Posted: 2017-11-14 16:21
I 8767 m sorry to hear this Sabrina. I am a single mom too. I think basically maybe you guys jumped into things really fast (sorry if I am wrongly assuming) and he was so into you that he pushed aside his fears. Sounds like his fears are in the forefront now that you have been together and reality is setting in but I think it is immature of him because if he truly felt that deep down he shouldn 8767 t have gotten so involved. But, we are all human. I am sure it 8767 s really hard but I would end it sooner than later as he feels so strongly about it. I am so sorry.
Personally I wouldn 8767 t try to replace my kid 8767 s Dad, and I wouldn 8767 t expect a guy I was dating to take over 8775 Daddy duty 8776 while being around my kids. However, realistically, if you 8767 re together long enough that 8767 s likely going to happen at least a small amount. If you end up living together and you walk in on a three year old about to smear paint on your tv, are you going to run up and stop him or just hang back and wait for Mum to come deal with her kid? If you 8767 re that against dealing with children, stay the fuck away from single mums, because I can tell you now they do not need any more heartbreak in their lives.
ciel May 68 7568 66:86 am i honestly think you're taking this too seriously. if other people think otherwise, you don't have to be affected by their opinion. true fans love her regardless of her haters. as i have no problem discussing korean stars with my friends and our opinions often clash, but we don't mind, because we respect each other. the fact that you are belittling people with negative input is narrow minded. when people put negative feedback on my favorite actors, i understand it as long as they give reason.
PARK SHI HOO'S WIFE!! Nov 67 7566 9:68 am honestly i thought you was just some funny pretty boy in "sungkyunkwan scandal" a typical pretty boy idol actor who got the part for his looks not his acting skills omgggg i must say you have proven me WRONG!!! you were Phenomenal in "Deep Rooted Tree" though it was only i believe 9 eps until your character grows up and the older actor becomes the future King you left me breathless just Awesome acting you will be missed the way you and Han Suk-Kyu meshed your characters together you as the King in his years was just OUTSTANDING Bravoo plzz make sure your Agency give you Serious roles because i know you can kick but in this business you have Skills good luck in the future i know you have a Promising Career.
I agree, Hannah. My ex-husband used to tell me what Eric seems to be saying here: he could have married anyone and made it work, but the reason I should feel special was because I was the one he picked. Not because I was special he could have married someone else, I was just the one who met sufficient criteria at the right time. Needless to say, this kind of emotional detachment didn 8767 t serve to keep us together.
As you pointed out, the 8775 Disney depiction 8776 of love isn 8767 t accurate, and the stereotype is that romance novels are similarly unrealistic. However, as a reader, I recognized that while some of the 8775 love at first sight 8776 stories made me want to roll my eyes, others struck me as believable. As an author, I wanted to know why so I wouldn 8767 t make those mistakes in my stories. 🙂
I understand exactly where you are coming from, unfortunately my situation somehow the role is switch, I never dated a man until last child father with so much uncontrollable emotion , that not even a few females satisfied his craving for attention. But I won 8767 t blow his back out, when meeting new people and whoever, I never talk bad or negative about my kids fathers, we had our differences and life moves on, SMH but I keep my side 6555 at all times, no need for a sorry party lol you get what I mean.
To make a long story shorter her oldest had never held a job in his life, and these kids did not help around the house, they would leave messes in their path, and she would clean up after them, and that was her life. When I said something to her, she said she never gave her kids responsibility and that they would learn it themselves. So I tried to help another way: Help them find jobs. The oldest admitted to me that he did not want to work and enjoyed his lifestyle of video games at home. The one showed ambition to work but never showed the responsibility of wanting to actually hold a job. Attempts to help them find jobs were shortlived, as they felt they didn 8767 t need to work. Their mother bought them anything and everything they wanted anyway, gave them no incentives to work for anything, and they loved every minute of it, so what was the point of working?
I wish I had a dollar for every man and woman who called me to say, "I look 65 years than I am, and only want to date people 65 years Really? While I understand what attracts you to youth, I have to ask these callers: "What will they see in you?" This May-December thing absolutely does happen, but it's not something you can totally insist on. If you are only willing to date people significantly than you, that severely limits your prospects and could impede your ability to find the love you want.
Hi guys and gals,
This is great! I am joining the conversation kinda late, however I wanted to share another angle to these great points. As a very women who got married with a child already in tow, I have to say some men can be a bastard and try hard to make a woman feel like 8775 damaged goods 8776 because she has a child, and try to impress upon her that he is doing you a 8775 favor 8776 by marrying you anyway.
8775 For Love Is Not Of The World But Of The Spirit, And You Who Seek Outside Yourselves For Love Look In The Wrong Place, For Already Are You Love. Look Instead For Places Where You May Give Love. For Love Is Not Love Until It Is In Giving Know The Things Of The World, Are Limited And Temporary And Bind One To Suffering. Give Then, That Which Is Unlimited And Eternal And Frees One From Suffering. Give God. Anything Less Is Not Love. 8776
My situation is very thought provoking. I 8767 m 76 about to finish trade school and my girlfriend of almost a year has a 8 year old. We liked each other in high school but she stopped talking to me to get with her baby daddy who left her and doesn 8767 t do anything for the child. We started talking as friends after high school and became serious shortly after. Her daughter loves me, I love her and her daughter, it just bugs me because I never wanted a woman with a baby but I love her a lot. I wanted to start my own family from the ground up. What should I do?
I 8767 m in the same boat as him my gf has 7 kids that have different fathers yet she has them on Facebook this coming from someone who knows its gonna be hard but easy basically if he wants her let her go to him unless he 8767 s a criminal she 8767 s fine it 8767 s a security thing in a mans mined that tells him she 8767 s there with him not with me ower I 8767 m Ed fills the blank with the worst in some cases cheating so hope this helps
People from the same background shouldn 8767 t assume they know the person by a few dates simply because their backgrounds are so similar, everyone is different, people are unique and to have such expectations for someone you just met, is crazy. A really religious jewish man sees some girl who is also really religious and assumes she wants the same things he does, to marry fast and and start popping out children as soon as possible and since the backgrounds are so similar and that 8767 s what to expect, maybe the first couple of dates are those big questions, the interview for the rest of your life, and hey it 8767 s the first few dates, you are still trying to impress each other there 8767 s no way to know that this is the person you are going to love unconditionally and selflessly support for the rest of your life I know time isn 8767 t the most important factor here, but you should allow some time to really get to know your partner before deciding something that permanent that will affect the rest of your life
Ron Nov 76 7569 8:67 pm I am an American male and have started watching Korean drama's. Even though I do not understand the drama That Winter, The Wind Blows. Song Hye-Kyo played her part with great passion and feeling. She made this series successful. She is not only talented. I really hope to see more of her in the future. Great job Lorrainne and God bless!
Please, write in a proper format when trying to sound proper about the idea of love not existing. Maybe you weren 8767 t in love because you wanted to find someone so badly you lied to yourself but that does not mean everyone is doomed. I 8767 m sorry you took Disney films so literal but perhaps they aren 8767 t portrayals of what we all think love should be, but so simple and beautiful only because love and people in this world can be a tumultuous process. Perhaps love brings pain in everyones life at some point and well, Disney helps us tune out and be engrossed in fiction just for that hour or so. I wonder if your ex-wife would like to see you splatter your non-love for her on the web. If she did not love you before, she definitely doesn 8767 t know.
If he would 8767 ve threw in examples of great writers or thinkers
who 8767 ve written about love (a little research for backup?), I would 8767 ve gave him more credit. His letter
gleams nothing except to reveal his ignorance about love, life, and,
like every cheesy love movie out there, to appeal to what women want to
hear. It 8767 s basically equates to the same as a woman writing about how
love is like having a three-some with her husband and some hot chick,
riding motorbikes, instability, double cheeseburgers, obeying you get the picture.
Teena Aug 56 7569 7:67 pm SHK, she's that type of petite beautiful girl with beautiful breasts. Are they real bcz it's really strange for an Asian girl to have that big huge breast. ANyways, they were so beautiful when she did the baby song on Full House. My brothers were watching her and just ooohhhing and moaning and I asked, what's going on with you guys, and they said, my what gorgeous is why I'm asking this question
That is interesting. I think it 8767 s kind of inconsiderate of her to do that to him. Two weeks and no sitter? She didn 8767 t have family or nobody to help her? If you don 8767 t have any way to get a sitter how can you date? It sounds like to me that she just wasn 8767 t interested in the guy because it was a two week advance and she did that because she wasn 8767 t really mature, so I think he did the right thing writing her off.
But love is an emotion.. and more. It involves a readiness to sacrifice for the other person. Most women knew that. Don 8767 t blame your pop songs and your Disney movie if you had not figured out that being in love and loving are different, that it usually requires the first for the second the happen. It could happen much sooner for those who are more predisposed to love and to make sacrifices for someone new. Others need time before they could give themselves up.