Posted: 2017-11-14 08:02
Me and my boyfriend decided to go on a break last night after trying to avoid it for weeks. I didn 8767 t want to be alone because I felt like I was falling into depression because of boredom. We 8767 re very close and intimate. However, yesterday he didn 8767 t give me his password to his social media but I have him mine and I literally went off. So we decided to take a break because I 8767 ve constantly been feeling crazy and unorganized. He 8767 s still calling and texting me though as if we didn 8767 t and aren 8767 t taking a break What does this mean? I 8767 m confused. We still want to marry and love one another but he still wants to call and check in I guess he just needs clarity on his end. But every time we break up he text random people. He always tells me what he did after our breaks and vice versa. So confused!
I want to be with this guy, but I feel like I 8767 m being caged. I don 8767 t wanna lose him, but it 8767 d be selfish of me to not break up with him, right? Or at least a break, to see if this is what I really want? I love him, & don 8767 t wanna hurt his feelings, cuz he 8767 s going through atough time right now too. It 8767 d be selfish of me to leave him at a time like this too. I 8767 M SO CONFUSED.
Breaks are definitely a sign of trouble. I 8767 ve been through a couple, and I don 8767 t want to sound negative, but things are never the same afterwards or maybe its that things are too much the same. If you don 8767 t put in some SERIOUS 8775 you time 8776 to get perspective on the situation, then the same issues that caused the break will still be there. Sometimes even when you do make the effort, it can 8767 t be helped. A break is a sure sign that maybe its just not meant to be. I could say that I wish I had learned this a lot sooner to save me some heartbreak but the truth is, if I hadn 8767 t have been through those rough times then I wouldn 8767 t know what I know now. The sooner you learn that sometimes things just aren 8767 t meant to work, and that you have to go through crappy times to get to happier ones, the better off you will be.
This was 8 weeks ago and I have been in no contact since, except last week he messaged me to exchange items of mine he found after cleaning. I went and got them. He didn 8767 t look me in the eye. He did tell me he joined a gym and started a diet. I told him I was happy he is making changes and told him that I would 8767 ve supported him with those things and that I hope he didn 8767 t think he couldn 8767 t do those things while we were together.
This was a helpful article but it 8767 s left me more confused than ever. I dated my last boyfriend for 7 months, almost all of which was long distance, but right from the start he was so committed. He invited me to his brother 8767 s wedding, had me in the wedding photo even.. had me move out to live with him for two months while I was on leave from work brought me on vacation with his family over christmas. All signs pointing to 8775 go 8776 .
I think u r pressuring him by asking him alot
U r a cute person but u have to give him the space he needs to figure things out,, just let him decide, be independent and act like u dont care so he will Chace you don 8767 t ask him about every step he takes as he will ignore you by time and feel like he cant act normally
Give him space, let him think and have his freedom for a while and he will come back to you
I know that u love him and it is obvious but u got to stay strobg and hold yourself 🙂
This really helped a lot,i am going through a 8775 break 8776 right now he suggested we can still text but i decided it 8767 s better not it 8767 s only been around 8 days but this is the first time so it feels really long. I think it depends on the reason from which the 8775 break 8776 started if the guy is willing to be with that girl and adjust and fix those problems a breakup won 8767 t be in the picture but if he is afraid of being serious and emotional or other major issues like he thinks he will hurt her they might end up breaking up. So basically it depends on the people and their problems that caused this break but a break can also be refreshing and can remind you of the many things you missed out on
I wish I could talk to you face to face or on the phone. Instead of this texting. It 8767 s really hard to get across what I 8767 m trying to say and my deepest feelings.. But for now, I 8767 m going to be patient and wait for you to come to me. Bare with me if I stumble. I 8767 m trying. So I 8767 ll leave you alone. Just know that I love you, and respect you deeply and am learning. I don 8767 t know what else to do but to back away and wait till you 8767 re ready for you and I, if you do chose to be with me again, which I pray you will, but in God 8767 s will, not mine.
I 8767 ll be here with open arms, understanding, unconditional respect and love. To be your partner through anything and stand beside you. Because i now know what that looks like, where as before, i had no clue or thought I did. To be patient. Patience is what I 8767 m working on for myself because I lack that badly a better ear to listen, And a promise to God I will forever put him first.
So I need some advice, my boyfriend of 7 years decided it was time for us to take a break however, he said it was not just about me but his family and friends as well. His reason for a break was so he 8775 could better himself as a person 8776 and he also said he had a lot of stuff on his mind like college and his work. So I thought, alright I 8767 ll just stop talking to him for about a month until he decides what to do and to be honest this is really hard for me. I 8767 ll just randomly break down sometimes because I 8767 m just so scared but I know I have to stay confident and not bug him about it. But whats weird is how he still wants to talk to me and to 8775 make sure if i 8767 m alright, 8776 what should I do in this situation, just talk to him or don 8767 t? any further advice would be helpful too.
Okay, i respect your wishes take all the space you need. Just remember I love you and I am here to support you with whatever you need. Even if you just want someone to vent to about me or your life you can call me anytime. I love you so much poonkai and I want to know I want us to be happy as well. I don 8767 t want to fight with you anymore I want to be that girl who use to write you poems and sing to you I want to take care of you?
I love u and I 8767 m here if you need me through thick and thin. Remember that. From here all away around the world to here. ?God bless angel
I need help my boyfriend told me he needs space but he still contacts me and he tells me he don 8767 t know what he wants but he loves me his overwhelmed with bills and he don 8767 t know if me beeing his life will be okay or we will go back to arguing he just tells me he needs space and we could still talk that his one msg away. I don 8767 t know what he wants should I not talk to him anymore and text him that I can 8767 t do it that anymore.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months now, we been knowing each other since last year and iv really fallen for this guy hard. He was everything my exs wasnt. I was so happily in love all my friends were so happy and i felt like the happiest girl alive, until my assumption got the best of me and i thought he was cheating when he wasnt. So he felt as if i didnt trust him which i do but he doesn 8767 t see that so asked for a break but i dont want one, life without him im a wreck i cant stand the fact that he wants one. It kills me and its eating me alive because i feel like he doesn 8767 t want me or he will break up with me.. Please help me what i should do
Seriously? 8775 everything is good except he doesn 8767 t like kids 8776 . I can 8767 t think of a bigger red flag to run than this. If you want kids then you can only bring them into this world when you are with a man who wants to commit to you and loves and wants to have children with you. All children deserve to be brought up by two parents who want them and feel that their stability and happiness are their top priority. You won 8767 t have that with someone that doesn 8767 t want kids. This is a total deal break. Move on!!!
My boyfriend and I just recently went on a break. It 8767 s only been about 9 days with zero communication and I 8767 m going insane. I miss him like absolute crazy and I 8767 m scared he doesn 8767 t miss me. He said the break is our last option because he 8767 s not sure he is in love with me. He said he loves me and would do anything for me but he 8767 s not sure if his feelings for me are all there anymore. My heart is slowly breaking. I want to call him but I 8767 m not sure if I should or not? Can someone please give me some advice or reassurance?
Come on girls, the truth is when a guy says 8775 I want a break 8776 it really means that 8775 I want to be able to screw other girls, and keep you hanging on for a booty call 8776 . Don 8767 t fall for it!! When a guy is really into a girl then he wants to be with her. He doesn 8767 t want a break. The smartest thing you can do is to tell them they can have a permanent break and walk away. If you are clingy and keep asking questions and bothering him it will push him away more. The only way you might have a chance (if you really think a guy like this is worth it) is if you show that you are confident and fine. One of the biggest turn offs for guys is a girl without self confidence that keeps contacting you and asking questions. When a guy sees that you are fine without them then that 8767 s usually when they want you.
I just want to make sure everything is ok this is what he said to me (Good morning, I 8767 m sorry I haven 8767 t been saying a whole lot lately. I 8767 ve just been trying to keep to myself and do some thinking. The truth is I 8767 m really overwhelmed right now with everything and it 8767 s keeping me stressed out. That being said I think I really need a break from things. And I know that 8767 s the most selfish thing I can say, because you 8767 ve been nothing short of awesome to me and the girls. It 8767 s just something I need to do for myself so I can be better and not have all of these up and down moments. So I think it would be best if for right now we broke things off for a while. By no means am i saying we 8767 re done forever, god knows I do care alot about you, I just want the time to myself so I can really commit. I 8767 m truly sorry alesia, because I know this message is going to break your heart, and that 8767 s the last thing you deserve and it 8767 s the last thing I would want to do to you. But as I said for right now I think it 8767 s for the best. I 8767 m really sorry.)
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I can completely understand how you feel. My boyfriend asked for a break a couple of days ago after one year together. My response was 8775 we should go our separate ways 8776 . It hurt me deeply because we love each other and we made a good team together but I felt just like you, it was a cowardly way of getting out instead of working things out. We are from different cultures and his expectations from a future wife are high, not to mention he wanted me to be making double the money of what I make now before ever moving in together. I was loyal to him and loved him with all my heart and I don 8767 t know how I 8767 m going to move on from this. I have lost all hope in finding true love.
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