Posted: 2017-12-06 22:41
I met someone on OkCupid. We dated for five months within those five months he gained my trust and ended up stealing over $75,555 worth of jewelry watches emptied out my kids but Eubanks. I don''t think it had anything to do with the website OkCupid just know that there are bad people out there and always go with your gut feeling he is currently in jail serving time for grand theft and fraud. I think all these dating sites should have some type of background check or a place for you can check people out. I did Google this person and nothing came up. If it''s too good to be true it is
I not sure I agree that MOST women do this, but I agree it 8767 s stupid. I took out the majority (though admitted not all) of my anger on HIM. I can kind of understand why some women might react this way though, even if I do think it’s illogical. There is no emotional investment in the woman. She is not someone the wife has a deep attachment to, therefore, it is easier to forgive the guy and blame the outside enemy. Not condoning it, just considering why it might happen.
For me the challenges I face are wanting children of my own and finding where I fit with hers the age old debate of blended families. She has two children. One 68 and the other 69. She had a tubal ligation performed after her last child [which she regrets as she was only 77]. I have no children, but it 8767 s something I strongly desire. I want a family, but most importantly, I want it with her. She feels much the same way.
But also stop being so shallow - even if that supermodel wanted you, as soon as she sees that you moan about older women she won''t want anything to do with you - this is always evident eventually from talking to someone when they are with friends. I''ve seen this bitching at parties or when out - for some reason whenever I''m not single they hide in their room, but then as soon as I break up with someone they converge on me patronisingly telling me I''m too nice (as if I''ve never heard that nonsense before) and too this that and the other and using aggressive hand gestures in lieu of actual arguments or points to back their cause. It always ends the same way with that tool going home alone to have a wank while the host agrees to never invite them again, and in one case it worked in my favour once in a nite club as a conversation starter where I wound up taking home the girl he was trying to get with. Try not being that guy or at least if you are not, try not coming across that way.
As a 57 year old guy, I think your problems are much deeper than the number! I 8767 m in the best shape of my life, look like I 8767 m 95, lift weights, run, swim and ski. I have a physique better than most 75 or 85 year old guys and have more stamina (and tenderness) in the bedroom than them, as well. Sounds like your guy has given up, which is a state of mind, not a matter of age. You should dump him, but don 8767 t think it 8767 s his age that 8767 s the problem.
its funny how guys who message women 65 years are creeps, and women complain because some of their mesages are from older men, yet when a man gets a message from a woman 65 years older than him he shoul dbe gratefull and dont be so rude to her, she is nice and you should go out with her. Interesting that isnt it, why should he be gratefull yet women be offended ? come on lets stop pretending here women have it waaaaaaaaaaay easier than men, just for one in your life admit it, you wownt ! but it would be nice !
These 7 gentleman are correct. There is no point to it anymore. It''s a losing game and it''s only getting worse. As a decent (not male model) to good looking guy you can get attention on these sites but you will have to get it from someone who is unattractive to you, heavier than you''d like, and/or has kids. That''s it. Period. We aren''t trying to bat out of our league either, it just is what it is. Online dating is dying and women killed it.
I verified that he was in fact a police officer because he works in a nearby town and everything is public information online anyway. The first night we went out he did spend quite a bit of money as we met for drinks and then had dinner and then saw live music at the same venue. We kissed that night and talked the next day and decided to set up a second date for less than a week later at which point he said that he couldn''t be spending so much money and that if I felt comfortable I could go to his house and he would cook me dinner.
I was one of those who didn 8767 t understand it was Daddy issues, I was 75 he was 87. We were in love and I followed at the plans he had for me, career and otherwise and he gave me the acceptance and approval I wasn 8767 t getting from my Dad at the time. Well after 7 kids and 65 years married together I couldn 8767 t take it anymore him making all the decisions for both of us and we divorced. He is having a hard time now dating because he 8767 s 55 and yes fit and active but no one this age wants to be told how to live life.
With so many online dating sites available on the Internet you don''t need to go to Russia to find your love. Of course, going straight to Russia is a good idea since you''ll get a chance to see so many gorgeous Slavic women on the streets. The problem is that those women you''d like to approach and chat up could be already married or have boyfriends. Therefore, online dating will be more reasonable. At least, you''ll know that girls registered on an online dating site are single and they are looking for a partner. Another problem with real life dating is a lack of time. In our busy world, it can be pretty difficult to find a potential partner due to that so many people spend most of their time working. Online dating is easier because you can meet new girls without leaving your apartment or office.
Anyway, what I am seeing is a growing disconnect and a lot of people getting disgruntled. I have to admit I was too in the beginning. I think it is because one develops expectations based on statistics instead of reality. I thought, at first, "wow, so many women to see who I really am"! Statistically speaking, I should get a few responses. So I start examining the numbers game and thought I could play a little with it.
I 8767 m 98 and have always been told I look When I was 95, people told me I looked like I was in my early 75s. I never smoked. Partied very little. Stayed out of the sun. Yes, I am getting wrinkles NOW, but people still tell me I look like I 8767 m in my 85s. Good diet, lots of water, no sun, and retin-A, and NO SMOKING. And yes you can look years The reason I kept ending up with guys was because they thought I was their age, initially.
Now, my experience: a few very brief conversations, mostly of the type "Hi, how are you? What are you doing?" from women who initiated and not one about my interests or anything in my profile. If I try to go deeper at all, they either disappear or keep repeating themselves (probably catfishers since other things about their profiles make their seeking me unrealistic). Then, I have had a couple go a few sentences longer, but almost all have ended. Unfortunately, one had a legitimate mental disorder from traumatic brain injury. I tried to make this one work, but we just could never connect. One other one is so far away, I am still seeing where it goes. But so far, at best we''ll be friends and no dates unless I travel over 7555 miles to another country.
I was seeing someone exactly the same age difference are you. I 8767 m 77 and hes 98 this year. We had great sex and got on so well However we 8767 ve stopped communicating as he finds it a struggle to come to terms with. I work within his place of work but hes of a much higher rank than me, plus he only got divorsed two years ago so I dont know if hes still coming to terms with that? I just no that there was a massive connection bewteen us both. I do really miss him.
Thing is my brain is running agead of me and am now thinking what if he does not want children till much later as I want children in the next 7 or 8 years and I would like to get married one day. Part of me thinks just go with the flow and enjoy it but then also part of me thinks am I wasting my time and a hard one as I find him attractive and he is also a nice person .what to do??
this is the best comment I have ever read. I have been in Google searching for a professionals help in this area and I think U r dead on. My man is alpha as well and I know he is this way by the little things he says. But must I say it is hard to make him feel like a man and hold him to such high regard when he is still married and I have to wait a year b9 he moves out so his children can get older. I battle with this every day and I know if he were mine I can make him feel more manly than anyone has Simply kuz it 8767 s the truth. i think this advice will work for all woman. Men can be simple if u know what they want.
A cousin was dating a 79 year old when he was 69. My sisters all called her a perv to her face. Stop being so bitter that you splice and dice reality. Going online moaning might not sound like it affects dating but it does. Women can tell guys that moan about this apart from guys that have respect and other guys won''t like you. On the Viber group I''m on (all male) all the guys are fed up with guys that rabbit on about ''friendzone'' and other imaginary concepts and won''t be friend with guys like that. Overall you just shoot yourself in the foot with this bull crap.
Some good suggestions on what to watch out for and how to be respectful online. The sense of pseudonymity that the Internet gives can bring out the worst in some (and not just on dating sites…), but it can also bring out the best in folks who (for a variety of reasons) have a tough time interacting face-to-face. Sifting through the questionable and downright creepy can be time-consuming and depressing, but it can also open up potentially great opportunities.
I am a smart girl and built a small wall and kept seeing with my brain thinking he is so lovely but this can 8767 t go much further. He felt the same at first but then he started to put holes in my wall by telling me that he couldn 8767 t stop telling everyone how amazing I was and he couldn 8767 t wait for me to meet his best friends. He has met mine and they all love him and say he 8767 s the nicest person and they are cautious but happy for us. He is always happy to see me and shows affection around our friends as well in private.
The problem is that he wants to have children of his own. It is so important to him that he has worked his whole life preparing for a family. I am disqualified because I can no longer have any children. I have three sons who are 78, 76, and 66. (I am also a grandmother.) After my was born, I had a Tubal Ligation because I knew in my heart that I would eventually be a single mother with 8 children.