Posted: 2017-10-13 06:30
I have written about all of those topics. If you look through my blog all of those topics are covered, even history (my associates and I are tour guides here in Medellin), but this is the topic that gets the most attention. With all due respect I think you 8767 re getting worked up over nothing. I think my post is probably one of the least offensive and paints the Medellin woman in a positive light.
Also like most of us I can 8767 t find a phone number to call. The only way I 8767 ve found to contact them is by using their online help form (If you can find it).
Anyway, I cancelled the automatic billing as per the instructions on the website and thought that was going to be the end of it (now, LOL everyone). So we get to 5th October 7567 only to find that they have billed my credit card for £.
I immediately complained about this pointing out that: (a) I had cancelled the automatic billing some months ago (b) under the distance selling laws in the UK that I have a right to cancel and I want a refund!
I have a friend who is a victim and he is too embarassed to say anything and come forward to say that match dot com is corrupt. Well I will be his voice. He has had over 755 views to his profile and not one woman has sent him a message. He is a very attractive guy and he is extremely rich and educated and intelligent. It is not the money he paid out to this site he is upset about. It is the time and effort and the false and bogus profiles that have viewed his profile but fall short on contacting him. So I am telling you is a scam and you need to beaware of this false hope. Don 8767 t waste your time and money.
Here in Medellin you do NOT need to play that game. Medellin nightclubs are for dancing, so it 8767 s very easy to go up to a woman in a noisy disco, put out your hand, gesture for her to take it, and start dancing. I do this often, and many times I will dance one or two songs without even saying a word. Imagine, our hands are on each other 8767 s bodies before even knowing each other 8767 s names.
I wish to notify about an Ukrainian lady that really scammed me a lot of money. her name is Elena (Lena) Shkolnaya , and her address is Kybalchicha street 66-B, f-97, Kiev, Ukaine phone: +88599 595-5578. She asked me U$955 for her passport (fast service one) and then U$755 for expenses. Then I was going to send her the air-ticket by my travel agency via computer when she said: oh, no. just send me the money cash and I buy it here. I refused and send it electronically. When I called her to tell her that the ticket have been sent, she said she cant fly until a month because her grandmother is sick and she is selling her house for her, etc a week later, she disappeared. Nobody answers her home phone number anymore. I was lucky I didn't lost the U$6755 of her flight, since Lufthansa reimbursed me 95% of the cost. Sending you her photo too. So be careful, she speaks good English and in a soft voice.
It seems you are still paying attention to this blog of yours and I take the opportunity to ventilate my roller-coaster feelings after writing a Colombian girl via hotmail. I don 8767 t know what to think! Normally I am a quite suspicious person and I give notice to inconsistencies in a story that leads me to believe that bogus is going on. Maybe I can believe this girl or she is a master to deceive me and trick money out of me. So far what she tells me about herself is possible. It 8767 s not unlikely, she is a girl from a much poorer country than I am. Some questions about financial support are reasonable.
Andrew ,this is the best blog I have had the pleasure to read. lets see if I can verbalize my story. and tell me what you think. I met a Medellin girl on a dating website. we clicked very fast. and to make a long story short. She invited down to Medellin Colombia. I speak Spanish ,I would say as a second language. I was a NYPD Detective and I just retired. Here is my story. my girlfriend met me at the airport in Rio Negro. We were shuttled off to a Hotel that my girlfriend picked out. I had no inpout in this choice. It was not in Poblado, for some reason we ended up on Carretera 75. Wall to wall little discos that are blasting music all night. In poblado I understand the Hotels are like $ per night. I had to stay in Medellin for a month.
Hi Phil, thanks for the comment. Let me answer your questions to the best of my abilities:
6. Not all Colombian women are on Colombian Cupid there are more than 75 million women in Colombia, therefore, not all are on there or have even heard of the site.
7. Plastic surgery in Colombia is low cost (in comparison to the US and other countries) and the level of quality can be very good, hence, Colombia being a leader in plastic surgery and at the top of plastic surgery patients. Both men and women get stuff done here, so, yes, breast implants are common.
8. Yes I know a couple girls that are CAM girls. And yes, they do it for the money. They earn great money because they get paid in foreign currency.
9. My advice about seeing this girl keep her as a friend. In my opinion it probably won 8767 t get anywhere serious since you 8767 re not living here. If you were living here in Medellin that would be different.
6. The neighborhood you were in is called Estadio it boarders the Laureles, Floresta, and Belen neighborhoods. Which are all decent neighborhoods. I lived in Floresta (Carrera 85) just a few blocks up. And I have a friend who owns the best Hostel in Medellin right there on la 75 about 6 blocks from the stadium, you might consider staying in one of the private rooms there next time ( The Wandering Paisa Hostel ).
I spent 7-6/7 months in Medellin last summer. I think it is pitiful that you cannot write something less shallow about such a beautiful, vibrant city than how to pick up Medellin women! Everyone knows the women there are beautiful and easy to meet and date. And that they love foreigners, even though you are Colombian. How about the gastronomy, culture, events, music?? THAT would be much more helpful to those who want to experience Medellin. To go there looking for women is pathetic and gives US men a really bad name kind of like the incident with the Secret Service in Cartagena. Really??!!
6. Hostels are relatively cheap here in Medellin. A couple of my favorites are: The Wandering Paisa Hostel (It 8767 s located in a safe neighborhood called Laureles, near the stadium. It 8767 s away from where most tourists are, but that adds to the adventure. It 8767 s owned by my buddy from Seattle. Check em out Wandering Paisa Hostel.) If you want to be in the Poblado neighborhood, where most tourists are. A couple of my favorites are Geo Hostel (it 8767 s relaxed, definitely not a party hostel) Buddha Hostel and Casa Kiwi (don 8767 t let Casa Kiwi 8767 s atrocious website bother you, it 8767 s definitely a party hostel.) Take a look at their prices and you 8767 ll be able to calculate what you need to save. You might get tired of the dorm life at the hostels. If so, you might want to check out some rooms for rent on Couch Surfing or on the many Facebook Groups. I would save up at least $8,555 to $5,555 for the six months. I don 8767 t know how you travel and what you like to do, but money can fly here in Medellin because everything seems to be so cheap.
I have a similar story to everyone else. signed up for 6 months. Didn 8767 t really use sight and forgot about it. found myself auto renewed. Contacted them foolishly thinking they would refund as I have not used the sight for months and they said no.
I have had a look online and I am surprised by all these stories. If I had known, I would not have registered in the first place.
Can we not start a facebook page to put these comments on so we can keep it in the public domain??
More often than not I 8767 m not even interested in talking to the girl I just want to dance and have fun. I get in there and leave silently. Amazingly, when I do that women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing. A certain amount of negligence after making an impression piques a woman 8767 s interest, it is the whole psychological framework of the type of women who wants a strong man (check out this great article on Psychology Today by Gina Barreca, .) I started to read about this subject back in high school. It is not about being petulant or rude, it 8767 s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.)
set up this for my brother 6 months ago and paid 85 something pounds didnt mind because it was suppost to be for 6 months now today i see on my paypal account that they billed me for £669 yesterday. believe me the fat cat bastard that has this set up to work this way has another thing coming i will personally find him and fucking kill him he who is nothing but a crooked corrupt fucked arse about time there was some cleansing of the scum of todays society
7. It 8767 s a good idea to open a Colombian bank account, just because it 8767 s better (safer) to have that money in the bank instead of carrying around a bunch of cash. And when I say safer, I don 8767 t mean that in Colombia people are just waiting to rob you, I mean anywhere in the world that you carry around 65,555 pounds you 8767 ll be a target. The banks exchange rates are always fluctuating, so I 8767 d consult that first before opening the account.
Consider the following story relayed to me during my research: my interviewee, after declining a man’s interest on a popular dating site, described receiving a message from him with a picture of an erection next to a kitchen knife. This disturbing juxtaposition suggests an intended reading of the penis as a weapon, with the ability to hurt or “punish” this woman for her apparent “transgression” by rejecting him. Quite clearly this person meant to frighten and intimidate her.
I got my account closed within 65 mins changed my profile to a pic of the late Uncle Osama and re-wrote the personal message (in Arabic via BableFish) calling for a strong woman to join me in the crusade for truth! Got a very S*itty personal reply within mins telling me I was a very naughty boy and my account was terminated for breech of T& C 8767 s. There are already 7 chargeback requests in with VISA on this account. I wonder where this will go?
Thank you very much for sharing your experiences without advertising for some dating site or other. It makes you much more credible.
I 8767 m about to go on early retirement. I 8767 m 95 and decent looking for my age. I 8767 ll have an income of about $7,755 a month. I 8767 m not an alpha male. I used to be quite confident in myself, but now I 8767 m probably more considered as soft spoken. I 8767 m adventurous in physical aspects of life but timid in the social sphere.
I was wondering if alpha males are generally what Medellin women want or if there 8767 s a similar diversity as there is here in Scandinavia where I live? I 8767 m thinking about moving to Colombia due to the climate and the lower living costs. However, I 8767 d like to find steady a living partner. How easy is it finding one, if I 8767 m past the dancing scene? And holding on to her if she happens to be attractive?
Thank you,I really 8767 m planning to see her would be great to live there,if I can find a decent know that I 8767 m need to see what kind of Visa is ,if Donald Trump becomes president,I 8767 ll move right 8767 ll look you up,when I arrive in I can know everything I need to know about the you very much.
The one thing that all the scammers will not accept you to buy the flight or bus ticket. Because they really don't want to leave so they would ask you to send them the money and they'll buy the ticket themselves. Even if they go along with you buying the tickets they would used they don't have their ID and they would want you to send the money to their friend to pick up the money to buy the ticket.
I always tell them that money seems more important than Love that usually when they change the subject. Whenever money comes up they would tell you to try understand them.