest conduits into drinking and alcohol, and if your child is well aware that she doesn t have to roll with the crowd then she will have an advantage over the others when she s confronted with such pressure.
In the case of my daughter, I have bi-polar and am a very different thinker. I say all the time (in joking) that I m weird and crazy. My kids say it to me as well. My reply is Thank you. I teach my kids to say the same when confronted with the same type of name calling in school or amongst friends. The offenders don t know how to react to a friendly, Thank you, when they mean to hurt. It s a great way to promote self-confidence as well!
But regardless of this debate, you should ask yourself what your intentions are in even being here. The women here want to find love with men that honor and respect us. We don 8767 t need men like you here who are only looking to devalue our worth and make us feel like we are undeserving of love with our peers because men like you are looking to feel superior over women. If you aren 8767 t here to be helpful toward women, you don 8767 t need to be here. This isn 8767 t an MRM website where we need men hating on us. This is a website women come to because they want love. Because they love men. We don 8767 t need to here about all the ways men like you devalue us. And if you aren 8767 t here to help women do that, to find love, then you are here for the wrong reasons. Women are people. And it would be nice if you treated us like that instead of trying to exploit some misguided competition because of your desire to prove you are better simply because you are a man.
When I was 87, I met and started dating a girl who was 9 years older than me. We started out as friends and it lasted like that for almost 7 years. Things then got serious. We became intimate and very close, lived together, vacationed together, we were all but married on paper. I started asking her about getting married, she kept putting it off. When I turned 86, she made a big party and announced in front of family and friends, she accepted my proposal and we will marry.
Right..Our society has gone mad. I 8767 ve been getting hit on by women 65-75yrs my senior my whole adult life. I never thought much of dating an older woman, but boy since I hit 85yrs old women seem to make a bigger deal about a guy dating women. I like women 5-8yrs than I and the biggest opposition I get is from older women that wouldn 8767 t bat an eye at getting with me.
More snide talking around me, I see. As usual, you make an ass of yourself when you assume. Some women do have unfortunate experiences and learn from them, others keep on making them, and other still don 8767 t care that they hurt themselves and others. It 8767 s as stupid for me to assume that all/most women have positive growth as it is for you to assume that all/most women are out to fuck men over. And of course there are women that regret their past. Who am I to decide whether or not they should regret it?
Also, you say that you do think that guys take better care of themselves. Well the truth is that they do not. In all age groups you have those who do and those who do not. There 8767 s no shortage of guys who are killing their brain cells as fast as they can, with all manner of drugs, chemicals, and alcohol. There is no shortage of guys who are fat, out of shape, couch potatoes, video game addicts, etc
One of the things I 8767 ve learned is that evolution includes a lot of tradeoffs. We are not at some optimal or perfect place. For example, 8775 hiccups, hernias, and hemorrhoids are all caused by an imperfect transfer of anatomical technology from our fish ancestors. 8776 The author points out that most likely, altering one 8767 s esophagus to prevent hiccups would entail unacceptable changes in another part of the anatomy. 8775 If something works well enough for the moment, at least long enough for its bearer to reproduce, that 8767 s enough for evolution Our bodies reflect a continuously jury-rigged system with echoes of fish, of fruit fly, of lizard and mouse. Wanting to be more like our ancestors just means wanting more of the same set of compromises. 8776
I don’t even think these women need to be slutty. Some unfortunate dynamics force individuals to act “against their nature” in some cases. Mildly interesting/cute prof with good charisma Vs 65/75 female students. Competitive disastrous race to the gutter. Look at The Bachelor and all these women who turn crazy because of the competition. Some don’t even like the guy but have to project super sexual interest to get attention. Sad business!
I might be wrong, but I think the level of intrasexual competition is related to restrictiveness and hypergamy. I 8767 m taking the examples given here but also from my more slutty friends and the reports of some promiscuous writers. Who never found a man more attractive than when some other girl wanted him. Hope and I report being immune to this 8766 trigger 8767 for attraction and we are by far the lowest in N and self reported Beta lovers. I think those girls that are more willing to compete for men are probably more open to sex without securing commitment, YMMV.
I think you 8767 re misunderstanding my comment. Coach makes a good product. Fifteen to twenty years ago, before they got really popular and starting printing Cs all over their stuff, they made a classically styled and durable product that looked good for years. One so good that you could make a bag last for years if you took good care of it and sent it off every once in a while to be reconditioned. Like a Volvo driver, a longtime Coach bag owner is someone who values quality, makes investments that pay off, and takes good care of valuable things. What 8767 s the problem?
I have no clue why you feel the need to tear down this 89 year old mum just because she said that to you. Are you not engaging in the same behavior she was by tearing someone else down for their choices? Maybe her and her mum are really close? Maybe she isn’t looking for a man to have in her life. But you didn’t like it when she critized your choices so perhaps you shouldn’t do the same thing to her you didn’t want done to you.
I don 8767 t understand why you think women who wait to have kids are screwed up. It is too early in life to have kids if you aren 8767 t ready for them and know in your heart you wouldn 8767 t be a good mother until you 8767 re ready. You don 8767 t seem to listen to what 8767 s in a woman 8767 s heart. She 8767 s the one who has to mother that child for the rest of her life. Not you, not I , or anyone else. She has a right to wait until she wants.
The kicker is that this guy was legitimately 55-65 years old. My first thought was why would a man that old still be trolling dance clubs. My second thought was why did he think someone like me would appreciate being groped like that.
I know a woman that got married to a guy 85 some years her senior after he stalked relentlessly. It does happen but in general most women are EWWWW about it.
I was overjoyed! After the party ended, I said lets get married with a quick wedding and lets get pregnant because we have no time to waste, she knew I wanted a family, 7+ kids. She said she loved me but that she was 9 years older that kids was not a good idea to her. I felt trapped and used. Everything was great and just what I thought a marriage could be, sure we had our arguments and disagreements but we always were able to come to an understanding, a mutual compromise, and making up was always the best.
I don 8767 t have an idea of frequency. I cannot even estimate for my social circle. I do know my atheist friend was dating a hard-core Lutheran for several years, and the Lutheran girl barely expressed any interest in him for at least a year until he dumped a year. She was also committed to being a virgin, until she, you know, had a One Night Stand at a wedding, and then told her Atheist Boyfriend about it.
Feminism, Socialism and anti-Antisemitism should have arisen in Saudi Arabia or Yemen, Algeria or Peshawar, for good reasons. Instead, aggressive White androphobes of all genders which I can no longer count are decimating the philogynous and egalitarian West. Equality psychos are tearing down the most egalitarian society that ever existed (except for initial communist experiments, before they turned bloody). American Jews, at the apex of the greatest fortune and philosemitic tolerance their long diaspora has ever bestowed on their kind, are busy supporting all the ideologies and policies that demolish their safe harbor and build up their Muslim, Black and Third World enemies. They will come to rue their tacit assumption that better the antisemite you don 8767 t know than the few hundred imputed and real ones catalogued at ADL.
I agree with you Lana. However, just like I think a man saying any woman over 85, the fun declines drastically, is an idiot, I think the same of women who would say that of men. It 8767 s also just plain not true. My experience has been that age has no bearing on how fun a person is to be around, and that goes for both women and men, friends or boyfriends. I know both men and women who are in their twenties who are about as dynamic as a wet firecracker. I know men and women over 55 whom I can 8767 t keep up with. I know an 85 year old white man who still does roofing, and many guys can 8767 t keep up with him. He reminds me of that guy who at 79 was still barefoot water-skiing. I think his name was Banana George. Even at 79, he could barefoot water ski, holding the tow line in his teeth while holding bananas in his hands. Would I want to date him? No, he is way too old for me. However, if I were over 65, I would probably think he 8767 s the cat 8767 s meow. But, I can also admit that even at his age, he was likely a lot more fun to be around than many guys a fraction of his age.