Posted: 2017-11-14 23:23
Do you know what happens to boring women? they end up feeling lonely, because they 8767 ve obstructed their own growth by being safe. And life always eliminates you if you don 8767 t grow. We used to be lucky to live to 85 we barely existed for anything other than procreation. Now? We 8767 re flying people to the moon and back. We talk on cell phones. We are here to grow. In order to grow, you will end up upsetting some people. If you were to always try to make everyone happy with you, you will be miserable and alone. Oh, and boring.
If you never leave your house, you&rsquo ll never meet new people. We aren&rsquo t advocating you go out and strike up a conversation with everyone you see on the street. Rather, we ask that you just put yourself out there. Go to museums, coffeehouses and parks, if only just to scope out the scene. Before you know it, you&rsquo ll meet a few people and have a few interesting experiences to talk about on your next first date.
Imagine that your emotions are like a car with a standard transmission. To shift from one emotion to another, you shift through neutral. In neutral, you quiet one emotion before shifting to another emotion. When you quiet your own emotions, you can feel your partner's emotions. Buddhists call this state egoless. Christians say selfless. When you feel your partner's emotions, you can select the best emotion for the situation.
Ultimately, well-rounded individuals interact with others, enjoy diverse experiences and gain knowledge and advice from the company they keep. It&rsquo s true that defining what makes a person boring varies from person to person. The key to being an interesting date is not necessarily knowing what to talk about, it&rsquo s more about learning about the other person, asking questions and genuinely investing in the discovery process.
Astrology and personality types fascinate women. Although many will try to argue that the study of astrology is a "pseudoscience" it is actually an ancient science proved for many years to be accurate (how else do we have a calendar to tell days, weeks, months, seasons and years..?). Many men and women choose to use the science of astrology to give a good indicator of what type of personality a potential new partner may have. This allows a person to get a glimpse of whether or not someone will be a good match to their own personality. Talk about personality types on dates (see Personality Types ).
We 8767 ve been conditioned to not be leaders, and to listen to 8766 authority 8767 . Well, now, anybody can be an authority if they have the courage and hunger for it. The world is changing. Crazy isn 8767 t such a bad thing, if you 8767 re coming from a good place if you truly care about people. The world needs women who aren 8767 t pleasers. Surprisingly, trying to please others all the time rarely contributes something positive to their life in the long-run. To be a good friend, a good lover, you can 8767 t let fear rule over you.
But art and entertainment are truthful, from the point of view of the audience. Effective artists and entertainers communicate emotions that "strike a chord" in the listener or viewer. They tell the truth not about themselves& #656 ., you don't want to know that an actor is afraid of forgetting his lines, or is hoping that a movie producer might be in the audience and offer him a better-paying job& #656 but instead quiet their own emotions and emote the audience's feelings.
It 8767 s really a waste of time and energy trying to please people because you 8767 ll be miserable, resentful, and alone. Masks hide deceit and misery for a short amount of time. I like being authentic and don 8767 t care about pleasing anyone. I do care about other people 8767 s feelings. I simply do me and people either accept me or not. I 8767 m not pleasing anyone but God and will continue on my journey.
The problem with not being boring is that you risk something else. Something that might be a whole lot scarier than just not getting the approval of other people. You risk challenging others. You risk creating a fuss. You risk being talked about. A lot. You risk people calling you crazy. Yes, for most average people, if somebody comes along and doesn 8767 t seem to be normal , who is a little different they 8767 ll label you crazy just to feed their own certainty and significance.
Here 8767 s the irony: we 8767 ve been taught to pull ourselves in line so human beings can have certainty so that we can apparently have a better quality of life and be more agreeable. However, a bit of crazy is necessary for a woman to be alive. That is ultimately the biggest cost to you as a woman when you go in to pleasing mode and become boring you lose that sense of aliveness and that femininity that is so charming and such a gift to everyone you come become dead inside.
Art, entertainment, religion, and reproductive success are entwined. [ citation needed ] Religious men and women sing in church or synagogue, dramatically recite Bible stories, dance at rituals, etc. Most societies encourage religious men, ., rabbis, to marry and produce large families. Men prefer to marry religious women, because they're more likely to be sexually faithful. [ citation needed ]
WOW! WOW! WOW! Guys, seriously this article should be preached (especially the fourteenth one haha). My boyfriend and I are together for two years now and he 8767 s taking me to prom this year. So excited I 8767 m gonna pass out!!! He 8767 s a pretty tough guy and you gotta have patience with him, but he sure knows how to pull some romance tricks on me like flowers before school or my biggest addiction chocolate. And now I can pay him back.
Mammals produce glucocorticoid hormones in stressful situations. Too much glucocorticoid causes health problems. In male and female primates, high-status individuals produce minimal glucocorticoid in stressful situations. Low-status individuals produce too much glucocorticoid.  Stress& #656 "the fear of fear itself"& #656 physically hurts low-status individuals. Stress doesn't affect the health of high-status individuals.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for one year and I gave up
my income as a sex worker to make him happy, he has it all put together work/life balance.
Without that income I don’t know what direction my life is going.
I love him and there is no going back.
So why do I feel a break will help?
It seems I had it all figured out 69 bought a new car, was saving for a house everything was scheduled, routined health and fitness, I felt great. Now my ambition and lack of motivation to even get out of bed has hit a downhill spiral.
And Im begging to resent my partner, for my own selfish reasons.
We live together and we split the rent, since he moved in he has went from a teen with little responsibility to an adult.
He never complains about being broke because of bills.
Whereas I 8767 m high maintenance and what would of been a small sum out of a large pay-check
Is now almost my entire wage.
on a bad week I 8767 m relying on
He and my parents to hold my head above water most the time.
Someone please help
How do I stop my selfish ways?
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My fiance and I have been together for 5 years august 79th but even after just 9 years im beginning to become bored. I dont want to break it off with him because he is dealing with alot of depression from the arthritic pain in his knees but at the same time I also dont that same flame that we had a few years ago. Am I being selfish by thinking of leaving him? Or is it just maybe that he has gotten so used to me doing everything that ive ruined any flame that might have been there? Please Help I 8767 m at my wits end and dont really know what to do cause he expects me to do everything and then gets ticked off when i have to ask him 8 times to do something even if its as small as washing dishes
Someone once told me a useful rule when it comes shopping for your age. Twenties = shock thirties = chic forties and beyond = cheque. It's a common mistake for men, when faced with a saggy arse and uneven skin tone, to either give up completely or attempt to distract attention with a level of sartorial experimentation that smacks of desperation. No. Just stop. Leave the trend-led streetwear to who need to compensate for a lack of personality or confidence. You x7569 re old enough to know better. Now is the time for creating a capsule wardrobe, a slick canvas of smart pieces which make the most of the fact that you can now actually carry-off x756c suave x756d without looking like you're wearing your dad's wedding suit to a funeral. Step away from Jack Wills and into Cos or Oliver Sweeney for simple, high-quality natural pieces that won x7569 t swamp your distinguished features.
What a stressful article! I mean, 8775 Look sexy, get kinky, be aggressive, give him space, take care of yourself, don 8767 t be a drama queen, don 8767 t try so hard 8776 Blah blah blah!!! Be you. Be as crazy and assertive and talkative and love yourself the way you are. Don 8767 t break your back trying to look how you think he wants you to look, or force yourself into an uncomfortable sexual encounter because you don 8767 t want him to get bored and wonder off Men need to be held accountable too! And if you are doing everything to make him stay, you 8767 re only going to resent him for not putting in as much effort. And he won 8767 t. Because he 8767 s a dude. So just be you and find someone you don 8767 t feel the need to CHANGE or CHANGE FOR.