Posted: 2017-10-07 08:51
Or, indeed, that all Swedish girls are blond and beautiful. I 8767 m not going to go into how problematic even 8775 positive 8776 national stereotyping is, but come on, now: you 8767 ve lived in Sweden for a fair bit surely you 8767 ve noticed that homely or plain-looking women abound just as much as the gorgeous ones? You 8767 re opening yet another can of worms if you begin to equate 8775 gorgeous 8776 to 8775 tall, blond and busty 8776 by the way. Internalized sexism and internalized racism, that is. I 8767 m honestly really sorry if you feel like you aren 8767 t beautiful just because you don 8767 t look like this ridiculous 8775 white ideal of beauty 8776 that 8767 s been touted since forever by those in power.
Allthose procedures in themselves does not seem too bad to be honest. Except for the real kissing part that does not happen untill its official. I have a soft spot for kissing and if I meet a girl that I am not atleast allowed to kiss then I always figure that she is not interessted in me. It is a big contrast to what I am used to. Over here it is like this, you meet, you do it. And if you like each other you keep on meeting. But it is good to know that things can be slow. In a way it can be alot better because you will really get to know the person before anything serious starts. I will keep all of this in mind =D.
Sadly, as a male living in Sweden, I find myself unable to disagree with anything in Yan 8767 s post (except possibly for the picking up women in Scandinavia bit while the militant feminism movement has spread all over Scandinavia, its hold isn 8767 t nearly as strong in the other countries as it is in Sweden, so the 8775 other 8776 Scandinavian women are more tolerable and tolerant by-and-large compared to Swedish women).
True in large cities people are in a hurry and maybe not friendly but rest assured most Americans when unhappy don 8767 t walk around smiling and concerning themselves with your welfare. If I ask you 8775 How are you doing? 8776 it is because I am letting you know I care about you as a human being. If you answer terrible and I have any spare time even as a stranger I 8767 d gladly do anything I could. This is real happiness and warmth that comes from small town America. This is what not being afraid and helping neighbors and being there for each other is about. Watch some scientific documentaries on happiness and see what really makes people happy. Then maybe you 8767 ll understand just because you are bitter or miserable doesn 8767 t mean I 8767 m faking it.
Hello there, OP. Having read a few of your posts, there are some points I 8767 d like to raise with you. Right off the bat, I 8767 m going to say that I find much of what you say problematic at best, offensive at worst. I 8767 m not spitting with rage, however, as that would not be very conducive to debate, and I hope not to come off as too acrimonious. As such, I 8767 m going to briefly introduce myself. My name is Tove. I 8767 m 77 years old and studying at university in the United Kingdom. I am Swedish, however, and lived in Sweden until just last year, although, growing up, I also spent a lot of time in various parts of the United States. That 8767 s me hey, nice to meet you! and now I 8767 m going to get to the meat of my comment. I 8767 ll warn you right now that it could get fairly long.
Ahh yes, and finally, I am not looking to get married right away as I want some time for my own development. But I also do not want to just hookup and definitely do not want to get girls drunk to do so. Does this exist? Some girls will become devout Muslims when they marry guys from those countries because it is exotic, the girls are naive, and the education system and media are too politically correct to criticize it in the way they have lambasted other religions for decades. And some like African men, even asylum seekers with criminal records because they believe in the myth, because of the taboo nature, or because they think that they can be some kind of agent of social change.
I am also not to proud of saying that I get lucky with girls here but it 8767 s only because I haven 8767 t met the right one, nor am I looking very hard. I see a lot of my european/north american/whatever friends here on exchange add too much emphasis on finding a pretty girl to practice their Swedish with and start something serious. Many of them fail to even hook up because they get too drunk, try too hard, treat local girls as they treat girls in their country, or simply do not assimilate into the dating mode. 8766 When in Rome, do as the Romans do 8767
Here are the types of men you 8767 ll meet on dating sites:
Shameless dirtbags just looking for sex, arrogant, self-absorbed 6s who think they 8767 re 65s because they have a masters degree ( they 8767 re usually just looking for sex too), socially awkward weirdos whose desperation is off the charts, and entitled man-boys who need constant ego stroking and validation. After 85, the dating world is a putrid cesspool.
My other experience with online dating is that black men announce there pockets and material things before they tell you anything of importance about themselves. Every message I received was some brother telling me that he had a good job, a nice car, and his own place. Umm sir, that isn 8767 t an option, it 8767 s a requirement! Your profile says you 8767 re 85+, you better have all 8 of these things for you are grown and we live in an area were public transportation is used to go to work if you have a vehicle or it is your transportation because you do not have a vehicle. Driving is how you can get outside of the city and it 8767 s kind of necessary to have a car. If you do not have a car, something ain 8767 t right lol. Fellas are the stereotypes that bad? If they are, why do you play into them? How many women walk around saying, 8775 Hello my name is Jackie and I have a good job, a nice car, and my own place. What do you do? 8776 O_o?
You could come here and have a really succesful could also come here and get slaughtered and embarrassed,and because you don 8767 t speak the language,you probably wouldn 8767 t even know!
Try not to fall into the trap of 8775 generalizing 8776 mate,because doing that can get you into a lot of trouble.
There are Swedish guys who are real fannies and there are Swedish guys who 8767 d scare members of MS68! I hope you know which ones to call 8775 fussy 8776 son! )
Yet at the same time I have always been extremely progressive. I would want a woman to be highly educated and to work outside the home as I would want her to have some independence if something happened to me. I also believe in evolution, sex-education, reproductive rights, and gender equality. And I live a very ecofriendly lifestyle, am concerned about climate change, and believe in universal healthcare.
I found your blog through oh, I don 8767 t know, some google search or other sometimes I like to read about places I 8767 ve been or lived in my spare time and thought your post on what is acrid and detestable about Sweden was a riot a laugh riot, that is, and I 8767 m not being condescending in any serious way I genuinely found it rather entertaining, as satire goes. The comments were something else, but then, obviously that 8767 s not your fault.
I don 8767 t go up and talk to woman I think is the most beautiful, which I admit is cowardly. I 8767 m great around guys but horrible around girls. Honestly the ones I knew who are great with girls either don 8767 t revere them as much as I do (most likely my mistake) thus aren 8767 t afraid or are gay/metrosexual and aren 8767 t really interested in that way. It 8767 s funny because once I do I have a conversation I have a great time.
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I’ve recently been on vacation in America. I’m from the UK. During this holiday me and my friends met a couple of Swedish girls. We met up a couple of times for drinks and on the last night we slept together. The problem is I actually really like this girl and would like to see her again and be more than a one night thing. She gave me her number to get in touch afterwards but she only rarely replies to any messages. My question is, are Swedish women used to being chased? Or is the fact she only now and then replies to my messages mean she’s not interested? Any advice on how to approach from here would be appreciated :)
Yeah, I agree, it is pretty uncomfortable. Maybe she just wanted to respect her boyfriend as some men could get jealous if they see their girl teaching another guy how to dance. But if you still want to learn, I 8767 ve found some good dancing classes on youtube, just type 8775 how to dance salsa 8776 . And the good thing is that if you are kind of shy of looking like a fool, this is a good way to learn. And also you can repeat it over and over until you get it!
In Sweden, which is one of the most modern, equal and secular societies in the world, it`s more socialy accepted and not frowned upon that swedish women socialize with foreign men. This is something swedish women has embraced and is also a sign of freedom from predjudice and norms. Something that you can`t say about most countries in the world. In the of A you still talk about 8775 interracial couples 8776 and 8775 racemixing 8776 , but it`s the same in the East when they talk about 8775 bloodlines 8776 .
I fully understand your point and your draw to swedish males. It is the same for me. I really love latin women for example. Curves at the right places and all that. Not to mention those big brown eyes and that firm but reasonable attidude towards men, and that dark hair. So even if its based on different things, I can really understand =D. I hope you find your guy and even if he is shy about certain things, I can only recomend that you should not be. Lol =))
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My family has a swedish background i may not be a fully swedish but i have swedish traits. i dunno why i adore swedish girls but its mainly got to do with blonde hair and blue eyes, in which i have but a brown blonde. I been looking into chatting to a swedish girl since yesterday cause i learned about whats happening guys taking on old genetics. You swedish girls are very beautiful and soo nice ive heard about the marriage rates it seems love over there is a lost meaning.
Wow what a response to your post. Spans the years and scrolls forever! Well done. May I add to it? Mine is a question. Years back and by years, I mean early 8767 95s, a friend and I had a chance to travel to Stockholm. I was much (late 75s), single (about a month after a painful breakup), and impressionable (I was knocked out by the preponderance of beauty roaming the Stockholm scene.)