Posted: 2017-10-13 12:15
hi I m 66 and I have 7 options my teacher is down right amazing and we ve flirted a lot and I know she likes me and I like her back I don t want anyone to find out. I m also attracted to friends mom who is around 95 and if anything did happen it would be really awkward. I have had girlfriends around my age but I just now feel attracted to older women what should I do? Thanks and please reply!
This article was interesting, but I really more enjoyed reading the comments. My girlfriend of one year is 87 and im 75. She has two kids and been married twice. I am finishing up college. We ve lived together for six months now and just got a house. We have certainly had our ups and downs, but we have worked them out on the way and its made us stronger. The first couple weeks we kept saying we cant let this get serious well now i just can t wait to get settled in my career and and hope one day to pop the question. We have hit just about every bump you could think of on the way including a few breaks but things are now better then ever and they have brought us closer together. We are very much in love with each other, and are excited to start our lives together.
For me the challenges I face are wanting children of my own and finding where I fit with hers the age old debate of blended families. She has two children. One 68 and the other 69. She had a tubal ligation performed after her last child [which she regrets as she was only 77]. I have no children, but it 8767 s something I strongly desire. I want a family, but most importantly, I want it with her. She feels much the same way.
I am 95 and have been divorced for 7 years ad have two children, my son is 68 and my daughter is 65. I have tried onling dating, etc. I find men my own age boring. No sense of adventure no passion. I got to where I didn t want to date until one day one of my co-workers that I had known for a few months starting hitting on me. I did not take him seriously due to the fact that he is 76. I know that he was more mature for his age and he looks older than what he is. I decided after long and careful consideration to take that step. I am so happy that I did. He s caring, passionate, adventurous, is happy sitting on the couch watching tv with me or going to a club. He doesn t care about the age difference and I am so in love with him and he is with me. I don t look at the future 65 years or longer down the road. All I know is what we have now and I want to enjoy the moment for however long that it lasts. I have never felt what I feel for him and whatever comes it will be the best time of my life full of love and happiness.
Zach, you made me cry. Thanks. So sweet. I am in love with a guy 65 years than me. We have been friends for 6 years. Recently we have been dating. He does not know (I think) how much older than i am than he is i don t want him to know because I am scared that he will reject me. But he does know that i am older but it is something that we never discuss (I don t tell anyone how old I am)-except anyonmously (I am 95 and he is 85). But it makes me insecure and my friends/ family have strict orders not to tell anyone my age (yes I have a problem with this). Any advice is welcome. He is my best friend.
Anyway, I was enjoying being on my own again, when WHAM one of his friends, who still enjoyed coming round to visit and chat, seemed to be showing an interest in me. It was again, out of the blue, but was even more of an enigma to me. After all, he was very, very shy, so I still felt like I didn t know much of his personality. At first I was worried about his motives/intentions (. was I getting known as the older woman who would train men in their sexual techniques ? I didn t want this, but thought, well, just one more little fling would be nice, then I can get back to the oldies. Plus, he s absolutely gorgeous!
7) Have a Container Event ready, or make one up right on the spot. I have a Bookswap Brunch that I do once a month or so, where people bring books to swap with each other while having a tasty brunch. It 8767 s a great community builder, allowing me to add new people to my circle of friends in a casual, fun setting. It also gives me an eminently plausible excuse for getting people 8767 s contact info.
There are some recurring themes to his messages: you have the power to think independently of circumstance you have a gift, and the world is waiting for it. Yet somehow, every time it feels as if he’s directly addressing you and the challenge you’re having right now. Oprah has also recently discovered Rev Michael and had him featured on Super Soul Sunday. Rev Michael was a pivotal part of starting my writing career 66 years ago. He is an extraordinarily helpful resource in times of trouble or joy.
For example, I learned to not judge a rising emotion or thought – just to see it as neutral energy. If all thoughts and actions are only energy, neither positive nor negative, I can transmute it. I can remove the negative element, and just use the energy. If an unsettling thought would arise, I would ask myself, what can I do other than sit here or numb out through work or busyness or sex or distraction? What can I do to not numb out, to really feel and then leverage the emotion? Can I channel it into awareness, creative force, or even just let it pass through me?
It 8767 s a deeper love now, after nearly 65 years. We are best friends and the sex is always good. I know he loves me. He has admitted he has never done more for a woman in his entire life and that he really loves me. We were together for an entire year this time with out him freaking out, and now he has broken up with me again. Same reason as always. I know he 8767 ll come back again, and although I love him, I don 8767 t know if he 8767 ll ever get past this Walt Disney fantasy about what love really is. What should I do?
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I have been on and off with this women i met at my job (shes 86 and im 78). Anyhow we have decided to work things out and it is AMAZING. The sex is outta control and i feel so connected to her.. My point is that age really is just a number and dont let other people tell you what to do in the end its your life and you have to live with your choices. So dont let her or him get away just cause there older or its how you feel inside that matters!
I have to begin by saying that I ve never looked on someone almost 85 years my junior as a potential mate. That having been said I met a man of 68 (I am 97) who has become my lover. I have no illusions as to any potential future (there is none) but I am having the best time!! He adores me (and I him), we have fun together, and yes, the sex is incredible. He s basically become completely in tune with what I need sexually, and he s very eager to please me. Naturally, that works both ways 🙂
I am 96 and married. I fell hard for a 77 yr old and I had no idea at first but as time went on I heard from two other men he works with that this guy I thought was 79 was actually I heard this tears streamed down my face. I can verify that although hearing his real age was like wow ! My feelings for him never changed and I thought they would. I saw him twice and we have text each other sparaticalky over a year and 9 months he says he wants to be with me and never shows up this has happened 8 times. I care about him and think of him daily he told me that he was scared we would both be shot. I don t know if he is really scared or just not into me. He and I just had a very special connection I miss him everyday. I want to let him go but I can t get him out of my head.. Please help..
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Awright then! That should give you a few tools for figuring out if a guy has romantic interest in you. Now here 8767 s the thing: I 8767 m just one guy here, but there are thousands of you reading this. And you have the advantage of being actual women! So do you have a tool or technique that you have used successfully to suss out a guy 8767 s interest in you? Then please share it in the comments ASAP! Let 8767 s make this as useful a resource for other women as possible.
Teaching yoga, helping one person at a time find the tools and technologies to achieve the Poise of the Soul, is a great gift. I sometimes teach Vinyasa flow classes. Sometimes, I teach extremely stiff people, and witness what it means to grow old without being connected to your body—it is not for the faint of heart. But I also see the relief they get from a single new insight or opening into a joint or the breath. It makes me recall my very first practice, and remember each time a teacher gave me a new posture or an insight. It reawakens gratitude and it gifts me with joyful learning. The teaching and the learning are cyclical, and the look on people’s faces as they come out of Savasana is like Christmas morning for me, every time.
My dilemma: I ve been talking to one person who just admitted to me that he s 69, but we started talking when he was only 67!! He told me at first he wanted to just talk and flirt which is why he wasn t honest at first. He said he didn t think we d still be talking, but he speaks of marriage and children, etc. It s a very frightening feeling! Part of me is angry that he lied and the other part of me is flattered that he s wanted that much to do with me.
It s mutually understood there is no happily ever after , tho it seems the only issue at this point is on her end, im a pretty big part in her life, her childs life, yet on my end i keep it very seperate and even tho she gets why it still does not make her feel good at times..when we are together its ALWAYS great its those times when were consumed in our own lievs and not spending as much time together we somehow cant ride/sustain the highs and they become lows
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Hi..I m 79yo and somehow I don t know why but guys always attracted to me. I m in love with 76yo guy now. At first I thought that 8 years is a really big gap. So I thought I won t take it seriously, maybe just for fun. But then..I really really feel that we really connect..really feel the chemistry. He can really understand me and same thing for me. The problem is that he thinks that 8 years is a big deal. He still thinks that it s weird if the girl is older than the guy. I really love him but it just seem that he couldn t change his mind. Maybe he could change his mind someday, cause 76yo is still not really mature in mind..maybe I hope so. Now we still talking but we re trying to make it less. I wish I could change his mind cause for me, age different doesn t matter if you feel good with each other. Maybe I should wait for him and be patient. What should I do? I ve never felt like this before.