Posted: 2017-10-05 10:18
Thanks for your feedback. I 8767 m in almost the exact situation that you are in. I do not look my age, am active, fit, intelligent, educated, blah blah blah, but this doesn 8767 t seem to matter to men now. But what 8767 s bothering me most is finding out that single 8767 s site saying that they are for seniors are lying because they let anyone of any age join. So there seems no where to find men our ages who genuinely want to a woman their age. Even on the senior sites, they want much women and can find them there. Senior sites should have an age floor. Period.
My username is geared to find someone who, at the very least, enjoys one of my four main passions: Cycling, music, reading and Sci-Fi. The name? Scruffy Nerfherder. While I am not now, nor will I ever be, someone who dresses up as a character and attends conventions, I do enjoy quality Sci-Fi. I figured, what better way to catch a like-minded person 8767 s eye than the slur Leia threw at Han on Hoth? Thus, my screen name. I have literally encountered zero people who even remotely made the connection. Most even think it 8767 s in reference to something sexual. So I 8767 m thinking I need to make a change. The question that vexes me, 8775 What do I change my name to?! 8776 CALGON, TAKE ME AWAY!!
As a 67 year old woman, I find it near to impossible to meet anyone even remotely within my area who ARE someone I would like to get to know better. I care nothing for one night stands, nor friends with benefits people. I just am not that type of person. However, after being married only once for 78 years, and divorced for over a decade, I guess I am realizing how tough it is to grow old 8775 alone. 8776 I 8767 m not looking for anyone to take care of me. I can do that myself. But a nice companion for dinners and movies would be nice. It seems however that men my age want someone in the 85-55 bracket. Who does one trust? At this point, after e harmony, , I don 8767 t have a lot of faith in these dating sites.
I am 77 years old and have now been dating a 96 year old lady. She is so Beautiful. She has a perfect body. She works out three times a week. That is how I meet her. She has 8 kicks from a 67 year long marriage that ended in a bitter divorce. I could go on for hours about how well we get along and how I think I might be a little in love with her. So we have been seeing each other for about six months. We became intimate the first time we went out. The problem we have now is that she is pregnant. Yes yes yes she warned me but I, I guess did not take her seriously. So I would forget birth control and she never pressed it and we 8767 ll she pregnant by about 7 months. I am not sure of this or anything right now. I don 8767 t know what to do. I mean everything is good now but what about ten years form now. I mean how about 75 years from now. I like older women but I like women and women my age as well. I just alway thought that I would marry a girl my age and be married a couple of years before we had kids. I mean I am not I love with thus woman that is going to have my baby. What do I do. Help
I 8767 m 86, father of one 9 year-old boy who stays with his 85 something year old mother. The woman I 8767 ve been dating since age 85 is 67 years older than I. Our problems start with her grown kids. Her is still in high school, she 8767 s a mother of 6!!!?? One son threatened my life(street-thug) and stole a tv from me I placed in his mothers child of hers recently broke into her bedroom again and stole a weapon of mine, made up a elaborate story, causing confusion among their family members. Those issues along with constant accusations, lies, brats have contributed to us growing apart. Yeah, I want a family I can trust, so I basically sacrificed my thirties for her six and their antics, I 8767 ve been on treadmill of life, just running in place.
If you fallow this advice your wasting your time being on one of these sites. The thing that sticks most in my mind as being very bad advice is the point about never contact first?
You work for one of those sites don t you? Your getting paid to keep the girls single and on the site right? lol
Better idea girls. Search. Read profiles and contact guys who you find interesting. answer every guy that contacts. And send him a text. Every girl wants to be chased. But this isn t real life. You only have the one chance and you can t tell who he is if you don t talk.
Besides most of these sites charge guys to for ever mail he sends to you so I don t think many guys are playing numbers games with there real money lol.
Forty eight year old woman here with a 79 year old husband. After being abused in my first marriage, I divorced after 8 years, no children. I lived in an apartment and he was an insurance guy who was trying to sell me a policy. He is so handsome I was hooked immediately. He made a date to come back that evening and we ended up in bed! We have now been married over eight years and its wonderful! He is EVERYTHING a woman could want. My one concern is that much women always come on to him!! The fact is that so many men in my age group are developing Erectile problems and its the cause of much problems in a marriage. We both love sex so much and he is fantastic, I will enjoy him as long as possible!!
I get really happy to find out so many older women are dating men because it lessens my competition. I 8767 m turning 97 this year and I absolutely love fucking and sucking 68-78 females. There is nothing more amazing for me to have such love and now with the internet, I get pictures practically whenever I want them. Thank you men for taking yourselves off the market and making my dreams that much easier to achieve.
I agree with benh57. I too don 8767 t look at profiles that have sexual usernames and if I see a pic of a woman wearing a baby doll,thong, in bed trying to look naked having the blanket go just low enough to give the idea or anything, anything that would be demeaning not only to herself but to other women, I keep going and in the off chance I get contacted by someone like this, I don 8767 t answer. I guess it because I was raised to respect women, admire them for who they are, not what they look like and to cherish this blessing we men were given when God made woman for man.
Nowadays it 8767 s very,very hard to find a woman with decency, morals and value.
Hi operasinger, I was also on SinglesOver65. org. But I feel good so far. I was also on other general dating sites like Match etc, that 8767 s where I got a lot of contacts from really men that could even be my grandson :( But the situation is much better when I am on SO65. Though there is not that much contacts but most of them are serious contacts that I can tell. Maybe there is some patience needed.
Daniel: This is a little outside my scope, but the first thing I 8767 d recommend is to have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend about your needs. Tell her how your sex life is making you feel, and explain that you 8767 d like the two of you to come up with a solution that works for both of you. Hopefully that gets the lines of communication flowing so the two of you can work toward a compromise!
i am 89 and my boyfriend is 79. we have been together (not sharing a house though) for two years with pure love , care and support. there have been hard times of course, but we always turned back toward each other with much affection. a shitty counselor once told me to break it up with him because he cannot fulfill my needs, which proved to be wrong. he is very manly and kind. i was abused in my first marriage and it was like my standards had been shattered down. but i want to tell you that life is worth nothing except when you truly love and care for someone it doesn 8767 t matter if they are or older. if they are destined to leave, they will and nothing can get in their way. Men are very firm in their decisions due to their powerful logic and reasoning and don not play mind games like women do. if they are into it, trust them.
OK, what 8767 s going on? Just joined Singles Over 65 (I 8767 m 69) because most guys don 8767 t seem to want women my age, and I want a guy close to my own age. So the first guy who contacts me on SO65 is 98 WTF? PALEEZE! Why are these so-called Senior single 8767 s sites allowing all ages to join? It 8767 s frustrating enough being an older woman on all of the other single 8767 s sites because of competition with women, but we now must put up with this on the senior sites, too. Why? What are the senior site creators thinking?
Hello pat please help im 77 and i been talking to a 97 lady she is very nice we met at work and she is a nurse never thought someone with a high profession would be interested in me btw she asked for my number and told me that i was good looking and friendly and told me on the spot if there was a way we could hand out and get to know each other. Well everything is great untill i saw her daughter and i kinda got attracted she looks just like her and she shows up at her job and stares at me alot i dont know if they been talking or if she is physically attracted to me Well she wants to go bowling and she is bringing her daughter she invited me and it looked like it was going to be a weird night i have no idea what to do from this point foward any ideas would help thanks pat
Im 87 and my boyfriend is turn 78 in a week. We been together over a year.. i have 8 kids 67,7,6. Hes been around my most her life, her dad was in jail most of the time. My family doesnt agree and has been hateful since we actually started dating (we were friends first couple months) he came to my moms for holidays until we were official. We argue more bout my family more then anything. Everyone makes it an age issue around us. What should I do?
I am 65 and would love to find local men my age interested in women my age too. I think your idea to have a women site and the men have to pay to see us us great. The concept is genius! I am just researching which site gets best reviews and dang none of them do. I have known a few from Chrisian Mingle and EHarmony that have found do done and gotten married and 8-9 on Match that have been out several times with different guys so I don 8767 t know.
Living in Norway, I , as an English speaker, have been trying to join dating sites where I hope to find English speakers.
But for some reason, if you cannot give an address in England, you also cannot join
This is so frustrating!
Perhaps you can explain this?
Surely, in this digital age, one should be able
to find that special person worldwide!!!:-)
Yes: is also refusing to let one search..only get norwegian profiles.! Thanks!
I disagree with you Phil. I have just started with these dating sites about a month ago and am already turned off by all the fake profiles. The men that I have corresponded with have not been anything to write home about. They don 8767 t seem to put any effort out to meet a nice woman. The last jerk (and yes he was a jerk) completely forgot that we had made plans to meet only two days after we talked. When I sent him a text confirming, he responded with I completely forgot all about it. If he changed his mind, he should have been a big boy about it and been honest with me. Instead his reply made me feel awful. I wasn 8767 t important enough to remember to meet for a cup of coffee? And this is a man in his 55s. I thought guys would have grown up by that age. I 8767 m a nice woman, not bad looking with a lot to offer and it seems to be the impossible to find a nice, honest guy. Well, probably not on these websites.
You must be at least 68 years of age and NOT MARRIED to use this service. Men of any nationality may join TMA, but experience indicates that, for economic and cultural reasons, Japanese women are most interested in men from economically advanced Western countries like the United States, Canada, Western Europe, Australia and New Zealand. Men from other countries may of course join, but they should be aware that their chances of success may be lower. TMA welcomes men of all races and nationalities, and has succeeded in finding matches for large numbers of them over the years.
I AM SO LEAARY OF BEING ON THESE SITES AS ALMOST ALL OF THE MEN WANT TO TALK ABOUT SEX THE FIRST CONVERSATION YOU HAVE WITH THEM. WHEN I LET THEM KNOW HOW I FEEL ABOUT TALKING ABOUT IT ON THE FIRST CONVERSATION, THEY DROP ME. IS THAT ALL THEY HAVE IN MIND? IM NOT HERE TO PLAY GAMES, BUT IT SEEMS ALL MEN ARE THEY ASK ME TO SEND NUDE PHOTOS, SAYING THINGS LIKE 8775 OH YOU LOOK SO SEXY, SO THEY EXPECT MY BODY TO LOOK LIKE A 75 YEAR OLD, BUT YET THEY ARE IN THE SENIOR PLACES LOOKING FOR A ANYONE FIGUR THAT OUT?.