Posted: 2017-11-14 18:27
I 8767 m 99 and my fiancé is 85. year age difference. We have a lot in common and are the best of friends, and love each other deeply. At age 98 I got pregnant by accident and lost the baby. He wanted to try again but so far we haven 8767 t been successful. I feel bad about that and wish I could give him a child. We are getting married in 5 months and our families are really happy for us. Everyone says they can 8767 t tell the age difference by looking at us lol. I take good care of myself.
Theirs more to life than flirting.
When confronted with a situation the mind reacts
, so when you say that a guy will stand up straight or shuffle
His feet when confronted, it 8767 s no intention of his
Only his subconscious kicking in, because when
Confronted by a beautiful woman a guys last thoughts
Are self-conscious, he 8767 s only reverting to his pay attention
And stare mode which comes naturally to men.
Even when you think were not listening we are.
Because all men really want is to know how
That beautiful, thoughtful, and dangerous deep thinking creature
called female maintains perfection.
This just gave me hope. I 8767 m literally the most shy girl at my school. There has been this guy that I 8767 ve liked since we were in Kindergarden. He was the only guy that was nice and would taIk to me, he still does that but I always thought he would be more attracted to the loud, outspoken, noisy girls. This gives me hope that he might actually like me. My shyness isn 8767 t a curse, it 8767 s a Blessing!
Im facing it right now. I can 8767 t really handle my shyness. Just today my boss talk to me and told suggestion about me. He says that im too shy and i should really make friends with my officemates but im too coward to make the first move. Im less than a month old in the company ive been working now. I dont have any problem with my job but to relate and socialize to people was difficult for me. Im really a shy person but im really trying to adjust to. Maybe im just adjusting with the environment now. But i really love to make friends.
Great site. Glad to be out.
Life too short to 8775 Settle 8776 so remember that ,when you 8767 re next time at a standstill in not going after the 8775 love 8776 you really want. With older lady you 8767 re getting it all imo and that is again most important mature conversation outside AND in the bedroom/in the sheets,and loyalty. You can 8767 t go wrong there ya know. and a mature partner in life unlike games drama that type drama filled chicks bring. GLAD i am wise enough since teen to know the 8775 best 8776 type of lady out here for me is not older.
I 8767 m dating a man 65 years than me we met in the summer of 7557. Though we 8767 ve had more than our share of ups-and-downs, and a lengthly 8775 break 8776 like Ross & Rachel on friends, we 8767 re still working things out. I 8767 m at heart and more fit than most women my age, so I try to keep other people 8767 s opinions about my December/May in the proper perspective. But it 8767 s not always easy!
I am attracted towards a lady who is like almost 6 – 7 years older than me. I am like in late 75s and she is in late 85s I believe.
I am really in love with her sweet voice and elegant personality. Her cuteness and politeness has just crushed me …. I am really in awe of her….
She is well educated, highly experienced and skillful in her profession like of Senior Management Cadre and I am like a junior level person in the organization. She regards high of me and has praised me couple of times but strictly for professional reasons since we never communicated so much on personal level as such as I also find it necessary to maintain decorum in the office.
I badly want to date her and want to befriend her but I am so much confused if I should approach her or not. BDW she is single according to my sources but I am not sure if she is seeing anyone or whether she would approve of this all craziness. I really don’t want to spoil my image in her eyes because But honestly I can’t help it and move on.. 🙁 I don’t know if I should seek some counseling …. Is it just an infatuation???
There is this guy in my school not the same class though who is really cute and super shy. He rarely talks to anyone and I 8767 ve never seen him with any girl. But whenever we cross each other he always looks at me also, sometimes we exchange sweet glances. He sometimes also smiles at me. Does he like me? If so how can I approach him? We don 8767 t have any common class and I 8767 ve never talked to him. And I don 8767 t want anyone to know about my crush. What to do? Please help!
I am a 79 and have always attracted much men. I have found the real love of my life in a 99 year old Jamaican American who determinedly pursued me and won me. He has no ulterior motives our sex life is unbelievably wonderful and he is intelligent, funny, deeply caring and my dearest friend. I am oblivious to the opinion of others..I live for my beautiful guy and we know that we have few years left but we 8767 re gonna live until I die and that, God willing, will be in his loving arms. Love doesn 8767 t recognise chronological differences or social mindsets.
I 8767 ve just started a thing with a guy MUCH, much than me. He doesn 8767 t know how old I am but he 8767 s 85 and I 8767 m 68. I know, it 8767 s crazy. (Moreover, he lives in my building so there 8767 s the potential for much awkwardness in the future.) Anyhoo, we were hanging out as friends for about two months, and I started to become seriously attracted to him. As he always hugs me when saying good-bye, I recently turned a 8775 friend 8776 hug into a full body hug and I think got my message across. Things progressed! We had sex all this past weekend (breaking for me a 6-year 8775 dry 8776 period). And also conversation. The thing is, he 8767 s kind of damaged, but I don 8767 t care. I 8767 m not going to marry him or have kids with him, LOL. He 8767 s pretty much an alcoholic and diagnosed as schizoaffective, but on the other hand, he 8767 s really cute, and he can only tell the truth, has an interesting spin on everything, and seems to be crazy about me. And gave me the best sex of my life! As I said to him last night: Life is full of surprises!
The reason why I 8767 m explaining to you how a man 8767 s attraction system works is so you realize that attraction is not a choice. You do not choose who you are attracted to or not. It 8767 s a reaction that is wired into you. Attraction is a feeling that happens automatically in response to some stimulus. For men that stimulus is usually visual: long shiny hair, straight white smile, big innocent eyes, a curvy body, etc.
i like this guy who goes to my church but havent spoke to him. I did smile at him as a hint and he did catch it!! but when he comes to church he has this good smile and sits either infront of me or behind me. once he had one of his friend with him and said that i like him and so did he say the same to another guy too!! also the same day he made an eye contact with me if u wil take it that way!! bcause it was like he lookind at me directly so i guess it was an eye contact. but please tell me if he likes me or not thanxs
I think it 8767 s repulsive to create a stereotype to shy girls. Don 8767 t assume that we are cowards that can 8767 t speak for ourselves, we can do it but it 8767 s only more painful. About guys, I think it 8767 s just a thing of preference. Not all men will find sm shy cute, as well not all shy girls will be attracted to the popular ones. It 8767 s a matter of learning to love yourself from Who you are, independent of The pressure society puts on us. When you respect yourself, you find sm to do the same.
I 8767 m dating a handsome ,smart and kind loving man 65 years than me. I 8767 m 88 he 8767 s 69. He doesn 8767 t act like a child at all. He cares for me a real gentleman I get shocked and surprised. He amazed me all the time. Is it too good to be true? He never asked me for anything in months both make our own money. Its like all we want is eachothers time. We say we LOVE eachother. I ink he 8767 s my soulmate. Is it to soon? He 8767 s my dream guy but I 8767 m scared to reveal his although he looks older than me.
If it’s something like an 68 or 75 year age difference, chances are it won’t last. There’s no comments in here about an 85 year old woman who’s been with her 65 year old man since he was 85. It’s because they don’t last. A 85 year old and a 55 year old can still have a lot in common and be physically compatible. A 55 year old may even look like they’re in their late 85’s. But once we’re in our 65’s the age gap widens. Most of us start to look older and feel older. The stages we’re at in life are more obvious. You’re not that hot 55 year old who looked like 95 anymore. You’re a 65 year old woman who’s going to be 75 in 5 years. For most men the physical attraction will wane. He’s 95 and can still be with a much woman. That’s tempting. He may start to think he made a mistake years earlier and then both of you will get hurt. Don’t look at Hollywood or these wealthy women who had plastic surgery. Money makes a difference. Sad but true. Having a fling is fine but if you fall in love with that guy and stay together for years, you’re probably going to get hurt. It’s a harsh reality. It’s not worth it.
Great article Mr. Cooper! I can relate perfectly well on how you felt. I feel like I can have a decent conversation with a girl but I still get caught up in this silly fantasy about how I 8767 ll end up getting married to her when I barely know her. Then the anxiety builds and I get really nervous about how the next conversation with her will go. I 8767 ll definitely put these 8 steps to the text. Thanks!
If you think back to your high school or college, who were all the cutest girls dating? The popular and charismatic guys, the ones who threw parties, led the sports team, etc. There 8767 s a reason why the stereotype of the high school quarterback dating the school cheerleader exists. Back in my high school, I can even remember two guys who were very chubby, but they still got girlfriends easily because they were funny and confident.
When I first met my husband it was not hot sexual chemistry but when we got to know each other we clicked very quickly because we realised we had so much in common that now I am actually more attracted to him that guys I found at first to be physically attractive but later turned out to be boring. It is better to have a deep non-physical connection first than for it to start physical and then wear off.
We have lots in common and traveled together lots and have lots of fun. The problem is that he is 67 years 7 years He 8767 s 78 and I 8767 m 95. He wants kids and I 8767 m not sure about having them at my age and in my health conditions. We talked about getting a surrogate. We talked about marriage. He 8767 s not ready to get married yet, but he wants us to be together, like living together. He 8767 s ready for us to move in together.
Part 5 The reason it worked for Mae and I was the 88 years between us didnt bother us and since my wife was busy with work and allowed me to be oncall for Mae it was great. Mae loved that from the first time I made love to her I would call her and thank her for a great time. I told her after the second month that I loved her and her response was I care for you very much. Finally on our 6st anniversary of our affair my wife was away on business Mae and I went out for dinner I brought her roses and back to my house. I carried her up to bed and made love to her I told her I loved her and she finally said I love you.