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Date: 2017-08-12 20:07.

While I don 8767 t really support the mgtow, redpill, mens right 8767 s movements myself, I do have a lot of empathy for those who do. See, not all women are like that necessarily, but feminism has created a brand of women that is simply intolerable. They 8767 re a nuisance to society and a nightmare to deal with personally. He is referring to women who feel entitled to be angry and berate men, because if the man retaliates, the man can get in legal trouble and the women can usually draw massive amounts of support from other women. They have a superiority complex and believe that women do these godly feats that men could never compare to. They will take everything they can and then blame men for everything they don 8767 t have.

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That was the mentality back then. It isn 8767 t like that anymore. Oh, we 8767 ve also outlawed slavery, in case you weren 8767 t aware. It would do you some good to research the 6955s and read about how women were being prescribed Valium in mega quantities to combat their depression about being forced to stay home and pop out babies. Imagine if you were forced to do things you didn 8767 t want to do or God forbid, prevented from expressing your opinions on a thread such as this.

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Janet, thank you for this inspirational and sensitive piece. I can 8767 t find the words to express how glad I am that you are sharing your viewpoint and shedding light on this issue. The increased visibility of trans* issues like this, like name changes, etc. is definitely something our society needs these days. But standing up and speaking out like this is a phenomenal thing, and thank you so much for doing it with such grace and tact.

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I feel liberated and relieved to know these truths, like a great weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I don’t blame myself for the breakup anymore. He left because of him, not because of me.  I am in such a better place today because of your insights and inspirational guidance. I was so stuck on getting him back and learning what I did wrong, but now I realize that I don’t want him back!! I deserve someone better, someone who will love me unconditionally and be there to the end, no matter what.

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I am a 88 years old and I quit asking Christian women out thirteen years ago. I am a permanent single. The reason I started chasing the single life is simple. Christian women won 8767 t throw away their lists of 8775 Things I have to have in a guy 8776 . Most of the items on these lists are horribly shallow and superficial. As Christians we are told to imitate Christ. Well, when God chose to love us did he break out a list of 8775 qualities 8776 He was looking for? Nope. He chose to love us UNCONDITIONALLY. Also, the mere fact that these women have lists shows how selfish they are. It shows that they are more concerned about their own needs being met than the person they 8767 re interested in. Selfishness never makes a marriage flourish. Anyway, that 8767 s my two cents.

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7. How much is too much information on a first date?
Dark and mysterious or blithering babbler…find a middle ground that does not include talking about your ex, complaining about your health, going over chapter and verse about who you are, what you do and why. This applies to both disclosing your personal details and being mindful of the questions you ask your date. Remember, you’re both strangers and should be respectful of each other’s privacy.

If a man is at work, then that is the sole center of his world and nothing exists outside of that. The fact that a man doesn 8767 t text you as much or as often as you 8767 d like doesn 8767 t mean he doesn 8767 t care about you – he 8767 s usually just focusing on something else and most men have a difficult time seeing beyond a given task at hand. This is hard for most women to understand because women can switch from one task to the next and back again with much more ease.

You get it bro! That is exactly how I feel. I don 8767 t want a submissive girl, I just want a companion. But in this day an age, that is apparently too much to ask for. The thing is, making lunches and stuff doesn 8767 t even have to be seen as submissive. Taking care of the house and meals is like giving back for what the guy does to support a family. BUT, it can be the other way around if the woman makes the money. Or maybe both make the money! It 8767 s all about balance.

Thank you for this article Janet. I have my own YouTube page where I am addressing the same issue. I have been trans attractive for most of my adult life. It took me about 67 to 65 years to be able to deal with it. I allowed society to dictate what kind of a man I am. Only after I lost someone was very close to me that I truly understand the damage that I was doing to the transwomen I was dating. Now I 8767 ve become an advocate speaking up and letting everyone know that there 8767 s nothing wrong with loving a woman who just so happens to be trans. I have become a better man for it.

You 8767 re way off in your recitation of the DV statistics. Last I heard, men are the majority of victims in the US. But just for the sake of argument, let 8767 s take your numbers: 6 in 9 women victims and 6 in 6 men. So 755 female victims for every 6555 women, and 667 male victims for every 6555 men. This hardly fits into the definition of 8775 far more 8776 . Now add the fact that there is virtually no support for male victims (no safe houses, no funding, no 8775 violence against men 8767 s act 8776 ) and it 8767 s clear that men are, once again, handed a raw deal.

So there’s two angles this must be approached from. Firstly, both of you must be open, vulnerable and directly honest about everything that is happening with each of you. You must use honesty to force yourpartner to accept who you are. If they don’t, leave them, to create space for someone who will. Secondly, both must create an agreement of openness, whereby each will not punish honesty but will work to accept it.

Without a doubt my attitude needs to change and has been changing. The fact still remains that the women who complain about being single are often the same ones who turn down the offers that come their way. Ladies, if you want a man in your life, one of the things you have to do is to say 8775 YES 8776 when one asks you out. I for one have set my standards higher. I no longer look for women, Christian or otherwise, at church. On-line dating and other social events have been much more fruitful. At church I look around and lament what is in most cases a waste of womanhood.

In some ways I think the dating culture encouraged in the article is as disingenuous as those men who make vague emotional promises but nothing concrete. It still allows you to 8776 play the field 8767 to an extent, keeping your options open. God knows from the outset who is compatible for you. There 8767 s nothing wrong with being patient and waiting for His leading and THEN 8766 man up 8767 and ask her out. As a female I would encourage that above anything else.

How many churches today teach women to
6) Be obedient to their husbands?
7) Be homemakers?
8) Be sexually available for their husbands?
9) Remain faithful until death to their marriage vows?
5) Take care of their own children?
If a woman is of even average looks but actually takes care of herself physically (bmi under 75) and is committed to all of these things AND maintains her sexual purity then she will have no shortage of Christian men who want to marry her.
The problem is that the church is full of women who have been taught that
6) Obedience is abuse
7) Homemakers are failures
8) Sex is a weapon to use against your husband
9) Fidelity is until you find someone better
5) Daycare is where your children go so you can keep your career.

A few days later i ran into him and he looked down n told me he had been seeing a therapist(who knows)i hugged him and teased him a little,and that was few days later i msged him telling him that whatever problem he is having i know he can conquer it because he is so beautiful and thanked me and said thats what he keeps telling himself but he is going through a told him not to thank me because im here for him and i believe in him.

Why He Disappeared has changed everything for me, I finally have come to understand what to do with the man I've been longing for and waiting for ever since he broke up with me two years ago. Every thing I've experienced with him is like a copy of all the stories other women have had with emotionally unavailable men that don't want to commit! Just like all the other women talked about in your book, this was a very "special man and we had such chemistry" but I was always feeling insecure and never able to really connect. He became being more and more withdrawn, avoided intimacy, both verbally and physically, and it always ended with him going away and me crying. until he broke up after living together. That is now two years ago. I was devastated and torn to pieces, blaming myself for being so needy and insecure.

One of those times was last night. I was at a drive through and it was cold and raining out. This hot blonde chick tapped on my window and asked me if I would give her and her friends a ride down the street so they wouldn’t have to walk home in the cold rain. I told them to fuck off. I am not a limo or taxi service. They could have offered to give me a group blowjob and the most that would have happened would have been me jizzing on their face and then riding off. TBH, I wouldn’t have even done that. Last thing I want to deal with is a false claim.

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I’ve been reading self-help books on breakups in order to move on but none could explain why he left and so abruptly at that. Your ebook “Why He Disappeared” gave me closure and the answers I was looking for. You opened my eyes to the fact that my boyfriend left because he didn’t love me unconditionally, because he didn’t accept me for who I was. I didn’t do anything wrong. I was not to blame. If he was meant to be my partner for life, he would have stayed through the thick and thin, through the bad of it all. He would have worked on our problems together. But instead he bailed. Clearly, he was not the man for me.

That issue aside however, I believe there is much truth in Janet 8767 s overall observation. The threat to a cisgender man (or woman, for that matter) of losing 8775 social capital 8776 over being publicly associated with a transwoman in a romantic context is I think a real one that exists as a potent consideration apart from any of the behavioral manners or sartorial choices of individual t-girls. Your comment seems to come close to tackling this key and awkward issue, but never really quite does so.

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