Posted: 2017-10-13 02:16
The most ingenious of the Jiayuan scams starts when the owner of a fancy restaurant hires an attractive woman, who then makes a dating profile. The woman then contacts a lonely heart over Jiayuan and convinces him to take her on a date to the expensive restaurant, where she runs up an enormous tab. According to the study, these dates can cost anywhere from $655 to $7,555. Afterward, of course, the bilked bachelor never hears from his date again.
The authors of the study analyzed more than 555,555 profiles, drawn from Jiayuan's 655 million users, which the site's employees had flagged as scam accounts. And while by far the most popular of these scams — fake profiles promoting escort services — will be familiar to anyone who uses Tinder in the ., the remaining scams could be drawn straight from The Sting or The Grifters.
Although obesity has afflicted both genders equally, it has a strikingly disparate effect on dating desirability only mildly hurting men but being absolutely drastic to women. Therefore, the fat white guy made the obvious and correct choice. Since there are so few thin white girls, he dated a thin Indian girl instead. The handsome fit guy from India, on the other hand, gains only a small advantage by not being fat. Since white guys are poaching the thin women of his ethnicity, he concludes that since he must date a fat girl, at least he’ll date a fat white chick.
The fact is that most every guy (Koreans included) has a hard time getting action from Korean girls. Similar to how the US has the oft broken 8-date rule, Koreans have the 655 days rule which basically says you shouldn 8767 t sleep with a guy until he 8767 s been your boyfriend for 655 days! Of course they violate their rule all the time, but you have a good idea of the mindset. Korean girls don 8767 t seem to lose their virginity until around 77. One of my guys is dating a girl who is 78, and of her 65 close female friends, 7 are still virgins. A lot of Korean guys still want their wives to be virgins, though that 8767 s changing.
However, in the past, when I did try leaving some uncertainty I talked less, I explained less, I communicated less.. almost without exception the response I got back was that I was too *subtle.* By not communicating as fully as I usually did, the other people seemed to read disinterest on my side. This happened with both dates and friends. If I didn t pursue, the person assumed I wasn t interested. If I didn t communicate, the other person assumed I didn t WANT to communicate.
In our society, whites are at the top of the social ladder and people naturally want to marry up. In the past, when there were many fewer overweight white women, a man would just marry a thin white girl. Nowadays there are so few thin white females that men must look elsewhere. Because Asian women are substantially thinner than their white counterparts, it is only natural that their overall desirability would increase.
I dated a Chinese woman a few years back for a while. Overall I got the impression that when she went back to China she was treated like a queen -- someone else always picked up the check and guys were falling over themselves to help her with stuff. She was in college and seriously expected me to help her write her term papers (as in, write 95% of it). She really really wasn t in to kissing which I assumed was a Chinese thing. Basically she was super conservative until she got drunk, then she was wild. I think there must have been some sexual repression in her background. She sure wasn t open to talking about the whole thing.
One interesting effect of the obesity epidemic has been an increase in the desirability of Asian women. Thirty years ago, nailing an Asian chick was a consolation prize for a white guy who struck out with his own kind. Indeed, in 6985 interracial marriage was fairly rare in the United States, with only 7% of all marriages occurring between people of different races. Nowadays, the intermarriage rate is 65% overall, but it is 86% among Asian females.
When Caucasian men marry Asian women, the couple is twice as likely to both be college educated and will make on average 75% more money than a white-white couple. Sociologists talk about all sorts of possible explanations: the desire of Asians to assimilate, the increasing acceptance of interracial marriage, the sexualization of Asian women as docile and subservient, the smaller penises of Asian men. All these explanations are probably wrong. I’m reminded of an old joke which explains the phenomenon of Asian women marrying white guys: Why does a dog lick its genitals? Because it can.
More importantly, when considering marriage, men have two great fears. First, that their wife will stop having sex with them and second, that their wife will get fat. Because even slightly overweight white women are seen as likely to gain enormous amounts of weight during their childbearing years, a stick-thin Asian woman is even more desirable. The presence of many thin older Asian females in the population is evidence of the wise choice of marrying a thin Asian female. Look at any large group of 55-year-old women of different ethnicities. Among African-Americans, 95% will be obese, among the whites, probably 75%, but among the Asians, easily half are still thin.
I ve found that the single by choice people tend to be (In my experience) too much like the dazed and confused i keep getting older but the girls stay the same age guy.. so I d rather not be friends with people like that.. as for the divorcees they tend to have their own drama that keeps me from wanting to be around them. Either custody or financial drama, or they are simply constantly negative because their marriage fell apart so therefore the whole institution is BS.. or again they have kids and are busy dealing with that.
There are a few similar things signs of affection. Chinese girls like to know how you feel about them, and depending on their English ability, and their exposure to Western culture, you may have to be very clear. But again it s different depending on how conservative the girl is, the more conservative the less PDA. Another thing that I ve noticed is that both kinds of girls tend to assume that after a date, maybe two, you are boyfriend and girlfriend, if these are just dates make that clear.
Looks (including fashion) and status carry you a lot further here than in Japan, China, Hong Kong, and Taiwan. And when I say that, I mean that the bonus you get over the average guy for being attractive is so huge that an average guy will have to put in time and suffer flakes to pull a 7 (by Korean guy standards), while a good looking guy can have that girl call him up when she 8767 s drunk to suggest they hit a love motel together.
Another possible explanation is that there are substantial numbers of Asian women who have little to no interest in Asian men. I often hear this from Asian chicks, but I’ve heard the same from black women as well about black men. It takes white guys wanting to date Asian ladies to make this sort of coupling happen. Still, the fact that many Asian women don’t want to date Asian men does propel Asian girls into the white dating sphere.
I wouldn t worry about being nervous and a little awkward on the first date, I was horribly awkward on my first date with my GF and we ve been dating a year now, living together. She said it was sweet and cute, but I think she s protecting my from myself. That s the other thing, cute is very big for Chinese girls, sweet gestures go a long way. One more thing get an app called Wechat (weixin, is the chinese name), it s a social media/messenger app that basically runs China, she ll probably have and it s the standard way flirting, planning, picture sharing is done.
There are a ton of night spots to choose from, but unsurprisingly, the more upscale the place, the more you will get blown out. You don 8767 t need a table to pull as most of the guys dropping big cash with fancy cars also go home alone, but you will get more interaction time. Usually tables are good, because girls 8767 feet get tired and they want free drinks, so you get a longer opportunity to game sets that hook, which does improve your chances somewhat.
You know how in America, amongst close friends/SOs/family, we share food? Normally, it starts with someone saying, hey, gogoimogol, can I have some of your fries? In China, you pro-actively have someone you care for try your food. You do so by placing a small portion of your food onto his/her plate/bowl. This is especially important in family gatherings where you have your bowl of rice and there are many dishes in front of you that rotate in and out. In those circumstances, serve her before you serve yourself some of the time. It ll make her friends and family happy.
It 8767 s true that Korean guys are the worst cockblocks in Asia by a wide margin. And even if a guy just gives a girl the evil eye, that can be enough to make her walk off on you even though he 8767 s a total stranger. If you 8767 re a black guy, I think you 8767 ll find that non-black lover Korean girls are more open to black guys than non-black lover Thai girls are. And I think that average black guys don 8767 t have it much harder than average white guys here. Indian guys don 8767 t seem to be at any particular disadvantage either.
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Itaewon is the next best place, though you 8767 re going to be going for girls that are more in the mid/late 75s and early 85s instead of girls in their early 75s. Much of Itaewon has become quite upscale in the past 8 years or so and it 8767 s starting to be less of a dive bar scene (though there are still plenty of those). Club UN is known for girls who are into black guys, and I even met a girl who got hit in the head with a bottle by another girl who was trying to take her man there.