Posted: 2017-11-14 06:23
Feminists tell us that human history is so much “patriarchal oppression.” This is a rather simplistic view. The truth, which is much harder to accept, is that if men have oppressed women, it is because our desire for them is itself oppressive, no less so than those other incessant biological needs, those for food and drink. Furthermore, now that women are considered “equal” to men (a confused notion which really denotes sameness, even though the two genders are not the same), if we look closely we can see that what women have really wanted is not equality, but rather superiority. Again, just as oppressed peoples would be quite willing to be the oppressors—if only they could—so modern women expect both old world chivalry and modern “equality.” Yet taken together, the two render women superior in the overall power dynamics and it follows that, with respect to dating and romance generally, most heterosexual men in the Anglo world today, though they may not know it, are essentially dominated by women.
Indeed, for women, male confidence is an aphrodisiac in itself. Just why a man should be confident—in other words, whether he is truly any good at something or worthwhile—is generally inconsequential. When it comes to male confidence, women are like children at the amusement park it’s a wonderful spectacle nothing matches its excitement. Moreover, because female perceptions are generally shallow and superficial, a man who simply puts on a show of power and prestige—this exuding tremendous confidence—is sure to do quite well with women, those cheaply awed simpletons. Few things are more important to women than being validated by others. For this reason, they can hardly resist any man who appears to have accomplished this on a grand scale.
You just described every experience Males have going out in the 8775 real world 8776 . Going somewhere where men outnumber women 8 to 6. Trying to talk to women who have the pick of the litter so they shun interest in you. Watching as women talk with themselves mostly, or if with men, the Alpha man in the room 6-8, good looking, douche bag. When you do talk to a woman, they say they have a boyfriend yeah right. And then go home smelling like a bar with your tail between your legs.
I think different men like different types of women. I am a naturally skinny women who always had no problem with men. I have always wanted to gain weight just because where I come from its ideal to be thicker. My current boyfriend loves my body & I 8767 ve grown to be more comfortable because of it. Still trying to gain that 65-65 pounds which we make me more happy but to me be happy with the way you are. Work towards healthy goals. Not all men want the same thing.
The solution is NOT to give a shit what women say they want..or what rights they have..or how they want to be validated or about Fat Acceptance or whatever..
I don 8767 t give a shit about how women abuse the other 95-95% of the men (Beta/Omegas) out there..I don 8767 t care about these guys and how oppressed they are if they chose the BluePill then they deserve to be treated like a door mat.
My time on this earth is limited and I plan to enjoy it to the don 8767 t care about future generations or the 8775 current state of affairs 8776 of western civilisation..I don 8767 t care if Global Warming exists and the planet is destroyed in 655 years time..I could not care less if the Panda is extinct or not.
Learn an Alpha..be a a a Rational Hedonist and enjoy the ride.
Its so good to hear these stories because it makes me feel so much better. Im 55 but look 87 and my partner is only 77. I am so so worried about the future. He wants to get married. I tell you he is so much more mature in his thinking than any other older man I have known. YES I m so scared and have tried to leave him on so many occasions, but he wont have it. What do I do go with the flow.
ps he is the same age as my daughter am I sick or what?
In reality, she doesn 8767 t know what love really is because that requires true intimacy and vulnerability. Something I am not sure someone like her is capable of without serious help. I would ask her a question in the most calm, nonjudgmental way possible and she would still feel threatened by it as if I was attacking her or analyzing her by becoming defensive and projecting back on me. THAT is what breaks my heart that she may never allow herself to be happy.
In comparison to the work nice guys have to do, women (particularly average to good looking women) absolutely do appear to have all the advantages. Average nice guys are competing for attention from the creeps, the jerks, the ugly guys, the good looking guys, the hookup bad boys, even other women. All the cards are stacked against us. It's like a message in a bottle or winning the lottery to catch them at just the right time at just the right moment to get a response.
It sucks, I will give you that. I would not tell any man to have kids. I had taken the red pill a year before it happened to me. Got trapped, don 8767 t say it can 8767 t happen. Most 8775 red pill alphas 8776 sleep with the dregs and whores of society because they put out. The future leather faced pariah at your local bingo parlor, chain smoking her life away, makes up the bulk of the 8775 bad bitches 8776 you lay.
Feminism was a huge success for professional women. They are a tiny segment of the female population, judging from how loud you 8767 d swear they were 655%. They definitely believe they are the only ones who count. What they have done to the average woman is quite vicious. Many men jumped on the bandwagon too, Not having to support a woman, easy no strings attached sex, not having to marry etc. They don 8767 t particularly like feminism themselves but are quick to use anytime it 8767 s useful to them. You are turning them into whores out of your own selfishness, your knowledge that 95% of them are parrots and your refusal to man-up, get married and love, honor and respect a female.
Leave, divorce, do whatever it takes it is the best decision you can make for yourself and your kids. These people do not change, anger management, therapy..are just other hideway for them to play the victim whereas they are the one making other suffer. You can go to the police and ask for a protection order. You show the text she sent you to the judge and she keeps on doing it she wil go to have been married to somebody with a personality disorder and tried to make it works just broke me. By the way, it is not your mom 8767 s business it is your life and your kid 8767 s life. You don 8767 t have to talk to somebody who wants to hurt care.
I do have empathy for men who have been hurt by woman. You 8767 ve just met one who has as well. If it really makes you feel better, attack me. I will not attack back. Hit me over and over. Call me what ever you wish. Kill me in your mind if that 8767 s what it takes. I lived in anger against women for years. It consumed me. My health started to fail because my body couldn 8767 t take the stress being so angry all the time. It took five years of Hell to begin to climb out. I would never want to shame you. If I have, I apologize. It was unintended.
I've been on Plenty of fish, okCupid, and since November. It is now April. On PoF, I got lots of views, but the only message was an offer to sell me drugs. On okCupid, I didn't even get but a few views, and no messages at all. On I got lots of views and lots of winks, but only from guys out of the state, and again, no messages. On and PoF, I even tried messaging guys first, but no responses. Almost all of friends married guys they met on these sites, but I have no idea how they did it.
After 6 months on various sites I'm finally signing out today - my advice to men is to just enjoy your single life and use your time productively on hobbies and interests and self improvement etc. - get out into the real world to meet people. You'll probably be quite shocked if you keep a record of how many hours you spend trawling dating sites - I was when I decided to record my usage - One of the reasons that today is delete day - more time for fitness and reading.
There needs to be a movement with which we can demonstrate that these behaviors work to the wider public. This movement would need to start working its way through institutions and pressuring politicians to get its voice heard and points across because the implications are big. I agree 8775 patriarchy 8776 has bad associations, the name can be changed though can 8767 t it? We can make a moral case but my point is that with thought must come action.
Henry, I find any comparisons of a woman to a public toilet to be offensive and degrading. It is important to understand that although you are accurate that women in a narcissist society such as ours lose their ability to override their animal instinct and will choose narcissistic qualities over qualities of decency, associating a woman 8767 s desire for sex with contamination has also been shown to be a primitive and instinctually-driven belief.
Now if the argument made in this article is true and I think most of us believe it is then we need to think about the kinds of counter-arguments that work against the current system of redistributive politics & redistributive justice. My point is we need to be making the case within the language of redistributive justice, on the basis of the analysis that FEMINISM DISGUISES ITS OWN POWER.
Here is my story. I believe in God first and foremost in my life. Because I have put him first in everything, I have asked him to bless me with a husband that will love me deeply, a man that has a strong sense of self confident, a man that is strong willed (to handle me), a man that has integrity, a man that is financially stable, a man that will love my child, and a man that is very pleasing to the eye. I told God that I didn&rsquo t care what color this husband would be. I meant every bit of that. Not only did he bless me with all I ask, but he gave me a man that met all of the criteria that God (himself agreed with) knew would make us a loving and passionate couple. He is over 85. My man is Caucasian and I am Black. I am never concerned about his race at all. He is everything I asked for and then some. I am an educated and professional woman. He is an educated and established professional man.
Further, just having muscle burns calories, it is known as your resting metabolism. What this means is the healthy woman can eat A TON more than the anorexic woman and still remain skinnier. The point here is that you should be worrying about building muscle/maintaining muscle and losing fat down to 65-75% range. Fat takes up TREMENDOUS amounts of room as apposed to MUSCLE. Fat does not burn calories when you do nothing, but MUSCLE DOES. It is not biologically possible to become huge hulks as a woman unless you take steroids , or other illicit substances. In conclusion ladies, worry about gaining/maintaining muscle and losing fat, not about losing weight. Losing muscle+fat=bad, losing fat down to 65-75% range AND gaining/keeping muscle = YES!
My favorite moment is when they stop messaging in the middle of conversation. You try again and again but there is no response although she's online, like she had a heart attack suddenly. Another one is when they don't show up. First date and without any warning just no show. Then no response of course. Love those moments especially when they call men creeps. After several contacts like this in the row, men can start acting creepy, I guess. They learn very quickly to not give any respect to women because they are not going to get it back even when everything is going very well.
Well, I'm not there yet but I get pissed sometimes, it's nothing like in real life.