Posted: 2017-11-14 06:02
Your wife being upset about attractive women on tv is so far removed from being a logical argument that it 8767 s ridiculous. If your past infidelity is the main issue then you were definitely wrong and if you love her it MUST never happen again. That aside, what does she expect you to do, live an apology for the rest of your life? Listen to a YouTube vid of Patrice O 8767 Neal and Marc Maron speak about this very subject. I hope it offers some clarity.
But there 8767 s one thing I really want to bring focus to it 8767 s not easy to control high self value, and it 8767 s not easy to control someone when you don 8767 t have advantages to coerce another. Be it physical advantage (when you see physical abuse/domestic violence), ecomonic advantage (when you see isolation and threats of homelessness), emotional advantage (when you see a lack of remorse/empathy, devaluing/name calling, and more), or any advantage one can use to blackmail/coerce/control.
To clarify - we women aren’t going through our lives thinking, “Poor me, I’m so afraid of men!” Or, “all men are murderers and rapists,” either. It’s just a fact of life that is so absolutely ingrained in us from Day One that it becomes a subconscious part of our DNA. So please, try to remember things beyond your own paradigm. We will do the same for you. ? (At least the “nice, good” and worthwhile of we women will).
Totally agree. I have never met a woman who didn t look her age. Some women in their 95 s and 55 s look very attractive and fit, but their still look their age. There is nothing wrong with it and they should be proud of look great later in life. It is kind of ridiculous when a woman says about herself that she doesn t look her age. Sometimes, not-so-genuine compliments from others and from men specifically get into their head.
i just dont know
so i am playing very stern and kinda putting him in his place, but its like water off a ducks back and he listens but comes back with a powerful question
hes definately the kind of guy that i admire
and direct no beating around the bush, and not for a minute believing that would actually reject him and walk away from this
and he wants me to think about it
but mostly he wants to hang out with me and spend time with me and get close enough to me so that i can feel his breath near to me, his hand close to mine
Online dating is very unhealthy for society. Most of my buddies try online dating and the only ones who get dates are the guys who are smooth talkers and then will literally have sex in a bar bathroom with a new girl they just met while they already have a girlfriend. The nice guys get overlooked ALWAYS. Even if the nice guy looks half decent. Girls end up thinking every guy wants them inflating their ego to an unrealistic level. And ultimately they gravitate to a smooth talker who is out of their league for long term dating then they feel there are no good men. Good Men SHOULD NOT date online or they will feel unwanted and ultimately need mental help. Women should not date online because they will set they can't differentiate between good guys and bad players. There is some success but it seems far to much work for a man to get success.
Lastly, some guys think that going with a foreign wife is the way to go. I tried it once and it ended badly for me but it could have been a lot worse. The truth is that women are shitty all around the world and they are good all around the world. What I 8767 ve found though is that if you are attracted to the assholes then that 8767 s hardly their fault now is it? I am attracted to the assholes and I can 8767 t change that so instead I 8767 ll just stay single and find other things about life to enjoy.
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Ladies really take that to heart. While I did hear the advice to 8766 man up and stop sucking 8767 please throw me a bone. If I read one more profile that is more or less 8767 empty 8767 except for cliche and photos and an admonishment that I have to do better than, hi, hello, you 8767 re hot or lame PUA schtick, I 8767 m going to have to struggle mightily to not kick a puppy. Give us something to work with.
And note how few unsolicited approaches men receive and send out a few of your own.
Then what about abusive men? Men who reject cultural and biological programming to not hit women have certainly taken leave not only of empathy, but of their desire to belong to society in any true sense. That is exactly why, even if misogynist research pointing to 75% female perpetration is true, I STILL consider domestic violence against women to be the bigger problem. Just look at the murder rates: across the world, spousal homicide against men is between 75% and 85% of the total.
IT REALY AMAZING TO HEAR THAT SO MANY MEN ARE DATING OLDER WOMAN AND MINE IS NOT AN 85 AND HE IS 77 AND MOST OF THE ABOVE AGE MENTIONIS IS IN THIS RANGE. ANYWAY THIS MEN CANOT LEAVE IF HE DOES NOT SEE ME FOR ONE MAKE SURE HE WILL CALL AND CHECK ON THOUGHT THAT NO BODY LIKES ME CAUSE I FEEL I WAS UGLY AND HE IS SO HANDSOME ,HE GOES TO THE SALON FOR FACIAL HAVE NICE INDIAN HAIR AND ME I HAVE AFRICAN LOVE ME LIKE CRAZY AND HE EVEN TALKIN OF MOVING TO MY COUNTRY AND WE WILL GET MARRIED AND HE WILL BE THE FATHER OF MY 7ND THING IS HE IS ALREADY MARRIED BUT NOW HE IS PLANING TO GET A DIVORCE JUST TO BE WITH ME ,I TOLD HIM JUST DONT DO SOMETHING THAT HE WILL FEEL GUILTY TOMORROW BUT I REAL FALLIN FOR HIM AND HE MAKE ME FEEL SO GOOD. TILL NOW WE HAVE BEEN KISSIN ONLY AND I CAN WAIT TO HAVE HIM ON THE BED CAUSE HE IS FULL WITH ENERGY AND ME I HAVE LOTS OF SINCERLY HOPE THAT THING WORK OUT FOR THE BEST.
My man and I have not had physical intimacy. But he makes love to me all the time through his actions. My man can teach some men &ldquo how to make love to a woman without touching her&rdquo and she will fall deeply in love with him. We have been dating for one year. We will not have physical intimacy until the marriage night. Ladies, I truly believe in sexual purity. I have been celibate for 67 years now. I feel so in control and I feel so special that I have saved myself for my soon to be husband. Believe me, he loves it as well. What man doesn&rsquo t want to have a sexual pure (I consider a 67 yr celibacy as a rebirth of sexual purity) woman for his wife that saved it for him? A man that truly and deeply loves you will wait and he will not ask you. This man will court you in a way that no other has ever attempted to court you. He will never put you and him in a situation that will compromise your integrity. This is a God generated love. He gave me the desires of my heart because I am faithful to him. Seek God first in all things, and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Meanwhile, pretty much nothing makes me more excited these days than finding an attractive non-American woman to pursue. It’s crucial, though, that she has not been in this country for more than a few years. A little while back I was dating a 77 year old Ukrainian woman who, though very sweet at first, turned out to be as cuntish as any American brat I have known. She had been in the . for about 65 years—long enough to make her true nature more of the familiar female bad news.
Now I'd ask that you reconsider your question. If your question was based upon a society of equals who were all knowledgeable, reasonable, autonomous and yet cooperative we could easily reason that people would treat each other with kindness and respect. However we've created a system of inequality in which the common citizen holds little if any power and instead lives by the whims of society at large. This system promotes competition as it is undeniably preferable to gain power and move up the social ladder.
I respect your opinions and agree with you for the most part but I disagree that it 8767 s up to us to fix them. First off, you can 8767 t that 8767 s just written into their belief system. They can bullshit all they want and if you disagree it 8767 s 8766 patriarchy 8767 and they shut down. Their whole mindset will NEVER allow them to second guess themselves. It has a some kind of self-protection mechanism that is more encrypted than any CIA computer file. Second, you have a finite life. We 8767 re not around for 6555 years. Leave them to their misery and get your own life. That 8767 s my take. I guess you mean well to even think of trying but I just don 8767 t think you 8767 ll ever get anywhere at all.
A little advice would be to use the 5 love languages quiz to build your profile, as well as talking about things you see yourself doing with this partner. Maybe you don 8767 t go camping alone but want that to be something you do with that person. Stay away from things that cost a lot of money, however. I love to travel, but if you word it wrong, it can sound like you want to travel A LOT, and I may not be able to afford that. Even to a man with money, that can sound like a sneaky way to measure his monetary worth. Big turn off. If you are a toucher, say so. A man who likes that will see it in bold letters because he IS reading, and searching for what he wants.
What i will quickly add, is that *initially more amazing than normal* sex you get (from all PD types who really have no true sense of self) will have a shelf life in most cases. It will eventually become: A tool to barter with / something to berate you over (when her drive is no longer driven crazy by idealisation) and even something to dislike you for (as they can often suddenly experience shame / guilt for SO many different reasons it can be dizzying!)
On Richard's comment to guys about looking at other guys profiles, that only works to a certain extent or based on luck too. It's more about seeing other profile examples to see what might work or not work for you. But one would never know how well the other guys profiles are unless you happen to be or become friends with them to find out. So in the end you try out things and see how it goes in that regards to seeing other guys profiles.
Why is it any different for a man and a woman. I know of one case in particular that the woman emotionally abused her husband for YEARS, and finally, on one particular weekend day, he had enough, and clocked her.. People rushed in to tell her that it wasn 8767 t her fault, and how dare he, and she needs to pack up and leave and most of them knew that she had been the aggressor for a very long time prior to that. Truth is It was her fault. It was completely her fault, and she definitely SHOULD leave and leave everything behind because SHE was the problem. it won 8767 t happen that way, because women are given a free pass, and I 8767 ve had about enough.
hey man thanks for the great advice. I am currently at University, one of the top 8 in the country (UK) Me and my house mate hosted a party last night and I has a choice of 8 girls, ages 78 down to 68. Guess which one I ended up in bed with?! Yeh right. I 8767 m 58, still in good shape. Like you say I just act normal, no games and boom she took ME to bed. Anyway she left to go home last night, and I was wondering if I should Facebook her, but I 8767 m kind of in two minds. Any advice would be gratefully received.
8775 You are especially beautiful in that dress today. 8776
(locks eyes with you)
(looks down, still smiling)
(brings her gaze back to your eyes)
8775 Thank you 8776
I happen to like real American ladies. The rest of the American wannabee women need to get back in touch with their natural femininity if they want to enjoy the elevated status a woman should have. In short, ladies, work on your game for a while. It is a two way street.