Posted: 2017-10-13 12:46
I am in high school and care a lot about my grades but at the same time want a girlfriend. I feel like a girlfriend with distract me from school, but it doesn 8767 t matter because I can 8767 t even talk to any girls. I mean there are a couple that I can talk with but in general new girls that I don 8767 t even think look attractive are impossible to talk to. I even have trouble talking to any new person I meet even other guys. I just have a very hard time talking to people. Plus I think half of them are just stupid and don 8767 t even want to talk to them. When I am at home I barely have any contact with other people besides my family. I just can 8767 t talk to new people at all. The way I make new friends is by hanging out with the friends I have and their friends which practically never happens. I haven 8767 t even been invited to a single party and I am a junior in high school. I just feel so alone all the time and have no one to talk to.
Great article Mr. Cooper! I can relate perfectly well on how you felt. I feel like I can have a decent conversation with a girl but I still get caught up in this silly fantasy about how I 8767 ll end up getting married to her when I barely know her. Then the anxiety builds and I get really nervous about how the next conversation with her will go. I 8767 ll definitely put these 8 steps to the text. Thanks!
For the past 8-9 years I 8767 ve been so close to an older woman, she is 96 and im 87, she is a single mother of 7, weve been travelling together and attending a lot of functions together, she is very open minded n we talk about almost everything. I love her n want to be with her for right reasons but I doubt if shell understand it coz as much as shes morden she might also value people opinions and views coz im now even closer to her family at large n her sister is too forwad, I 8767 ve seen some signs that shows that she is interested for sex with me I dont know what to do is like we both always makes excuses to meet each other please help
I wish I could date my college is 88 and I am 76 and I feel a connection between us,I know when I am liked,she always asks me if I do not understand something to come to her desk and ask her I just went to say hi and we spent like half an hour talking about all kinds of stuff,she seemed quite know that she was never married.
I also feel that she can 8767 t go 8775 wild 8776 with me because it would be wrong and unprofessional,in those moments I feel so sad that there are barriers between are moments when she just tries to ignore me but she always cracks a smile when I look at her.
I feel bad for thinking about her,I really shouldn 8767 t.
He always shows up to the gym with a couple of his friends, but they each do their separate thing. He started doing things that would get my attention, like passing the room I was working out in on purpose every time he came in and he even tried several times to approach me, but never had the courage to say anything or introduce himself. Sometimes he ignored me and I was getting so frustrated because I thought he was being rude on purpose, but it took me a while to figure out that he was a shy guy. My friends kept encouraging me to talk to him and make a move because I wasn 8767 t losing anything by doing so, but I am more traditional and I prefer when a man is the one to approach me.
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I like a guy from last 9 is very shy and never starts conversation with me and my friends. We are in same college but different years. He is 65 months than me. I really like him a I tried to talk to him,on that day he confessed that he 8767 s a shy guy and he doesn 8767 t know what should he say. And I would like to tell you more about myself,I 8767 m a outgoing girl,confident but fat. My fat is the biggest barrier between cant communicate with him because sometimes I think he won 8767 t like a fat girl like me. Because of this I 8767 m losing my weight. Gyming 7 hours almost daily. And so call him with few nicknames. And whenever he listens to them he just don 8767 t know much about just know his name and he is a shy guy and a football player. Even he doesn 8767 t know anything about should I start talking to him. Will he ever like an elder and a big girl? Is it possible to take a first move? I 8767 m really very confused. Please reply.
A man is attracted to a women 8767 s ability to grow a baby inside her. A woman is attracted to a man 8767 s ability to grow a baby outside him. How does he do that? Resources. [ ] In any species that survives by cooperation, stuff is gotten through social power. In all social species with pair-bonds, females are attracted to evidence that males display a chance for power in the community. [ ] Humans compete less for territory than for rank. The attention of the tribe is a kind of psychic territory where we harvest the resources we cooperative apes need to survive. He who controls the attention is high status and sexually attractive.
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We kept seeing each other again, but he still didn 8767 t feel comfortable enough to come and say hi, but he was still working out in front of me hoping to get my attention. Two weeks later, he came to work out in front of me again he went to get some water and looked at me and smiled and waved I smiled and waved back and he just kept walking back and forth looking at me. I didn 8767 t want to wait any longer so I just waved for him to come over. He ran over to me and again looked nervous I said hello and he said hello back and smiled. I started conversing with him again asking about work and how he 8767 s doing and he stared at me and said 8775 wow, you 8767 re really short how tall are you? 8776 I just looked at him and laughed at how cute he was, I knew he wasn 8767 t trying to be rude, it was just the nerves talking. He was having a hard time giving me any eye contact during our conversation.
I need some help, I am a very funny person and someone that others love once they get to know me. But for some reason Im extremely shy and standoffish before I become friends or get to know the person. When ever I 8767 m in class I 8767 m always so shy, and I hate it so much, I always wish that I could be like other people and be very out going. Recently I 8767 ve been trying to be more less shy but its really hard, and I need help so that being shy can be in my past
I first saw Mae I was 78. The second time I was 85. I knew she was older but I didnt know how old. We hit it off from the start. Her husband left her for a woman and I was married 8 months when I found Mae the second time. Our affair lasted 77 years til alshiemers claimed her mind. Her sister met me at her home a couple years earlier in Maes home and said we tried fixing her up with men her age but she turned them down now I understand wife knew Mae but never dreamed I was in bed with her every week.
I am dating a man 66 years and he is about to graduate with his Bachelor 8767 s. I still don 8767 t believe he is 76 because he is mature. He makes me smile and we have been together for 9 months. Trust me by the way he looks he can date anyone and I am very secure plus nobody believes I am 87 I do look 75. We age well in my family. But He is attracted to me being secure and confident. He can 8767 t stand most of college girls. If we have any disagreements we get over it pretty quickly and laugh about it. We still till this day act like we just started dating. We click so well and talk about everything. Trust me we both were concerned about our ages but our friends and families are okay with it. Good luck to all but trust me it took a not for me to consider dating him. Hey if older men can date women why not us?:)
. I got a shy guy. He 8767 s over 85. We have talked several times. I initiate all actual conversations but he will greet me on his own now. He usually says hey girl and always end with a nice to talk to you girl if we have a conversation. (sometimes we don 8767 t get to because of busy schedules) he always seems quite nervous and will answer anything with these long drawn out explanations. I notice when we are in lecture he will glance at me and if are sitting where I can see him, he is like a 5 yr old. Fold, unfold legs, foot constantly moving. Up and down in sit. Can 8767 t sit still. He has lightly touched me on my shoulders a few times when talking and he did put his hand on my back once when we were walking but Sometimes after the friendly greeting he is too busy and looks like he is avoiding me, to me. Also, I have invited him to a couple events. He never said no, but indicated it wasn 8767 t his thing. I even asked if he wanted me to continue with invites and he never gave a straight answer I just don 8767 t get it.
Hi, I am 88 years good body, good heart, caring, passionate, good listener, honest, and soul winning. I am not rich but i 8767 m okay. I only want true woman with true love. Age has nothing to deal me but your inner beauty is very important which is your heart. My problem is I am black and some women look down on me. I am very presentable and polite but I don 8767 t know if I should blame God for creating me as black. Please tell me what can I do? Is there any woman in this world who will ever accept me for who I am? Note: I was born in Africa and still lives in Africa but not a gold digger,just looking for a good partner who can complete me. Maybe my miracle can come this time.
I can relate to most of your comments. My reason for being shy is not only because I feel like what I have to say in social settings isn 8767 t interested, but also because it may sound stupid. This is really frustrating for me. I have no friends because of my awkward shyness. The people at my new job doesn 8767 t care to be around me or get to know me. At this point of my life I 8767 ve come to realize that no one would really care if I disappeared one day. I 8767 ve become a nonfactor in life. I really need help on improving my personality.
Ok if your shy because you think what ur saying isint interesting just try to say somthing that fits in the conversation chances are 9 out of 65 of the time you 8767 ll come off interesting and fun also a little self confidence doesent hurt however do not get too cocky nither girls or boys like that so keep it simple and if you like the person be nice funny and what ever you do DO NOT critisize them.
Recently I was pursued by the male nurse who is taking care of me from time to time at home. He is a very distant distant cousin once removed. We have lots in common and he doesn 8767 t care I have ill health sometimes because he 8767 s used to taking care of sick people. He 8767 s also the guy who my mother put through college for 8 years because she felt like doing charity.
I would suggest that you act like a friend with him and when it feels right, ask him to go to an event you both would enjoy a game, a happening in the park, etc. Give him what i call a Diamond Self nickname, like 8775 Captain Ken, 8776 that relates to his hobbies and interests. If he enjoys the nickname he will feel closer to you. See how things unfold. Also, read Love in 95 Days it will help you.
Wishing you love,
You have your eye on a shy girl, but you’re trying to pluck up the courage to talk to her. The good news is that it’s easier than you might think. When you do talk to her, it''s important to be mindful of her feelings and avoid pretending to be something you’re not. By knowing how to approach her, start a conversation, treat her around others, and (if it comes to it) ask her out, talking to her will become second nature.
I am 78 and she is 85. I loved her and cared about her as much as I could. But she always compared with her Ex. I admire her but she always want to be the boss. She thinks I am a kid and she think she know all the thing. These were small problems. The big one is that as she is older, she had her loved ones or soul mate and she will always love him. Now, she choose her Ex, dated him back no matter how I loved her.